Sunday, November 25, 2018

To the cinema, Mr Wong and Mr Wang arrived late, Hello Lobster, a choir rehearsal, the Gibraltar obstacle in the Brexit agreement and other stories.

Sunday 25th November 2018

Doing my French homework just before our lesson on Saturday
Good morning all.

I hope you have all had a good week. Mine has been busy and with its ups and downs as usual. It's also been pretty exciting working on the PR part of the launch of a brand new mobile operator in Spain called Lobster, targeted at British and other English speaking residents in Spain, a niche in the market which has previously been untapped. There is anything up to about 1.5 million British and English speaking people residing here permanently. That's an awful lot. It's funny actually as I am one of them aren't I? But more about Lobster later.  

Last Sunday was a family day in many ways as Oli was with us. Eladio and I ventured out in the morning for our walk with the dogs. It was an overcast and cold November day and the hunters were out shooting pigeons and rabbits, thus we had to keep all 3 dogs on their leashes. I do hate the killing of animals and in Spain it is seen as a sport and I detest that. What I did appreciate were the lovely autumn colours on the leaves. Oli, meanwhile, went swimming to the nearby gym. Our young Airnb guests, Alba and her boyfriend Michael left in our absence and I hardly saw our English guests at all that day.

I came back to make the lunch and also to work on version number 9 of the Lobster press release in English and in Spanish. It was supposed to be ready to go live on Tuesday morning but thankfully was postponed to Thursday giving us all a bit more time to be ready for the news to go live. 

We had lunch together, that is my Father, Oli, Eladio and I. At 4 o'clock we were due at the cinema which meant we only had 30 minutes to watch the news and try to sleep a short siesta. Oli woke us up at 3.30 and soon we were out and in the rain. It was very cold. Both Oli and I wore our new coats. I love my tartan one but it's not as warm as a puffer jacket. There was no room for complaint though as in other parts of Spain they had it much worse. There were terrible storms and flooding in the Canaries and in parts of the Mediterranean coast.

We went to see the film I mentioned in last week's post; The Photographer of Mauthasen, the concentration camp in Austria where most of the Spanish republican prisoners were sent and most of them to their death. Directed by Mar Tarragona it tells the true story of how one of the inmates, Francisco Boix, played by Mario Casas, is able to smuggle out thousands of reels and negatives of photos taken in the camp which portrayed the ugly truth the Nazis wanted to hide.  Francisco who was an amateur photographer was taken on to assist the camp photographer, an SS Nazi. The Nazis were given to taking photographs of all that went on at the camps. When they realised they were losing the war, orders were given to destroy all evidence. That was when Boix decided to keep as much evidence as he could with the help of trusted fellow Spanish republicans and a nearby German neighbour. The reels and negatives were hidden in crevices all around the camp and when it was liberated, Boix gathered them all. He later testified at the Nuremberg trials and the evidence he had smuggled out was instrumental in the sealing of the enemies' fate. In fact, it is said, that the camp with the most graphic evidence is Mauthasen. Sadly, Boix, probably suffering from the torture he underwent, died in 1951. I would have loved to listen to the man's personal story of his heroic deed. The film is pretty gruesome as you can imagine but I missed a better ending with details of the liberation and of his contribution at the trials and life afterwards, as a photographer in France for a communist magazine. What a hero Spain has and doesn't really recognise.
The film we went to see on Sunday
We hadn't been to the cinema for a very long time. In fact we didn't remember the last time we had been. The local cinema, Equinoccio, had been completely renovated and I was bowled over by the seating.
Oli and I at the cinema on the reclining seats last Sunday
It was a bit like business class seating on a good aircraft and we could recline on the most comfortable seats with a leg rest. I was worried I'd fall asleep but I didn't.

We walked out into strong rain and ran to the car, umbrellas in hand. We were home at about 6.30 with time for leisure before dinner. We chose to read in the lounge with soft lighting and music in the background. Oli chose to do her French homework. I should have done mine too but felt lazy.

Later we had a healthy dinner - tuna fish salad again. Oli left shortly afterwards and we wouldn't see her again for a few days. We went up to bed to watch the news but the football was on. England was beating Croatia in the Nations League. They won 2-0 which means England goes through to the final four. It also means Spain is now out of the competition. Instead we started watching Season 2 of a series we had loved on TVE a few years back, "14th April The Republic" (La República), a family saga set in the times of the second Spanish republic in the 1930's. You may not know if you are not familiar with Spanish history, that on 14th April 1931 republican forces formed a so-called democratic government, doing away with the monarch - Alfonso XIII abdicated - which later surrendered to Franco in the Civil War on 1st April 1939. They were convulsive times. We are loving this series.
A scene from La Republica
Monday dawned and amazingly the rain had disappeared at least for a day. Monday is market day so after some work, off we went to stock up on fruit and veg for the week. Sorry I forgot to take a photo although as usual the display was marvelous. We came home to unpack everything and then I had to get on with making lunch: vegetable soup, meat loaf, steamed vegetables and baked apples.

There was no siesta for me that day as I had to continue my work if the press release we were fine tuning and tweaking continuously was to go out this week. Thankfully I would have 2 more days for preparations. You can't imagine the work that goes on behind just one press release.

There was time for a walk, albeit a bit late and on our way back it was already dark. Thankfully the path was illuminated by the distant street lights. I came home to do some more work and there was even time to read in the lounge. Then it was dinner time. We had the most delicious Ibérico ham with a salad and then it was time for bed. There's not much to mention about the news that day. We continued watching La República at the same time on the lookout for messages from Mr. Wong and Mr. Wang, 2 guests who were due to arrive very late, at about 1.30 am. I kept hoping nothing would go "wrong" with Mr. "Wong" hahaha. Well, it did. I didn't really know who they were as  on Mr Wong's profile there were Chinese characters only, no reviews at all, the only information being that he lives in Athens! I hate it when I don't know who my guests are. It's a bit risky. However, out of 160 guests since February 2017 since we started we have had no problems. My latest arrival time is 9 pm and I hate it when guests ignore it. I would love to be able to cancel  reservations for people arriving in the middle of the night but can't do as I would lose my Airbnb super host status. They were to ring me by phone when they arrived as we can't hear the door bell from our bedroom. The alternative to interrupting our sleep would have been to leave the keys in the letter box but then as the house is so massive, guests would not know how to enter the house or find the rooms. I kept waking up to check my phone. 1.30 went by and no sign of them, so did 2 and 3 o'clock and then my God I got the phone call at 4.15 in the morning - that was just no on. Eladio came out with me to receive them as I was a bit stressed about doing it alone. They really interrupted our night and it was difficult to get back to sleep again. Thankfully I woke up a bit later than usual the next day, Tuesday, at 7.45 while Mr. Wang and Mr Wong slept on peacefully. I had a feeling they would be troublesome guests but thankfully they weren't.  I wondered what their review would be like. Mine would not be glowing after that false start I'm afraid.

Tuesday came and rain was forecast - when would it go away I wondered? There have been more floods in the Mediterranean, mainly in Catalonia, Valencia, Murcia and Alicante as well as the Canary Islands. Thankfully we haven't had any here so far. The climate change is a fact and it's here to stay.

On Tuesday I had loads of work to do, mostly compiling my media list to include telco and business press as well as the English speaking press in Spain. The latter would prove a challenge and take up most of my time.

Tuesday 20th November was the anniversary of the death of Spain's dictator Franco but I think it went largely unnoticed in Spain and was only mourned by a few diehards that do exist, most of them elderly. No doubt some of them went to the Valley of the Fallen where he is buried to pay homage. However, his remains will soon be removed but it is yet to be seen where. I never thought about it at all on Tuesday. However, I well remember finding out about his death on 20th November 1975. I would have been just 18. I was in London with a Spanish friend from the Valencia region. When we saw the news banners in the streets, probably selling the Evening Standard and saw the words "Franco is dead", Ana, my friend, burst into tears. I remember her saying "ay pobre "Franquet"!" (Oh poor little Franco). However, not all Spaniards were upset when he died. Many of them had bottles of champagne in their fridges cooling for when he died and to celebrate the end of dictatorship. Democracy came about very soon but still Spain is divided between left and right, a heritage of the Civil War. Today there is a division on where his remains should go. A generation of Spaniards who grew up during his reign, including my husband, were brainwashed in his favour and, even today, remember the good things he did more than the bad. In any case, as I say, thankfully, this year's anniversary went largely unnoticed and wasn't even mentioned on the news.

Meanwhile, my guests from Athens, Mr Wong who is originally from Malaysia and Mr Wang who is from China, slept on and didn't emerge until about midday. Later I asked them what they were doing living in Greece and was told their work was to do with importing clothing from China. Interesting! I offered them coffee and tea. Mr. Wang was hungry, helped himself to one of my mandarins and, feeling sorry for him, I offered him some toast. It turned out that they had come to visit Madrid but had not hired a car, despite my suggestion. Thus they had to take a taxi into the city. They didn't leave until about 1.30 pm and I didn't see them until the next day when they would be going.

I didn't think much about them that day as I was so busy with the Lobster launch. That day I spent the whole morning googling English media published in Spain and getting the emails of the editors or the news desk. That was no easy task. I must say there are a lot of publications. I just wonder what the readership is.

Somehow lunch appeared on the table again - the miracle of every day - and then it was time for the news and a short rest. The main news in Spain that day was the possible announcement of a general election in May as the minority socialist government is unable to gain votes for next year's general budget. We also heard that Mr. Sánchez, while visiting Morocco, had announced a a proposal for a 3 country and 2 continent World Cup candidacy to include Spain, Portugal and Morocco. That would be interesting. I think it was for 2030, so a while away. The main international news was about the Brexit agreement - every time I hear Teresa May mention limiting "freedom of movement" I cringe. The thousands of Central Americans were gradually arriving at Tijuana on the US Border. Trump closed the border for a while and then a light on the horizon for the immigrants appeared. A US Judge ruled that the US President could not stop them requesting asylum and that anyone coming to the US border could request it. I wonder what is going to happen. It's not an easy situation.

Nearer home, in France, yellow jacketed picketers (les gilets jaunes") were disrupting traffic all over the country in protest of increased fuel charges and other rising prices under Emanuel Macron's government.  That caused huge delays at the Spanish border. Their riots and protests would go on all week until on Saturday things turned nasty and the police were called in. They used tear gas and water cannon to disperse the protesters in the French capital which looked like it was under war.  Their protests were not only about fuel prices and rising prices in general but about low salaries, unemployment and increasing poverty in France. Increasing poverty in France? How can that be? It's increasing in the UK as well, as we saw in a damning report this week, and in many other places. Many of the rioters pointed out they have no confidence in politicians, many of whom have huge fortunes, when they find themselves in the red by the middle of the month.

Riots by the gilets jaunes in Paris on Saturday night. 
Life isn't easy in Spain either. Although we are officially out of the crisis, there is still far too much unemployment. In the budget for 2019, submitted to the EU, the government wants to increase the minimum wage from 600 to 900 euros a month. Brussels says that will set Spain back. But what about the minimum age workers I ask? Who can live on 600 euros a month?  300 more is not going to help much but please Brussels Eurocrats, try and understand their situation when evaluating Spain's budget, from the comfort of your life in the EU.

Life is easier for us, now that we are in our in our 60's and 70's but even so, I lost my job 2 years ago and have had to fight back and be creative in supplementing the lack of income with PR projects that come and ago and mainly through filling our own home with guests via Airbnb. I don't do it for pleasure I can tell you, but out of necessity.

In the afternoon, miracle of miracles, the sun came out and we went on our walk. Our walk takes up a big chunk of our daily time, 1.5h, but is so necessary for both our bodies and minds, not to mention the dogs who need it just as much.  It would be so much easier to say it's raining or that I am too busy but I force myself to make the effort always and I know it pays off.

I came home to do more work and was busy until dinner time when I stopped to prepare the "acelgas" (chard), a vegetable I have recently added to our diet. You can guess the end of our day; up to bed, watched the news, continued watching La República and fell asleep. I slept a bit better that night but blast, woke up 3 times before I was up and wide awake at 6.10.

I was up in darkness on Wednesday morning and beat Lucy to the kitchen. Thus it was me who gave the dogs their breakfast. It's a bit like feeding time at the zoo. I wish someone could tape the process hahaha. Elsa is the fastest and her food flies all around the kitchen hahaha.

It was a hard morning's work on Wednesday. I had to finalise my media list and prepare over 40 emails addressed to about 80 journalists in Spain. They were to remain as drafts until Thursday morning when they would need final tweaking until I got the green light to go at 11.30 on Thursday.

Just as I began work, I got a pleasant surprise. Suzy made a whatsapp video call from Bali that morning. It seemed so long since we had spoken. She looked lovely. She told me she was on a fasting diet, drinking only water that day. We always speak about diets, hahahah. She is doing fine, her only problem being getting a good internet connection for her online English lessons. I wish I could help her.  It's less than a month now until we see her next. We spoke about our trip to see her, hopefully at the end of March. We have been debating spending 10 days with her in Bali and that, while in the region, fly to Vietnam for 5 days and also to Laos for another  5 days. Or maybe we should include Cambodia.  Wouldn't that be wonderful? It's so exciting to be planning a  new long distance trip to exotic locations. Watch this space.

By lunchtime, all my work was done, leaving me free for the rest of the day. Although our Airbnb check out time is 12 midday at the latest, our Malaysian and Chinese guests, Mr. Wong and Mr. Wang made no signs of life. At 12.15 I had to go up to remind them it was past check out time. In the end they didn't leave until 1.30. Wednesday night would be guest free, apart from our long term lodger Andy but only until Thursday when Alba and Javier would be coming and someone called Zigor  on Friday. Zigor would be occupying Andy's room as he has gone home to France (Antibes) to spend the weekend with his family. November has been surprisingly busy this year compared to last year. Airbn was in the news this week and got a lot of criticism after announcing closing down short term rentals in the Jewish occupied settlements. I'm not sure that was a good move on their behalf. I also believe companies should try to steer away from politics.

After lunch with my Father we watched the news. The worst story this week, for me at least, is about starving children in Yemen. I can't bare to see their photos. It's so, so sad and so, so unfair. The war with Yemen is one I don't really understand but it seems so damned pointless, like all wars. Oh how I hate war and violence.

We had a lovely walk that afternoon. It was sunny but the path was exceptionally wet and muddy as there had been a tremendous shower of rain earlier that day.  This week we only missed one of our walks. On Friday I would be weighing myself again and was hoping all this exercise would help in my particular battle of the bulge hahaha. But actually I only lost 200 grammes:-(

At 7.10 I had an appointment with a dermatologist to remove a small and unsightly blemish on my forehead; well 3 actually, that I have wanted to remove now for a while. The lady doctor sprayed something that removes skin spots that are not dangerous but could become so unless treated. My brother George died of melanoma in 2001 in his mid 40's so I am very wary about my skin as I am also fair like he was. At 7.30 I had another appointment at the same private clinic, this time to get my much needed sleeping tablets from Dr. Crespo.

Both doctors were free to see me early and amazingly, I was out of the clinic by 7.20. From the clinic I drove to Carrefour Market, inspired by their 5% coupon discount that day on all products. Thus I bought some more delicious Ibérico ham and other stuff and was home by 7.50. Dinner was simple, superb and a complete fit with the Mediterranean diet, we all try to follow in this house. We had the ham with the most amazing thick and juicy asparagus I had bought at the market on Monday.

As usual, it was early to bed. I took Pippa up to bed to be with us until it was time to sleep when Eladio would take her down to the kitchen to spend the rest of the night together with Elsa. She immediately took Eladio's place in bed and it made me laugh. Here she is curled up right by his pillow, smothered in thick cotton sheets and obviously feeling like a queen. Well she is the Queen of our house but I think you already know that.
Pippa occupying Eladio's side of the bed on Wednesday night
Not all the news on the TV that night was bad. After more politics and more news on Brexit, it was a relief to hear about this year's new Michelin star awards. I tried to look up the statistics but didn't find them. What I did learn though is that Spain is one of the countries with most Michelin stars in the world. For 2019 Spain has 190 1 star (25 new ones) 32 2 star and 11 3 stars restaurants up and down the country. I think this very much illustrates just how important the country is when it comes to top quality food. Spain is very much a foodie tourist destination.

Having finished watching the last episode of La República available on Amazon Prime, we turned to a new series, La Verdad which had just added 2 new episodes on its platform. They had us wide awake until way past midnight. Thus it was later to sleep than usual on Wednesday.

Thursday was my big day. Finally the news of the launch of Lobster was to be announced and it was up to me to get as many clippings as possible from the news. The responsibility was enormous. At about 10.30 I got the final versions of the press releases and then the final images to accompany them. Then the big job of sending it out was mine and would take a while to write personally to some 40 journalists and send it to about 80. It wasn't exactly breaking news but I was trying to sell it as such. Now I can reveal the company brand and corporate identity. It's fresh, simple, English and has a decided touch of British humour. I love it.
Lobster's logo and corporate identity
As the services won't be available until December, this was the corporate launch, not the tariff launch,  so on social media we had to publish a coming soon type post. This was it and I love it too.
Lobster, Spain's only all-in-English mobile operator for British and English speaking residents in Spain, coming soon.
So why the name Lobster I bet you're wondering? Well, here is the official explanation: "We think it's something different and refreshing that can be associated with the good life. After all, sun and wonderful food is to be found in Spain. " As to the brand itself,  "the Lobster brand was created to establish an emotional bond with British values and service. The DNA of the company is "English, easy and effortless", together with a personality that is authentic and straightforward. Its offering is based on simplicity and understanding the customer so that they will be able to enjoy a service and customer experience "like home".  I hope it takes off with English speaking residents when we launch in December. Do me a favour friends and readers, please help me spread the word by following us on Twitter. This is the Lobster twitter handle: @lobster_es. Thanks.

As I was sending the release, I was already getting calls from journalists to clarify the news or answer questions. And even before I had finished sending it out, there were articles already published on-line. I did follow up work all day to monitor the clippings and there were loads of them. However, I didn't see any clippings from the British press in Spain but maybe it's early days. All in all I hope the management of my customer is happy with the media coverage.

Basically Lobster took up my whole day. On the other side of the pond it was Thanksgiving Day. I have a lot to be thankful for I must say but we didn't eat turkey on Thursday. We only ever eat it at Christmas really. 

During lunch I ate in between responding to messages, hardly focusing on my food. We watched the news of course. In Spain the government was up in arms about the Brexit agreement with the EU as there was no mention of Gibraltar. Spain insisted it had the right to oversee anything to do with the Rock after Brexit and  said it wouldn't vote for the agreement to go through.  The political crisis lasted until yesterday. What I couldn't watch were the dreadful images of famine struck children in Yemen again. It's just awful. 

Amazingly I slept for at least an hour after lunch and woke up when it was nearly dark. It was wet and cold and that day we skipped our walk I'm afraid. I tried to read but kept being interrupted by more journalists interested in the story of Lobster. The clipping that pleased me most came from El Mundo, Spain's most viewed news site (3.6m readers) and on the front page. That was a feather in my cap. But I was to wait until the next day and the following days to get the full coverage from my press clipping service, JP Media who do a great job.

That night, Alba and her fellow student, Javi, were arriving. Thankfully, as Alba has been before, I was able to leave the keys for them in a hidden place, thus I never heard them coming in. Alba and Javi will be coming between 2 or 3 times a month from now until June. This weekend the house was full of guests again, although they have all left this morning.  That's not bad for November, the height of the low season.

Friday came and thankfully the pressure was off work wise, although I would be compiling all the clippings to send to my new customer. It was Black Friday which I largely ignore. I was very cross that Amazon completely ignored its reader customers and that there were no discounts for kindle books which would have probably been the only thing I was interested in. I hate the invasion of American traditions in Europe like Halloween and now Black Friday. Thank goodness, so far, we have not been tainted by Thanksgiving.

When I got the media clipping bulletin I was extremely pleased to see we had garnered 44 articles, some in major and some in more insignificant media, but 44 in total is just great for not-so-big corporate news as a lot of media steer clear of it, considering the news publicity. I didn't see anything in the English press in Spain though in media like The Costa Blanca News and that is something I have to work on.

Andy was off that day back home and I was determined to go to Ikea with Eladio to buy him a desk and chair that blends better with his room. Eladio had put given him our  old PC desk which is probably 20 years old  - we bought it when we bought our first computer at our old house - and a horrible red plastic chair. When we got to Ikea I had forgotten it was Black Friday. It looked like Ikea had too as there was no discount for the white table and chair we bought. Later, poor Eladio, would assemble the desk. I am always grateful that I married a man who is good with his hands as I am not. He spent a good part of the afternoon on the difficult to assemble little white desk. However, I suspect he liked doing it. I bet he would have loved a meccano set when he was a kid but he never got one.
Eladio setting up the new desk from Ikea
From Ikea we drove to Mercadona to do the weekly shopping. We were home by 12.30 and on time to make the lunch as well as look at the new clippings that had come in.  It was while we were having lunch that Zigor from Bilbao arrived. I had completely forgotten he was coming and when Andy left for France that morning we hadn't cleaned his room. So it was panic stations to get it ready asap. I think it's the first time I have ever forgotten a guest was coming. He's another student at the UEM local university and came to do a course this weekend for triathlon coaches. Good for him.

Friday was a sunny day, although crisp and cold. Thus we had a lovely walk that afternoon with the dogs. It was dark when we came home but I had at least an hour to myself to do what I wanted before dinner. I chose to sit in our lounge and start my new book, Michele Obama's biography which has just been published and is called "Becoming". I think I'll like it.

We did not go out to dinner that night. Usually we do on a Friday evening, but not since I am on a semi strict diet. Instead we had a delicious prawn salad in the kitchen. Our young Airbnb guests arrived home when we were already in bed.

Oli, meanwhile, was in Madrid at a choir rehearsal. It wasn't any choir rehearsal but a gathering of her old choir from St. Michael's school. One of the ex members had suggested that old school choir members participate in the school's anniversary and thus the idea for a Christmas concert came about. Their old choir master, Javier - can't remember his surname - a brilliant and young musician, was all game for it. So, on Friday night, former members of the choir met with him in Madrid in an amazing reunion for their first rehearsal.  Oli said she felt  she was on Cloud 9 and I can imagine it. The girls were very active members of the school choir which, under Javier, won many prizes. We went to all of their concerts and have happy memories of their choir days. We shall not miss the concert in December at the San Francisco El Grande church in Madrid. Suzy will take part too, although she can't go to the rehearsals as she is in Bali. Javier has sent her the music to study and I know she is really looking forward to singing in the choir again too.
Oli at the St. Michael's choir rehearsal on Friday for former members 
We watched the news of course, all about the political crisis regarding Gibraltar and the Brexit agreement with the EU. Pedro Sánchez, was far away at a historic meeting in Cuba, must have had his mind on the Gibraltar issue more than anything else. He was criticised for not meeting the Cuban opposition party but at least the question of human rights was on the table. From far away Havana, the Prime Minister was threatening to veto the EU agreement for Brexit. These were stormy waters.

I fell asleep soon after the news and for once got quite a good night's sleep, waking up on Saturday morning at 7.20! I felt very rested.

Saturday was a cold but sunny day. Oli and I had our weekly French lesson that morning. I hadn't done my homework so a couple of hours before Helene arrived, I sat down to do it. It was all about when to use "c'est" and "ce sont" as opposed to "il est/elle est/ils sont/ elles sont". It's quite confusing at times. I got Eladio to take a photo of my studying in the dining room yesterday before my lesson as I needed a photo to illustrate this week's post.

Oli came home just for the lesson and departed immediately afterwards. She had a busy social life this weekend. At least, though, she and Miguel will be coming for lunch today to brighten up our weekend.

It was yesterday at 3pm Madrid time that Pedro Sánchez, already back from Havana, announced the issue of Gibraltar in the Brexit agreement had been solved. He had a letter from the UK Government and another one from the EU guaranteeing that the Spanish government would have a say in all future issues with Gibraltar, negotiating directly with the UK. In these new circumstances, he said, Spain would now back the plan. Back home, Teresa May was described as having given in on the Gibraltar issue. She didn't say much about the diplomacy crisis but made it very clear  that the sovereignty of the Rock was not an issue as Gibraltar was part of the family of the UK and always would be. So what do I think about that you may wonder? I have mixed feelings really. It seems a bit of an anachronism that a small piece of land in Spanish territory belongs to the UK because of the Treaty of Utrecht some 300 years ago. I wonder how the UK would feel  if the tables were turned and Spain owned the Isle of Man for example? On the other hand, the Gibraltarians themselves, about 30.000 people, are staunchly against any change of sovereignty. Well, of course they are as they are far richer than the area around the rock belonging to Spain, mostly because the rock is a sort of tax haven and a lot of the riches are from smuggling and dubious business activity. It's a hard nut to crack and the issue will not go away but at least the political crisis is over for the moment.
The Rock of Gibraltar where up to 10.000 Spaniards cross the border to every day to work. 
In the afternoon we went back to Ikea as Eladio thought the base of the chair we had bought was the wrong one. It turned out it was the right one, so our journey was pretty useless. Actually it wasn't as once there I was able to buy the led candles I wanted for our lounge. What a lovely invention they are.

Finally yesterday afternoon, the work area of the ground floor room  was ready for Andy's return and for future students renting the room when he goes. This is how it looks now, a great improvement on the horrible old fashioned brown desk and red plastic chair that were there temporarily until yesterday.
The new work space area in the ground floor bedroom. 
We had to content ourselves with the walking we did at Ikea - it is immense - as it was too dark when we got home for our normal walk. I felt guilty for the dogs of course but happy to curl up in the lounge with my book surrounded by soft lighting and music in the background.

Today is Sunday and I woke up to rain. How dismal. Where is the autumn sun? It keeps coming and then going again. My three young student guests have already left and Zena has started on the rooms. Andy is back tomorrow from Antibes and we  only have two guests coming next week so there is plenty of time.

I shall be spending part of my time this morning making a lovely lunch for Olivia and Miguel - roast chicken with roast vegetables, the last of the ones we bought at the market on Monday last.

Now I have reached the end of the tales of this week. I wish I could be writing from some place exotic - like Vietnam, Cambodia or Laos  but that's not to be for the moment.

Wishing you all a great week ahead, cheers until next Sunday,
Masha





Saturday, November 17, 2018

No British leaders in Paris for Armistice Day, Oli in Austria and home again, terrible fires in California, Nokia girl lunch, mother and daughter retail therapy and other stories

Sunday 18th November, 2018
There was time on Wednesday for coffee with a friend and ex Yoigo colleague, Belén.
Good morning again. How are you all?

This week has been busier than usual which is nice for a change as my life has been a bit too quiet over the last few months.

Last Sunday was of course the Centenary of Armistice Day. There was a large gathering of 60 world leaders in Paris leading the Remembrance Day, in a huge show of unity, including Emmanuel Macron, Angel Merkel, Donald Trump and Vladimir Putin. All the allies and the defeated were there except for one of the principal allies, England. Where was Theresa May in all this?  Well, back in England with the Royal family who held their own Remembrance Day. I found that odd but maybe in keeping with the fact that England wants out of Europe. There has been no news of this in the media. Is it just me who has noticed this? 
60  leaders  from around the world gathered in Paris on Armistice Day but where was the British leader? Whey wasn't she in Paris?
I am pretty sure lower ranking British officials were there but it's not the same. In my view England could have held its own events in England presided over by the British Royal family and the Government leader and leaders could surely have joined their colleagues in Paris. It's funny isn't it when you think that one of the great lessons to be learned from WW1 and WW2 was precisely the union of nations and here is England who should have learned that lesson, ignoring the rest of the world. I don't like that.

In London, Prince Charles who this week turned 70, laid the wreath at the Cenotaph as the Queen and the rest of the royal family, dressed in black and all wearing poppies, looked on from a balcony nearby.
Prince Charles laid the wreath at the Cenotaph on Sunday for the second year in a row, on behalf of the Queen. 
It's the second year the Queen has handed over this task to Prince Charles in what maybe a sign of beginning to pass on some of her responsibilities to the heir to the crown. It's certainly not because she is too old as, at 92, she is often seen horse riding in the grounds of Windsor Castle. Who was missing was 97 year Prince Philip and I wonder why as he too has been seen horse carriage riding in the same grounds.

These were my thoughts as Eladio and I went on our walk with the dogs last Sunday morning. It was blustery but sunny and we enjoyed our walk, just as the dogs did. It was at about that time we heard from Suzy that she and Daus, her new Indonesian drummer boyfriend, have moved out of the very crowded accommodation they lived in, to a new flat. Suzy sent us the video and, yes, it's very simple but actually looks lovely with a wrap around terrace or balcony and is quite spacious. It has some furniture which looks very local and I like it. I hope they are very happy there. Thankfully their flat is on a second floor which I suppose helps in the rainy season.

Meanwhile, Oli, still filming in Austria, was at Mauthausen on Armistice Day with one of her "madrileños", a philosopher called Laura. It was fitting that they were visiting a Nazi concentration camp on Remembrance Day.
Oli at the entrance of Mauthausen on Sunday
Mauthausen was known as the camp of the Spaniards. Of the 10.000 Spaniards who had exiled to France after losing the war to Franco, 7.000 of the estimated 10.000 Spanish republicans sent to camps, were sent to Mauthausen. Relatively little is known of this story in Spain today. The few survivors are not revered as the Jewish Holocaust survivors are and that is sad as there are very few left of them. They had a terrible time, the majority of them died but I was happy to read this week that they were known for their spirit and courage and strength of character.  Thanks to the Spaniards there is a lot of documentary evidence of what went on at Mauthausen. I learned some of it last Sunday when I began reading a reputable historian's book (David Wingeate Pike) called "Spaniards in the Holocaust: Mauthasen, Horror on the Danube" but will not replicate the details here which are horrendous. There is a film out at the cinemas called The Photographer of Mauthasen which tells the story of how some Spanish inmates, including Francesc Boix, a Catalan photographer, risked their lives to smuggle out photographic evidence of what went on at this most notorious of camps. I have to see this film.

Later Olivia commented on her visit saying it was not just Jews who were killed. We all remember 6 million died at the hands of the Nazis. But what about the others of whom there were many?  In an article from The Telegraph not so long ago, it claims the "Nazis may have killed up to 20 million" in a shocking new Holocaust Study. I looked for figures online and there are estimates that up to 4.5 million Soviet citizens, 2.8 to 3.3 Soviet POWs, 1.8 to 3 million Poles, 300.000 to 800 thousand Serbs, 270.000 disabled, 130.000 to half a million Gypsies, 80 to 200.000 Freemasons, 20 to 25 thousand Slovenes, 7.000 Spaniards, 5 to 15.000 homosexuals and 1.250 to 5.000 Jehova Witnesses all lost their lives in the Holocaust. So remember, the Jews had  a terrible time and were the main target, but there were many many other people who went to a terrible death too. We should mourn them all. 

So in a way, last Sunday, was also a Remembrance Day for Olivia. I do wish I could have been with her.

We had a quiet day, following our routines which you must know off by heart, that is the routines when we are at home. Dinner was frugal - the diet continues - and that night we watched Jordi Evole's TV show which was not one of the best. We also watched a new film on Netflix which sounded promising: The Outlaw King about Robert the Bruce, King of Scots and his fight for independence in the 14th century. I have never been very interested in medieval history, far preferring contemporary history, so this film was not really for me, plus my knowledge of Scottish history is pathetic so I found it difficult to follow. Also, I hated the gruesome battle scenes. In general I dislike battle scenes in any film. 

Monday came. It rained all morning so we left our walk for the afternoon. That morning saw us at the local fruit and vegetable market in Villaviciosa. There we filled 2 big crates of provisions to last us a week. Here is Eladio at the stall we usually buy from.
Eladio at the fruit and vegetable market on Monday
Our main diet at home consists precisely of fruit and vegetables - lots of them - protein and dairy products as well as some cereals and pulses. We tend to steer away from processed or fried food as well as carbohydrates and sugar.  Perhaps that's what obese people should do too. Monday, by the way was Anti Obesity Day. I was shocked at some of the statistics. Even in Spain, 4 out of 10 people are overweight and 2 out of 10 are  obese. I am so happy not to be in these high numbers and a lot of it has to do with a healthy way of living; our walks and our diet. Here is a map of Europe where you can see the figures for yourselves.
The figures of obesity in Europe. 
I included lots of the produce we had bought at the market for our lunch and on the table you would have seen; home made vegetable soup from pumpkin, courgette, leek and carrots,  peeled fresh tomatoes with parsley, grilled mushrooms, baked apples and a bowl of mixed fruit. Dinner would be a salad made with lettuce, onion, chopped orange and avocado and slices of lean duck.

It's not only the diet that is necessary to keep healthy. It's also activity and as you know we try to do a 1.5h walk every day. Our walk on Monday afternoon was rain free thank goodness and even the sun came out a bit. It was dark by the time we got home at 6.30 pm. The days are getting shorter.

Meanwhile in Austria, Oli was having her lunch/dinner. She had no time for lunch while shooting so made up for it at dinner. That day saw her trying out a local dish; gnocchi and pumpkin which she said was very typical in Austria. She tried their national dish too; "wiener schnitzel" on her second day there and said it was over rated. It probably is. After all it's only pork fillet fried in bread crumbs so nothing special and not very healthy.

That day she filmed the biggest historical armoury museum in the world which is one of Graz' claim  to fame. I'm not sure I am into armories as such as I hate weapons and anything to do with warfare. And here she is with one of her "madrileños" at the "Styrian Armoury" on Monday afternoon, looking beautiful I have to add. After all I am her Mother and cannot be objective can I'
Olivia with one of her "madrileños" at the Styrian Armoury museum in Graz on Monday
We watched the news after dinner and the first item was about the Californian fires. It is the worst fire ever in the region and the death and damage caused is horrendous; a death toll of at least 71, up to 1000 missing, 6000 homes burnt down, not to mention the number of evacuees. Imagine losing your life in a forest fire, imagine losing your house and home, imagine losing your loved ones? What a tragedy.
Image from the California fires
We got lighter viewing from our Amazon Fire TV streaming stick but couldn't find anything we both liked. We tried a few series and films until Eladio fell asleep. However, I got hooked on The Good Doctor and watched it until nearly 1 in the morning. I'm afraid it isn't Eladio's genre so I would have to watch it alone from then on.

Tuesday came and it was to be a sunny and relatively warm day with temperatures reaching 18ºc. It was on Tuesday that I went to the hairdresser, something I don't really enjoy much, unlike most women, but I needed the dreaded roots doing as well as a cut. Thankfully there were few people at "Marco Aldany" (my hairdresser) in Boadilla and I was home at about 11 a.m, looking quite good. Here is the selfie to prove it.
A new haircut on Tuesday
As you can see I didn't change the hairstyle. It is a hairstyle that has stood me in good stead over the years and I wouldn't think of changing it.

I made a healthy lunch for the 4 of us, including fresh fish and vegetables - a staple meal in our home. Later we watched the news - more on the dreadful California fires. One bit of news that interested me was about sport - well you know I love to follow sport. On Tuesday Real Madrid appointed Santiago Solari(Argentina, aged 42) the permanent manager after being brought on board temporarily when Lopetegui was sacked 2 weeks ago. The appointment comes after 4 consecutive wins for "los blancos" since Solari took over. Let's hope the team continues to do well. 2 weeks ago, Solari was Madrid's B team coach and no doubt he never thought he would be in the running for the top job, one of the top football coach posts in the world. I wish him luck. In Madrid, the two rival teams, Real and Atlético are now both coached by Argentinians; curious.
 A smiling Santiago Solari who was appointed permanent RM coach on Tuesday
Meanwhile Oli was filming a beautiful castle in Graz ,the "Eggenberg Schloss". It is closed in the winter to visitors but the palace opened its premises just for her TV team. She loved it.
Oli inside the magnificent Eggenberg Palace in Graz, Austria
The palace which dates back to 1460 was given its Baroque expansion in 1625 and is one of the most important in Austria .It looks absolutely out of this world. Here, by the way, is a photo of the outside. In the picture with Olivia is one of her "madrileños".
Oli and her "madrileño" outside the magnificent Eggenberg Schloss in Graz, Austria on Tuesday
Our walk that afternoon was a real pleasure, the sun was out and it wasn't cold. However, when we got home, very suddenly, poor Norah became ill. She couldn't even climb the stairs and I had to carry her. I tried to give her a painkiller wrapped in a rasher of bacon and she refused it. If Norah refuses food there is always something wrong with her. She worried me all night and I was on the point of taking her to the vet but we decided to see how the night went. Amazingly, she was completely ok the next day, ate her normal food and seemed her usual self. I think it may have been the 6km walk that strained her. Perhaps at her age, nearly 10 and her back problem, she should go on much sorter walks.

Shortly after our walk, my new Airbnb guests arrived, 2 gentlemen from Valencia, engineers in their 50's I guess, who had come to play golf at the magnificent Santander world HQ golf course the next day. They were really nice people and they told me they were bowled over by the house. That was great. I wouldn't see them until the next morning.

There was news of a possible final Brexit deal agreed, at least technically, by Theresa May and Brussels that night. It remained to be seen whether the Cabinet members would agree on it and whether it would go past Parliament. I wonder. In the end there is complete shambles as neither remainers or leavers are satisfied. I am surprised Theresa May is still in office actually.

The film we watched that night, Manchester by Sea, was depressing and not recommendable. By the way it has nothing to do with the city in the UK, rather a small town in the US.

Wednesday came and it was a big day for me.  That morning I had a kick off meeting with my new customer for which I will helping them with a big PR project for their launch and  PR activities. I was quite excited to be getting ready to go out, put on makeup, wear a suit and drive off to a meeting in an office. It was a pleasant change in my way of working as usually all my work is done from home sitting quietly at my PC wearing a pair of jeans and a jumper. So that morning I put out all the stops and think I looked quite good when I was about to leave. Eladio loved the "transformation" and had to have a photo. Here it is.
All dressed up and ready to go on Wednesday morning
The meeting was in Las Tablas, 38km from our house but as I left after the traffic at around 9.40, I was there just 25 minutes later. I even had a parking space booked for me at the offices and by 10.15 I was sitting with my new customer, 2 guys who I used to work closely with at Yoigo. It was a delight to see them, to admire their new offices and to hear all the developments of their ambitious project. It's a pity I couldn't take photos but I can't give the game away before the announcement. I was a bit shocked to hear the announcement will be next week, meaning I will have little time to prepare for the supporting PR activities. We finished the meeting at 11.45 and then I rang another ex Yoigo colleague and friend, Belén, who still works there as a lawyer. She was my lawyer when I worked there; well my lawyer for all the communications activities, mainly the approval of my press releases. Belén is much younger than me and still in her 30's but we became friends from the very beginning. We met at Starbucks in the Diversia centre in Alcobendas, round the corner from Yoigo and just a few kilometres from Las Tablas and spent a wonderful hour together catching up on each other's lives. I do so love this positive thinking, free spirited lawyer friend. Most corporate lawyers are all a bit negative when it comes to communication but she was quite the opposite, always positive, always supportive and above all she responded fast. I do miss her. Of course we had to have a photo taken and we asked a passerby to do the task. I chose the picture of the two of us as the main photo for this week's post in honour of Belén and al lmy ex Yoigo colleagues. The company maybe completely different today but the 11 years I spent there were perhaps the best of my professional career and I have fond memories.

I was home by 13.30 and eager to tell Eladio all about my exciting morning. It meant of course I had to start work immediately and my head was full of all the tasks I had to do. There was no siesta or reading for me that afternoon. Instead, I worked fast, only stopping for our daily walk. We did not take Norah because she had been so poorly the day before.

Dinner was a light affair - tuna fish salad, after which we retired to our room to watch the news and then a film. The main news that day was of the approval of the British cabinet of a new deal for Brexit. It's difficult to understand what it really entails and details are only emerging now but as I said above, it doesn't seem to satisfy either side.

Eladio soon fell asleep but I watched the TV until very late. As I watched alone, I was able, for once, to see a series in English. I watched The Good Doctor again and am loving it.

I think I fell asleep at past 1.30 and on Thursday morning I was awake at 5.40 but made myself stay in bed until 6.30. Thus I slept only 4 hours. Not enough.

On Thursday I had to work all day, on a press release, on a press invitation and a host of other things related to next week's PR activities. It felt good even though I was quite pressured and would have little time to make everyone's lunch and above all I wanted to be free by the time Olivia arrived back from her trip to Austria. I was a bit overloaded and stressed out and having only slept 4 hours the night before did not help at all. I got a headache and couldn't shake it off for a couple of days.

I can only commiserate that Theresa May would have felt a lot worse than me that day when she presented her latest Brexit plan, full of the end of "freedom of movement". I hate her for that. Her cabinet had apparently supported the nearly 600 page document the night before but by the morning when she was presenting the plan in Parliament, they began dropping like flies. It's a shambles and I don't think there is a good way out, unless another referendum takes place. I suspect though that even if it does, the leavers will win but  not be satisfied and we will be back to square one. It's not easy to leave the EU and even if the UK does so with no deal or a bad deal, it will be turning it's back on its closest and biggest market and have to look elsewhere, something rather daunting. It's just one big mess. I am surprised the woman hasn't resigned yet but she is very stubborn. I can't imagine her going down in the history books as a good politician can you?

Somehow lunch that day appeared on the table. I hardly had time to prepare anything as I was so intensely focused on my work, but somehow it did. I tried to have a siesta afterwards to catch up on some sleep and I think I managed about 15 minutes. Eladio had to go for a routine medical check up, thus I went on our walk on my own with Pippa. It was spitting with rain but luckily there was no downpour. And then a beautiful rainbow appeared It was a full arc but I couldn't capture it all on camera. I did however get a bit of it in with little Pippa to be spotted in the background.
The rainbow and Pippa on my walk on Thursday
Just as I was walking up the hill towards the fields, Oli was driving home with her car and we met. I was sorry that my walk coincided with her arrival but was so in need of the exercise, I would have to see her later upon my return. I was able to greet her properly when we did return and it was just great to see her. She had bought me some lovely Christmas decorations from Austria as well as chocolate for us all. We had some quality mother and daughter time together and I was very interested to hear her opinion on Austria and what the visit to Mauthasen had been like - harrowing was the answer of course.

That night we prepared dinner together which the 3 of us would have in the kitchen surrounded by our 3 dogs. Thankfully Norah seems to have got over her episode of feeling unwell and is back to her usual self. We know she is her usual self when she begs  or steals food hahaha.

Later the 3 of us spent time in the big lounge. I put on soft lighting, lit some candles and played music - Barbara Streisand singing classical songs. The atmosphere was magical. We were waiting for our new guests, an English couple from London; Eva and Nigel. They were coming to see their son  Alex, who is teaching English in Boadilla, nearby, in his gap year. They didn't arrive until 9.15. It was a total coincidence but Eva's ex husband had been to stay with us too about a month ago, also to see his son and Eva had booked our place without ever knowing her ex, Richard, had been here. Their son Alex of course recognised the place as he had been here with his Father. It was a big coincidence. I settled them in while Eladio was watching the Spain Croatia match for a place in the next round of the UEFA Nations League. I wasn't interested and spent more quality time with Oli in her room. I was a little disappointed to hear Spain lost 2-3 to Croatia. Spain now need  England to draw with Croatia in order to qualify. It looks touch and go to me.

I had another guest or guests coming that night at 2 a.m. in the morning. It was Alba, my student in women's pelvic health who was coming with her boyfriend. But I wouldn't see them until Friday morning. This weekend we have a full house; a good thing.

It was late to bed for us and I was dreading another sleepless night but thankfully I slept a bit better, maybe getting 6 hours sleep. We watched an episode of one of Spain's favourite TV series, "Cuéntame". I had totally lost touch with the story of the Alcántara family but quickly caught up. It was a good episode.

I was up on Friday morning at about 6.15 and after breakfast, dived straight back into my work. I would be very busy again that morning but as I started early I was able to go out shopping with Eladio to our dearly beloved Mercadona supermarket. Here we stocked up on food for the next week. I came home to do more work before going into Madrid again, this time for a lunch appointment. Eladio took me to the station where I would take the metro and Oli would be picking me up from the restaurant near Plaza Castilla after lunch. I felt very privileged.

Lunch was with my former Nokia girl, or should I say women colleagues. We are a group of 9 who try to meet about 3 times a year. On Friday there were 5 of us; Susana, Juana, María Jesús, Jill - the only one who still works for Nokia - and myself. Neither Fátima,  Marta nor Ana could make it and the 9th member, Zenaida went to live in Finland a year or so ago. Lunch was at Restaurante Puerto Madero just off "La Castellana" (one of Madrid's main thoroughfares) and we met at 14.30. Well, I was there at 14.30 and the rest were a bit late.
This week's Nokia girl lunch
It had been Juana's 48th birthday this week and we would be celebrating it with her. I remember when she was probably not even 30 when we first met and worked together at Nokia. Today she is a stunning, self confident, incredibly capable and passionate woman and mother of 2 children approaching their teens. It seems like yesterday when I first met this smiling lovely girl who wold become my friend.  It was great to catch up with my dear friends and ex colleagues and our lunch was far too short. At 16.30 Oli came to pick me up and I said goodbye to the "Nokia girls" as our group is called.

Olivia and I were off on a shopping expedition to Plaza Norte 2 - a big shopping centre - in Majadahonda. We were there by about 5 pm so with plenty of time as the shops in Spain generally close after 8 and a lot of the big ones at 10 pm. It was Oli who "needed" new clothes. I had no intention of buying anything - my wardrobe is chock a block - but succumbed when I fell in love with some of the clothes. Our first stop was H&M. Oli was looking for jumpers and I resisted temptation. Here she is coming down the escalator with one of the items in her hands. She is wearing the thick orange winter jumper I bought at H&M with Kathy in York last January when it was so cold. It looks lovely on her.
Oli at H&M on Friday 
It was at Zara that I fell in love with a glittery gold long blazer - for party wear - and a tartan coat type jacket. I am a sucker for tartan and happy to know it's in fashion at the moment. I tried to resist but when I tired them both on they were a perfect fit and I couldn't resist them. Here I am holding the 2 items in my hands with a Cheshire cat smile on my face.
With my two lovely items of clothing I got at Zara on Friday
Oli bought lots more than me, including 2 amazing coats. We both have very similar tastes and the good thing is that we can use each other's clothes most of the time, so, no doubt, we shall be lending each other the new coats and jackets we bought on Friday

On our way out, amazingly, I bumped into a pretty young woman who called out my name. I couldn't quite recognise her and then I did. It was a girl called Marta Grandes who worked with and for me at Motorola some 25 years ago. She was in her early 20's then and is now 48 and we hadn't seen each other since we both left the company. She was a great girl to work with; enthusiastic and passionate and I often wondered what had become of her after Motorola.  We spoke about our "Motorola days" in marketing and reminisced especially about our involvement with the company's cycling team. Well, today she is the proud mother of 4 girls aged from 23 down to 12. She was as lovely as ever and I was very happy to bump into her. We have now exchanged phone numbers. Oli took this photo of us with wide smiles on our faces. It was great to see you Marta. I have lots of wonderful memories of working with you.
Meeting Marta after more than 25 years. How time flies
It was a great chance meeting. By about 7 pm Oli and I were finished with our shopping spree. It reminded us of our time together alone in the summer when Eladio was away. We called it "baching it", i.e. enjoying a bachelor's life together. Well on Friday we "batched it" too hahaha.

Before we left we had to have a selfie to remember our "baching it" shopping expedition and here it is.
Selfie with Oli after our shopping trip together on Friday
By about 6.30 we were done and on our way home. We got there with plenty of time before dinner and unusually for me, showed Eladio our new clothes, the results of our wonderful retail therapy session. I had felt a bit guilty but Oli said I fully deserved to buy new clothes, something we haven't done for a long time. There is nothing better I like than shopping sprees with my daughters and I can't wait for Suzy to come home in December for the 3 of us to enjoy one together.

Dinner was to be giant prawn salad, so quickly I cooked them and later Eladio and Oli together peeled all 24 of them, a job I hate. I did the lettuce and avocado hahaha. We enjoyed a lovely and healthy meal together before we went upstairs. And before going to bed, Pippa and I spent quality time with Oli in her room. I was in bed at about 10 pm and just plain tired to concentrate on anything on the TV. I think I must have fallen asleep by about 11. I was up on Saturday morning at 6.11 after rather a fractured night's sleep. However, I was feeling good and relaxed on Saturday and looking forward to our weekly French lesson. 

On Saturday morning, before everyone else was up, I did some work to get it out of the way so as to be with my family. I also had to make time for doing our French homework. Oli and I did it together or rather compared our exercises. They were about the difference between "meilleur" and "mieux". I think I have got it now. You use meilleur with bon and mieux with bien. Helene was on time as always. She went over our exercises which were mostly right and then we dived into the next two chapters in our French book, all about hesitating or not being sure about things at the hairdressers. That was funny as I had been to the hairdressers that week as had Eladio and Oli was going that afternoon. I was interested to learn that a "ponytail" in French is "queue de cheval" and that "fringe" is "la frange". I knew, of course, that a "haircut" was a "coupe de cheveux" and a hairdo "coiffure". The thing is it's very unlikely I shall ever go to a hairdresser in France to use this vocab hahaha. 

Our lesson went on for nearly 1.5h instead of an hour and when Helene had gone, I had to quickly finish making the lunch. Once again a miracle appeared on the table - grilled chicken with mushrooms and lots of vegetables, including sprouts, my Father's favourite veg.

We had a long siesta which meant I caught up with a bit of lost sleep. Thus our walk was late and we came back in the dark. During the walk I got a new Airbnb reservation from someone who seems to be Chinese and living in Athens but with his is it her name in Chinese characters and no references or previous review. Thus I was found messaging him or her all the way back on our walk. I still don't know who he or her is, but his or her name is Wong Haw (hahaha) so maybe it's a man. Wong comes on Monday with someone else for 2 nights. It may sound risky to you and it does to me but many people book using Airbnb for the first time and are hesitant to upload a photo or details of themselves. So far out of more than 160 groups of guests, we have not had any problems. Let's hope it's ok with Wong and that nothing goes wrong - sorry just had to make that pun hahaha. 

Later I spent some time with my English guests, Eva, Nigel and Alex who, by the way, live in  Dorset. I made them a restaurant reservation last night and also recommended places to visit today. I think they will be going up into the mountains to El Escorial and also to visit the nearby Valley of the Fallen where Franco is still buried. They have brought a car and I was puzzled to see them ordering a taxi every night to go out. They explained it was so they could drink. In Spain people drive in their own cars to restaurants and the driver will probably just have one small glass of wine. When I said that they smiled and told me they expected to drink a lot more. Oh the Brits are funny aren't they or is it me finding them so after having turned into a Spaniard?

We had dinner at home, just a salad and some "lomo" and went up to watch the news and the TV and fall asleep. We started on the new Narcos season, this time about Mexico. It's ok but I can't stand the Mexican language, or rather the "rude" words in Mexican which neither Eladio nor I really understand. Let's see if we continue this series. I was asleep by about 11, then woken up by Eladio after a ghastly nightmare - hate them and thankfully went back to slumber land soon afterwards only to wake up 2 more times before I finally got up this morning at 6.15. It may sound awful but for me it was quite a good night's sleep hahaha.

And today is Sunday, 18th November and only a month or so to Christmas. Wow!  But I have lots to do before starting on our plans for the festive season. I even have work to do today for my customer. Thus I shall leave you now, as I usually say, to get on with the day. 

Wishing you all a great week ahead, cheers till next Sunday.
All the best Masha

Sunday, November 11, 2018

A Zonkey is born, the bank always wins, with love from Indonesia, Oli's programme on New Mexico, Oli in Austria, 100 years since Armistice Day and other stories.

11th November 2018
With our dogs on our sunny walk on Thursday this week
Good morning friends, colleagues and readers.

Today is Armistice Day. 100 years ago today on November 11th 1918, when my Father was a few months old, the armistice came into forth on "the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month"  and marked the ceasefire of fighting between the Germans and the Allies in WW1 also to be known as the Great War. In England this is celebrated by wearing a red poppy, a tradition I loved when I lived in England.
Chelsea pensioners visiting the poppy factory in Edinburgh. Photo from the BBC
This week and especially today many memorial celebrations have taken place. . Once again the Tower of London was central to remembrance day and was lit up by torches in an amazing scene I would have loved to see. It may seem a long time ago, but for me it isn't. After all, my Grandfather, Canon John Lloyd, served in the war where he fought on the Italian front, according to my Father. I wish I knew more about his time in that most terrible of wars.
The Tower of London lit up by torches in remembrance of WW1
Stories of the centenary of WWW1 which killed more than 17 million people dominated this week's British press mostly. As an avid follower of the news I read a lot of the stories.

There has been lots of news this week, most of it negative as usual. So I bring to you a different sort of news, something far nicer than the things we usually read. It was totally different story that captured my imagination this week and which although not a new story, only emerged this week.  It's about an animal and you know my love of animals.

On 2nd October, a "zonkey" (cross between a zebra and donkey) was born in England, the second only in my home country. This is a very rare occurrence and I was interested to read how it had happened. Well, Zippy as the zonkey is called was born on October 2nd on a farm in Somerset. The owner Kristine Turner had a zebra, amazingly, which lived peacefully with her donkeys. She had hoped it would become pregnant with one of them and then never noticed when it did, as "it was always quite fat",  until Zippy was born. Here by the way is Zippy, part wild, part domesticated with its Zebra mother, Ziggy. The Father, is a donkey called Rag. I wonder what Rag thinks about his funny offspring.  I knew of course that you can cross donkeys with horses with which you get sterile mules and had heard of zebras being crossed with donkeys but this is the first case I have read about in recent years. I wonder if you can cross a horse with a zebra? Probably. The British press had a field day using "a zebra crossing" to describe the occasion. Oh don't they love tongue in cheek and play on words in their headlines. I do too.
Ziggy the mother Zebra with her offspring Zippy the "zonkey"
But back to my week. This week has been much quieter than last week and I am missing our time in Santa Pola. That was a great break which we were much in need of.

Last Sunday was back to home routine. I was up at 7 rather than 6 and this has been happening a lot  since the clocks turned back. I am surprised but pleased.

As I was writing last week's post, one of my Airbnb guests, a young student called Juan from Aguilas (Murcia) was leaving and wanted to say goodbye. We had hardly seen him as he had arrived when we were away. He says he will be back but we are nearly fully booked for the rest of the month so let's see. Believe it or not he had brought his own electric scooter to travel about on. He is my first and possibly last guest to leave my house on one. I had to have a photo. He told me the scooter has a maximum speed of 25 km/h, although I suppose that is on the flat. It's about 2.5km to the local UEM University so he must have got there quickly. And here he is leaving on this very new sort of transport which is gaining adepts as are new electric bicycles. For those interested, it cost him 400 euros and he takes it everywhere. However, it weighs a whopping 10 kilos. My "son-in-law", Miguel, has just bought an electric bike which he will be using locally when he is in Valencia.
Juan, my airbnb student guest leaving on his electric scooter last Sunday
I asked him what he was studying and found it funny when he told me he is doing a master's degree in triathlon. Surely he should have run to the UEM instead of using a scooter?

We postponed our walk until the afternoon as at 12.15 Oli and I were having our weekly French lesson. That had been changed too, from Saturday to Sunday. I hadn't done my homework so, after breakfast, sat in our dining room pouring over my grammar book and trying to do the exercises which weren't very easy. It was all about the conditional, using expressions such as "au cas où" and was more uphill than usual as I was out of practice. 

I hadn't seen Oli since we left for Santa Pola on 26th October and it was nice to be in our French lesson together. We caught up afterwards during lunch. Miguel came with her and I hadn't had time to make anything special. Thankfully I had lots of leftovers for everyone. It was full house for lunch that day. I had no fruit left but there was plenty of chocolate and the Belgian biscuits from Rania, plus Miguel had brought us some coconut turron and delicious chocolate covered macadamia nuts from a village in Valencia where turrón is made (a sort of Spanish nougat). We also enjoyed one of the bottles of Jumilla wine we had bought on Saturday.

Siesta time was in order afterwards but not for long as I wanted to get our walk in before it got dark. But before I had something important to do. Annoyingly, our dish washer (I always say "washing up machine") had broken down for good during our absence, thus I spent about 30 minutes ordering a new one on the El Corte Inglés online website, a Bosch, which I hoped would arrive this week - it did.  It's so annoying that any sort of device, machine or gadget, these days is programmed to last so little. I think our old one was about 12 years old and had been repaired recently more than once. It's what they call "programmed obsolescence" and I hate it. 

At about 5.30 we said goodbye to Oli and Miguel but were to see them again on Wednesday night, the night before our youngest daughter would be off on her travels again. On Thursday she would leave for Graz in Austria to interview "madrileños" there for her programme. She told us she may well visit Mathausen, the concentration camp where many Spaniards on the wrong side of the Civil War were sent to their death. It doesn't bear thinking about.

Our walk was lovely, both sunny and cold and for the first time I wore a thick puffer jacket. The dogs enjoyed it too.  We were home with about an hour on my hands before making dinner and I spent it at leisure. It was then I got another sudden Airbnb reservation. Someone called José Manuel would be coming on Monday for 4 nights. Apparently he would be doing some sort of work at the local golf course. People do come for all sorts of different reasons.

As we sat down to dinner, Andy, our long stay Scottish lodger, arrived back after a day hiking in the mountains. Bless him, he had taken both dogs, Norah and Elsa out for walks in our absence. That was so kind. 

We were in bed early, watched the news, then the Jordi Evole programme, last week about a secret sect - ghastly and soon fell asleep over some debate on the TV.

Monday came and brought rain. It was 5th November but there would be no bonfire night for me:-(. My friend Kathryn who lives in Yorkshire posted on social media that outside her house it sounded like WW3. It must be that fireworks are much more potent than when I was a child. My Father remarked during lunch how he used to light the catherine wheels and other fireworks from our garden on Guy Fawkes Day. I used to love it. Things are probably far more sophisticated today.

Monday not only brought rain but also cold. It was about 7ºc in the middle of the day. We skipped our walk because of the rain which I was not happy about. You see, on Monday, I went back on a strict diet and with a diet, exercise is always a must. After so much eating in Santa Pola, I need to shed some weight, otherwise I won't be getting into my jeans. At the moment I am wearing leggings. all the time. Leggings, by the way, for me are the greatest fashion invention of the century. There is nothing more comfortable and you can wear them with anything.

We were well wrapped up when we went out to the chemist to get my Father's prescriptions and then to the local Monday market in Villaviciosa. Our usual stall wasn't there so we had to choose another one. Here we bought and loaded fruit and vegetables into our car, hopefully to last the week. It was such a miserable day, I forgot to take a photo. We would have lots of the fruit and veg for both lunch and dinner.

From the market we went to get fish  and some other produce from the upmarket supermarket Carrefour Market. So it was fresh fish for lunch. There were lots of chocolates, turrón and Rania's biscuits still left on the sideboard in our dining room but on Monday I ignored them.

I had a short siesta and didn't actually sleep as I was waiting for our new Airbnb guest to come, José Manuel from nearby Jerez (the sherry capital) in the south of Spain near Cádiz. He didn't turn up till past 7 so I had a long time waiting.

Meanwhile I read my book. Once again it was about the 2nd World War and specifically about Auschwitz and the Holocaust. It's the biography of Primo Levi, an Italian Jewish chemist who survived that most terrible of camps. His book "If this is a man"(Survival in Auschwitz and Truce)  is possibly the book of all books on the subject. In it he explores the extreme natures of mankind and it makes for terrible reading. From his book I have finally understood how some prisoners were able to survive and how others just gave in at the beginning or soon after arriving. A lot of it has to do with luck but also what we are like as human beings. Those who survived were the strongest in many ways but not always the best types of human beings. That, I think is his conclusion. Well, perhaps it is mine. 
My book this week
It was quite a reprieve to put it down to welcome our new guest. He was to sleep in the most beautiful bedroom in the house, Suzy's large room on the top floor, next to ours. He and his brother have a company based in Jerez (Spain's sherry capital) which specialises in machinery to repair golf courses of all places. José Manuel was here this week for work at the lovely golf course in our neighbourhood Las Lomas Bosque. It would have been lovelier, I imagine, without rain. 

Later we would spend time with our other guests, Samir from Mexico as well as Andrew our long stay Scottish lodger. Samir, who studied engineering at the local University here, is an industrial designer and seems to be good at it. He had lots to tell us about a course on project management he had just done in Berlin. I don't know how but the conversation ended up being about John Cleese and Monty Python's circus as well as my beloved Fawlty Towers. Thus I went upstairs to bed that night, early, yes at 8.30 pm, but laughing all the way. 

Fittingly we watched another film about war that night called Sarajevo which is about the assassination in that  town belonging to Bosnia and Herzegovina of Archduke Franz Ferdinand, Crown Prince of the Austrian Empire and his wife Sophie, the Duchess of Hohenberg on 28th June 1914. 

I remember from my history lessons with Miss Scorer at St. Joseph's college, learning that this one event led to the beginning of the 1st World War. Austria declared war on Serbia for the assassination. It was a  Bosnian Serb teenager, Gavrilo Princip, a member of a group called Young Bosnia who killed the Prince but still today it is not clear whether Serbia was really behind the  killing. You could say that this group Mlada Bosna, mostly filled with Serb students wanting to end the Austro-Hungarian occupation in Bosnia Herzegovina, were precursors of terrorism as we know it today. However, the film is more about the investigation into the murder and less about how this magnicide sparked the Great War.  The story is riveting but the film a little disappointing. 

On Tuesday I woke up to no rain but it was very cold. Our Mexican guest, who I had said goodbye to the night before, had already left. So, I was not the earliest bird in the house that morning.

Tuesday was the day of the US Midterm elections and the voting would decide the power of the democrats in the House of Representatives and in the Senate. Both had a Republican majority, giving Donald Trump all the power in the country. However if the democrats increased their seats to reach a majority in either House, Trump's power would be lesser and anything could happen. We would later hear the Democrats reached a majority in the House of Representatives but not in the Senate. What will happen now I wonder, especially with immigration and the looming arrival of the human caravan from Honduras or with the issue of Russia's meddling in the elections which led to Trump's victory? Time will tell.

In Spain, people were far more concerned about a decision to be made by the Supreme Court on whether the bank or the borrowers have to pay stamp duty on mortgages. It has always been the latter until a recent ruling from the Supreme Court itself swayed in favour of it being the bank. There was much rejoicing in the country until the next day, the Supreme Court communicated its decision to reflect on the ruling about who pays the stamp duty. So when after 2 days of deliberations, 15 judges versus 13 ruled in favour of the bank rather than the borrowers, there was a huge outcry. I was furious as were many people in this country. How can the Supreme Court issue a sentence and the next day go back on their word and 2 weeks later renounce the decision? That makes it look as if there has been lobbying from the banks which there probably has. All I can say, as in Monopoly and everywhere, the bl**** bank always wins. It was not a good day for Spanish justice. On the bright side the socialist government announced the next morning it would change the law. Maybe the law should have been changed before. Even if the new law states that the bank pays the tax, no doubt the latter will somehow increase mortgage charges to compensate for that. As I say, the bank always wins.

With all these things happening, our little lives continued. We went for our walk in the sun this time although it was very cold. Once home, we got a video from Suzy, just to say she loves us. I tried to talk to her but wasn't able to because of the time difference. Oh how I miss her. I loved her video, especially her beautiful smile and happy face. Here is a screen shot of the video she sent with love from Indonesia.
Suzy sending us love from Indonesia
The afternoon was spent reading and working which is a good thing. I also got a new Airbnb reservation that afternoon - they always cheer me up - this time from a French lady called Anne from a town called Prêchac in the south west of France. It was for February so quite a while away.

I continued with my diet on Tuesday - let's see how long it lasts - and was very good; only protein, vegetables and fruit for lunch and dinner. We were joined again by our Airbnb guests, Andy and José Manuel just as we were finishing our prawn salad - no sauce (hahaha).

The highlight of Tuesday and indeed the highlight of the week, was watching Oli's latest Madrileños por el Mundo programme on her recent trip to New Mexico in the US (link to the programme online here)  It started late, at 10.45 - that's prime time for you in Spain - but I promise I didn't fall asleep as I loved every minute of it. It seems a fascinating state with 330 days of sun on the Mexican border and with a lot of both Spanish and Mexican influence. It was from here the terrible atom bombs were made that were dropped on Nagasaki and on Hiroshima. It is also in New Mexico where there is a little town also called Madrid and where the gun policy, thanks to the US 2nd amendment, is probably the most lax in the country. The programme saw Oli firing a pistol, getting into a hot air balloon - Albuquerque hosts the biggest balloon festival in the world - and sliding down a dune in the famous White Sands desert. Yep, I'm not surprised my youngest daughter liked New Mexico. Certainly after seeing the programme, I would like to visit it too.
Oli at the White desert sands in New Mexico with one of her "madrileños" 
We switched off the light very late on Tuesday night but even so I would be up early on Wednesday morning.

On Wednesday we woke up to rain again. At 09.30  we had to be at the garage in Majadahonda to take Eladio's Volvo to be repaired. The pilot lights did not work on the dashboard and there was a threatening message that the airbag was about to explode! Later we would be given the estimate for a new control panel; 1.200 euros. We both huffed and puffed at that. I hate unexpected expenses like this one. It came on top of the cost of having to buy a new dish washer, both of which would set us back a bit.

While at the garage, I finally got to talk to Suzy via whatsapp video chat. It was great to see her. She told me the rainy season had started in Indonesia (Bali) - the monsoon  - and that she had never ever seen rain so strong as that. She is currently looking for new accommodation. She has also increased her English online classes and finally found somewhere to give them - a coworker space. We both reminded each other that it's only 5 weeks until she comes. I can't wait.

Leaving the Volvo at the garage, we drove home in my Mini to await the El Corte Inglés people who were to bring the new dishwasher. I actually hate dishwashers and never use ours, preferring to wash up by hand. I have always hated the smell of them. I remember as a very small child, my Mother ordering one when they had only just come onto the market.  It must have been in the early 60's. My Father was so against it he threatened her with divorce. That never happened thank goodness. My Mother loved kitchen gadgets and I do too, except for washing up machines which is what we used to call them.  The funny thing is she never really used them and they collected dust and it was my Father who ended up having to wash her gadgets by hand hahahaha.  No wonder he hated them.

Later we did the weekly food shopping at Mercadona, a task I don't like much either. Thankfully, as we now buy our fruit and veg at a local market, it doesn't take as long to do anymore. Once home and after unloading and putting away the provisions, we went for our morning walk with the dogs. The rain had gone but the path was very muddy so we opted to walk through the fields getting lost every now and again as well as very wet.  But at least we got our walk in.

The highlight of Wednesday was dinner at Oli and Miguel's, the night before she was to leave for Austria. I told her earlier that my Mother, her grandmother, had lived in Austria after the war and loved the country. She was both in Berlin and in Vienna during all the bombardments and even had a spate in a Gestapo run prison in Berlin -  shortly after her escape from Bulgaria -  but ended the war working for the French Control Commission in Austria. They were stationed in a pretty little village called Feldkirch on the border of Switzerland. Here her task was to translate for the French who were rounding up Russian soldiers and sending them back to Communist Russia. Many did not want to go back so she told the French they were not Russian but Bulgarian or some other  Slav nationality, thus helping many to escape from a dire return to the Soviet Union. During her trip to Graz, as I said, Oli will be visiting Mathausen, the infamous concentration camp in Austria. No doubt, my Mother would have found out about what the Nazis did there during her time in Feldkirch. I always remember her telling me how she heard the screams of a young Jewish girl, her fellow prison inmate, being tortured. She probably ended up at in one of the death camps poor soul. I think she was only 15 years old and her only crime; being a Jew.

But at dinner at Oli and Miguel's we spoke about more mundane things, not about the war. Miguel had prepared a meat dish with lots of roast root vegetables which were yummy. He's a great cook. He's a great photographer too but the light in their dining area does not make for good pictures. This is the photo of the 3 of us enjoying dinner at their place on Wednesday night.
Dinner at Oli and Miguel's on Wednesday night.
We took Pippa with us which always delights Oli. She had to be fed though while we were at the table haha. The food was all healthy so I did not break my diet except for a tiny drop of Jumilla wine.

While we were having dinner Real Madrid were playing a champions league match against the Czech team. Plzen. It was their third match win under the caretaker Manager Solari and they blasted the Czechs by 5-0. My guest from Jerez, José Manuel went to Madrid to watch it with a friend so it was the subject of conversation with him in the kitchen before he left for work the next day. Football is a  conversation maker all over the world as well as a good ice breaker.

We left quite late, saying goodbye to Oli until next Thursday and wishing her a successful trip. We were in bed by after 11.30 and started watching a film on Amazon Prime. 23F is a film about the Spanish coup d'état in 1981, albeit the official version. Even so we really enjoyed it as it is a subject close to our hearts. I was in England when it happened and Eladio a priest in the Seminary in León. I remember watching the 9 o'clock news and being amazed seeing a Guardia Civil Colonel (Tejero) lead the attempted coup by storming the Spanish parliament, in the supposed name of the King.  We were able to see some of the footage because TVE was broadcasting until they were made to stop later. I remember trying to ring Eladio and finding out most of the lines to Spain were engaged. It was a touch and go period but thankfully, calm reined when the King, Juan Carlos, stopped the coup, not without difficulty. It has never been confirmed whether he was initially in agreement with it or not. The official version shows him as the saver of Spanish democracy but some of us have our doubts.
The film about the attempted Spanish coup d'état in 1981
We switched the light off really late, at around 1.30 in the morning but even so I was up early on Thursday. It was wet again but we were still able to go for our walk in the morning when a ray of sunshine appeared on the horizon.

We woke up that day to the news of yet another massacre gun killing in the US, this time in California. 12 people were shot dead by a young and former Marine with mental health problems in a bar in Thousand Oaks. David Long who had served in Afghanistan and suffered from PTSD later killed himself, making the total death toll of this mad act come to 13.

Locally many people in Spain were very surprised to hear of an attempted attack to kill the Spanish Prime Minister for wanting to exhume and move Franco's remains from the Valley of the Fallen. Manuel Murillo, a 63 year old security guard, a far right extremist with a history of mental health issues as well as an arsenal of weapons, was arrested and put in prison in September for plotting the assassination while looking for help with the "logistics". I was also surprised to see that the Spanish public were only finding out the news 2 months after it happened and still wonder why. Thankfully the madman is behind bars. But that doesn't take away the issue of Spain still being divided over Franco or whether his remains should be removed. I would say let sleeping dogs lie. The whole issue has only served to stir up old wounds which refuse to heal.

Meanwhile, Oli landed in Vienna. From the Austrian capital, she and her cameraman hired a car and drove to their destination, Graz which took them just under 2 hours. I looked up the weather there and was surprised to see it was sunny and dry and that she would have better weather throughout her trip than we would have here. The only downside for them is that it gets dark at 4.30 pm, 2 hours earlier than here,  after which they cannot film. Later she sent me a photo in a square in that Austrian city just after dusk.
A selfie of Oli from Graz after she arrived on Thursday
Oli had offered to bring us chocolates back. I told her maybe just a few but for Christmas only as I am on a diet (yes I am). I also told her I thought the Austrians, like the Germans and the Scandinavians have wonderful Christmas traditions and decorations and to look out for some of the latter to add to my increasing collection. Later she sent me a photo of a shop window which looked lovely.
A "Christmassy shop window in Graz"
I would have loved to be with her. She will be back next Thursday and on Friday will go shopping together so I will have to wait.

We went to get the Volvo that afternoon and now it's home and mended. It's old but has only done 150.000 km in 14 years and will have to probably last another 14 or more hahaha, that is if they don't finally ban diesel cars.

While I was working on Thursday, I was pleased to get a phone call from my new customer. We shall be having a follow up meeting next week on a PR plan I submitted a few months ago. I am really looking forward to working with this new customer although the plan and type of work is pretty challenging and shall take me out of my comfort zone. But it's great news to know I have new work coming up.

It rained in the afternoon and I sat in the main lounge with candles lit for extra atmosphere finishing my book by Primo Levi.  Eladio had bought and installed a new thermostat for the central heating on that floor which had stopped working. Thus the whole house now feels warmer and cozier. Thanks Eladio. You are a great plumber! For a philosopher born in a village he is very good with his hands and I am grateful for that.

We had a healthy and "diety" dinner which Eladio didn't object too and were up in our room ready for the news, bed and Netflix by about 9 pm. I was happy to hear on the news of another Spanish sport victory although it's a sport I know nothing about - weightlifting. Lydia Valentín who is from León (like Eladio) won 2 gold and one bronze medal at the World Championships held in far away Turkmenistan. It was happy but also uplifting to see her receiving the medals and to hear the Spanish national anthem playing for this young, beautiful and very strong muscled lady from Spain. For your information she lifted 80 odd kilos and she herself weighs about 74! Well done Lidia.
Lidia Valentín, the Spanish world champion weight lifter
Later we finished watching 23F and afterwards started on a new series on Netflix, "White Slave" which was disappointing.

I slept badly that night as once again I forgot to take my sleeping tablets. Thus I woke up many times during the night and finally got up at 6.15.

Friday was a beautiful sunny day which made our walk more enjoyable. I hate walking in the rain. But we were lucky that day. Short of a photo to illustrate this week's post, I got Eladio to take a photo of me with the dogs. It was impossible to get them to pose and I had to lift Pippa up by her harness to get her in the picture hahaha.

I came home to do some work and afterwards spent time in the kitchen concocting a healthy lunch which would include my home made meat loaf. I was accompanied, as always, by the dogs who were all resting after their walk. When I saw Pippa lying on top of Elsa our lab, I just had to have a photo. Aren't they adorable?
Our 3 dogs sleeping peacefully together - I love to see Pippa on top of Elsa our lab hahaha. 
While I was cooking, Eladio was doing an annual task I hate. He was closing the pool with the ugly blue tarpaulin until next May. I hate the pool cover which gets full of leaves and forms an ugly pond of stagnant water from the rain in the middle. I tried to argue not to do it as it spoils the image Airbnb guests may have of the house; after all the pool is one of the highlights of our place and the photos in the listings are with the pool open. To no avail I am afraid. He needed help from Lucy and I. Reluctantly we left our chores. And here he is, in the sun, finishing the task. If you look carefully you can spot little Pippa in the picture too!
Eladio covering the pool. I always hate the day he does in in the Autumn. 
Meanwhile, in Austria, Oli was out filming with one of her interviewees from Madrid. That day saw them in a chocolate fountain café. It must have tasted amazing.
Oli and her "madrileño" filming yesterday in Graz at a chocolate café. How lucky
Imagine being paid to eat chocolate!

Friday was a holiday in Madrid and a day off for "madrlileños" to celebrate the city's patron saint, The Almudena. The Madrid cathedral is also called La Almudena and it is here that Franco's family want his remains to be buried. This has caused outrage as it would turn the Cathedral into a mausoleum for his fans and other fascists to pay him homage, just what the government is trying to stop by moving his remains from the Valley of the Fallen. In a way, they have gone out of the frying pan and into the fire.

In the afternoon, after having finished Primo Levi's amazing books, This is a Man and The Truce, the latter about his 2 year journey back from Poland to Italy, I started on another Auschwitz book. You will say I am obsessed and I suppose I am but for me WW2 and the holocaust were not so long ago. I have met survivors, I have met Jews who lost their whole families and of course I had my Mother's tales to hear as a child. So no wonder. On Friday afternoon, with my work out of the way, I started on the fascinating story of the Tattooist of Auschwitz. Lale Sokolov  a business man from Slovakia, a young and smart looking man who spoke 5 or so languages, was landed the job as the tattooist's assistant without asking for it, soon after his arrival. Later he would become the main tattooist. He took it to survive and thanks to it he did survive but he also helped many others.  He hated being seen as a "collaborator" of the Nazis and defiling his people. Whenever he could he told the victims he was sorry. As the tattooist, he had extra rations, was not destined for selection and even had a private room to sleep in. As the tattooist, a job he hated, he fell in love with a young girl Gita Fuhrmannova,  the terrible moment he had to tattoo her arm.  Their love blossomed in the camp with Lale saving Gita's life when she gets typhus by obtaining penicillin through a highly dangerous bartering system he set up with brave local Poles and brave Jewish girls working in "Canada" (the huts where the victims' possessions were sorted) who smuggled out valuables he could exchange with the local Poles working at the camp on the Crematorium.  The wonderful thing about their story is that they both survived and then married after their love blossomed in Auschwitz. It must be one of very few happy endings and perhaps that's why, for once, I actually enjoyed the book.
An amazing and uplifting story, one of the few to come out of Auschwitz
It's all about the centenary of Armistice Day this week, but remember it is also the 80th anniversary of that most terrible of nights, "kristallnacht" (the night of broken glass) when Jews and their businesses, homes and synagogues were attacked so violently on 9th November 1938.

We had a healthy dinner, in keeping with my diet - tuna fish salad - and were in bed remarkably early at 8 pm. The main news on Friday night from abroad were the terrible forest fires in California. In the UK there was shocking news when Boris Johnson's younger brother "Jo", resigned as Transport Minister. He had quit over Brexit describing the prime minister’s negotiations as a “failure of British statecraft on a scale unseen since the Suez crisis”.  He called for a new referendum, arguing that the democratic thing is to give people a final say over the outcome which he argues is totally different to what people voted for 2 years ago. Hear hear is my view.

Friday night TV streaming saw us hooked on season 2 of The Sinner and wow is it good. There are 8 episodes, albeit short, and we watched about 5. It's a thriller with great ingredients; a frightened 13 year old boy who apparently killed his parents, a disturbed detective returning to his  home town to face his own demons while helping the boy, a mysterious and scary sect like commune where the boy is born and raised, all in 3 parallel stories which make for amazing watching. It had us up till nearly 1 in the morning and I swear I would have binge watched till the end but Eladio wanted to sleep. I, myself, could not sleep afterwards until way past 2 in the morning.

Saturday came. It was raining, so we postponed our walk until the afternoon. We spent a quiet morning reading in the lounge - I finished my book and soon it was time for lunch; another "diety" meal hahaha.

I was happy to learn about 2 more Spanish sporting victories on the news yesterday. First Marc Márquez, was celebrating his 7th world motorcycling title, 5 in MotoGP in his home town of "Cervera" in Catalonia. And then in a very different sport, Spain got another world champion. Sandra Sánchez won "Kata" gold in the karate world championships. I'm not sure what Kata is (a sort of Japanese martial art like karate) but I was amazed a Spanish girl could beat a Japanese opponent. She beat the previous world champion Kiyou Shimuzu (had to look that up haha). I don't think many people realise even here just how good Spain is at sport. Yes, we all know Nadal and "Seve" Ballesteros (RIP) and many of the football players but there are many more "Nadals" in Spain and many of them unknown. I am happy to contribute to their fame very modestly from this little blog. I do think Spain, as a nation should take more advantage of its sporting victories to enhance its global image. But, Spain is better at slating its country than praising it unfortunately. The latter seems to be the nation's sport.

Amazingly, at about 5 pm the weather cleared and off we went for our walk at about 5.15 when it was still light. And here are Eladio and Pippa in her red jumper to keep her warm .I love her in it, don't you?
Ready for our walk yesterday - Pippa in her red jumper to keep warm
It rained a little but was only slight drizzle and we enjoyed the walk. It was dark as we came home at about 6.45. The days are getting shorter now.

I finished The Tattooist of Auschwitz just on time for dinner which was salad again. Yes, the fruit and veg we got at the market on Monday have lasted the week.

Last night we watched the last 3 or 4 episodes of The Sinner and wow did we enjoy it. It's one of the best series we have seen in a long time. Go for it if you haven't seen it yesterday.

And today, Sunday, I was awake at 7. I immediately remembered it was Armistice Day and in order to document this blog post correctly, read up a lot about the armistice signing last night. It was signed 100 years ago today early in the morning, at about 5 am but did not become effective until 11 am. The signing was between the Allies, represented by France and Great Britain, and the defeated Germans. It was the latter who had asked for an armistice as their allies dropped out one by one and the Kaiser abdicated on 10th November. It took place in a carriage of a train, the train used by the Supreme Commander of the allied forces, the French Marshal Ferdinand Foch. He was mainly responsible for the text of the ceasefire. The real peace treaty would be signed later in Versailles on 28th June 1919. The famous train was stationed in a forest in Compiegne in France and the Armistice was signed there by Marshal Foch, First Sea Lord Admiral Rosslyn Wemyss, the British representative and Matthias Erzberger from Germany.
The signing of the armistice in 1918 - some of the members and signatories 
In 1940, in revenge, Hitler used the same carriage or railway car, "the scene of the allies triumph" for an armistice to mark the surrender of France. Later when Germany was about to lose the war, Hitler destroyed the carriage. However, in the 60's a replica was rebuilt.  Yesterday, in a very touching scene, today's French and German leaders, Macron and Merkel, visited the replica railway car where the armistices took place.

So that's a bit of history for you if you are interested. It was always my favourite subject at school funnily enough.

Now I must leave you as Sunday morning has just begun and I must get on with the day. I wish you all a happy Armistice Day, peace to you all,  and a great week ahead.

Cheers for now/Masha