Sunday, January 29, 2023

Sub zero temperatures in Montrondo, "empty Spain", the perfect Spanish "tortilla", a white horse in a white field, further adventures in the snow and other stories of the week.

Montrondo, Sunday 29th January, 2023

Enjoying the snow in Montrondo where temperatures reached -9ºc this week

Good morning again friends and readers. How are you doing?

Today is our last day in Montrondo. It's time to go home and as my father used to say "all good things come to an end", They do. After more than 10 days, I am actually looking forward to going home even though we have had a great time. It was the snow that had attracted us and we got plenty of it.  I hadn't seen real snow since the Filomena storm in Madrid two years ago and I got my fill. I also got my fill of cold weather and a wonderful rest in our cosy house. If anything can be described as "slow living" it was our time in Montrondo these last 10 days. 

Last Sunday morning we woke up to -9ºc which is even quite cold for Montrondo. Tucked into a small valley at over 1000 metres high and surrounded by mountains, it often snows here, although, as elsewhere, not as much as when my husband was a child. Even so, it was quite a record for me. Here is a screenshot from my phone to record the sub zero temperatures this week. 

Sub zero temperatures in Montrondo this week
I sent it to the family whatsapp group and Suzy, my elder daughter, asked for a photo to prove it and this is what I sent, the view from behind the house. In the summer this is where we lie on sunbeds under the shade of apple trees - what a contrast. 
There was still quite a lot of snow last Sunday

The sun was shining and it was the perfect morning for a walk. Before leaving I had to have a photo of the house surrounded by snow. Our house - the stone one with brown windows - can only be seen from one place in the village. Otherwise, it is completely hidden. It is sandwiched in between houses belonging to my husband's siblings. 
Our house surrounded by snow - it's the stone one with brown windows and doors
We took the only walk we could, the road to Murias de Paredes, as it was impossible to go up the snow covered mountain path where I once broke my leg on ice. On our way out of the village we always pass one of the fields that belongs to Eladio. He likes to know he has it although we won't ever do anything with it, I suppose.Here he is pointing it out, wearing his fetching red winter coat. 
Eladio on our walk last Sunday, pointing out a field he owns - well, I suppose, we own. 
Wherever we went, Pippa went with us but she didn't like the snow. I was surprised when that afternoon she attempted to climb the steps at the back of the house on to a snow covered garden.  Here she is, a little hesitant to tell the truth. 
Pippa braving the snow
I took a video to record the moment which you can see on my YouTube channel here. 

I had a visitor in the afternoon, my neighbour Salo. She had brought us some walnuts and home made sponge cake, bless her. It was good to talk to someone different from my husband for a change, hahahaha.

Not many people live in the village permanently. I tried to count and think it is just 10. Other people, like us with links to the village or a house here, often come at the weekend and in the holidays, so it isn't completely deserted. However, Montrondo, is definitely part of what they call  "empty Spain". Roughly 90% of the population  (about 42 million) live in towns and cities that occupy just 30% of the land while the remaining 10% occupy the remaining 70% and Spain is pretty big. 
Empty vs crowded Spain 90% live in just 30% of the land and 10% in the remaining 70%

There is a lot of talk but not much is being done about it. Empty Spain (la España vacía or España vaciada) lacks the most basic of services; health, education, internet and even though housing is very cheap, rural Spain is not an option for many people from the city precisely because of the lack of services, not to mention the job market. I wonder how many people lived in Montrondo when Eladio was a child, probably a couple of hundred or more. Oh how that figure has dwindled. In the 60's he  persuaded his parents to leave the hard life of farming cows to move to the nearest city- León -  and they did , as many others before and after them; the original cause of "empty Spain" But their roots here have never been forgotten. Our girls now nearing 40, love the village and little Elliot does too. So when we built the house 8 years ago we did it not only for us but for our daughters and future generations. That's why I love seeing Elliot and Juliet enjoying their time here like their mother Oli when she was a child.  It  was more a sentimental investment than anything else. It's also an incredibly safe place to bring children, especially in the summer, when it is anything but empty.

There is not much entertainment around here so you have to bring your own and we came armed with our PCs, my iPad, our mobiles, kindles, DVD player,  smart watches and blue tooth headphones. That means we need more and more plugs so recently I invested in a sort of control tower which is what we call it and it goes with us everywhere.  This is what half the kitchen table looked like in Montrondo this week when we were connected. Quite a sight  I thought I ought to show you. 
Our control tower in Montrondo
You might notice there is also a note pad for hand written notes. Well, we all still write by hand occasionally don't we? Funnily enough this last Monday was the International Day of handwriting - there seems to be an international day for everything these days. It caught my attention and brought back memories of lessons in calligraphy at Rossfield, my posh primary school in Bradford. Our teacher, Miss Haze (or was it Miss Haize?), was very strict and thanks to her I had beautiful handwriting. However, it has suffered over the years and she would be appalled at how I write now, owing to the digital age I'm sure she would never understand. 

There is a semi smart TV  in Montrondo but internet is the basic type (ADSL) which makes watching Netflix a slight challenge. We watched more of Fauda that night. It's very gripping. 

I slept so well here, waking at around 8 am instead of 6 am and feel completely restored mentally and physically but I don't think I could live here for longer than a month. However, it's nice to come and go when we please or when we are free to come. 

Again we woke up to sub zero temperatures on Monday this week. We had another quiet and repetitive day, not that I am complaining. Our time in the village was very restoring for the soul, the body and the mind. Again we wrapped up well for our walk that morning as you can see in the photo below.

Our walk on Tuesday morning

We met other walkers, not many and curiously a man who is not from the area but upped and left Alicante to live in Murias by himself and his dog. It must be a lonely life. No way could I live here alone. 

Of note that day, I tried my hand at making the perfect Spanish tortilla using the old fashioned kitchen range, so much in use in this area. This is it and I am not an expert at using it but it does make food taste better. It must be thanks to the oak wood Eladio uses to fire it up. When I posted a photo of it on Instagram people thought it was an antique cooking range. It's not as they still make them in many areas of Spain and we got ours when we built the house. 
The cooking range in our kitchen in Montrondo
I had used it already for making soup and frying steak and mushrooms but tortilla would be more challenging. To my surprise it turned out a treat. This is what it looked like.

The perfect Spanish tortilla accompanied by ibérico ham - a good combination
If you are interested, here is my recipe, one I have perfected over the years. If you are not into cooking, just skip this part (hahaha). 

How to make the perfect Spanish tortilla

This recipe will make two small to medium tortillas and is much easier than making one large one.

Ingredients: Olive oil, 3 to 4 medium sized potatoes, 1 large semi sweet onion, salt, 4 large eggs. These are the basic ingredients for a Spanish tortilla, although some prefer it without onion – not my case.

Method

1)    Finely chop one semi sweet large  onion

2)    Peel, wash and slice about 3 medium sized potatoes

3)    Fry the potatoes and onion together in olive oil in a large frying pan until they become soft and slightly brown. - use about the same amount of oil you would for making chips. 

4)    Meanwhile whisk 4 large eggs and season with a pinch of salt - make sure the mixture gets really fluffy. Leave aside in a big bowl to which you will add the potatoes and onions later.

5)    When the potatoes and onion are softer than soft, remove the pan from the hob and pour them through a colander to separate the oil. Add the potato and onion mixture to the whisked eggs and stir with a wooden spoon.

6)    Heat a smaller frying pan and add a couple of spoonsful of the leftover olive oil. Only when it is sizzling, add half the mixture of potato and onion. Cook until you think the base is ready.

7)    Then the tricky part comes. Take the pan off the hob, cover the pan with a plate larger than the pan and turn right upside down.

8)    Return the omelette to the pan with the underdone part at the bottom. It must just hit the hot oil and brown at the bottom but not cook anymore inside. Immediately remove it from the hob, turn upside down again or just slide onto a plate.

9)    Repeat the process for the second half of the mixture.

It’s important for the egg part of the tortilla to be a bit underdone inside but brown on the outside. Once out of the pan, it will continue to cook with the residual heat.  So, if you like yours moist – which is how it tastes best – serve immediately.  If it is not moist  inside, it can taste a bit rubbery and dry, so getting the right consistency is key to the perfect tortilla.

Later we devoured three more episodes of Season 4 of Fauda and only had two left to watch but decided we would watch it from the beginning again to refresh our memories and keep us entertained. The Middle East and its problems fascinate us. 

Tuesday came and brought cold weather again. Olivia was sent to cover the weather for her programme to the pretty town of El Escorial in the mountains of Madrid. It's where the Kings and Queens of Spain are buried and notorious for its cold weather. Here she is, freezing, no doubt. This is the clip from her report which I later found on the programme's twitter feed as she never tells us when she is on live. 

Oli reporting live on the weather in Spain from San Lorenzo del Escorial on Tuesday morning
While she was reporting, we were having our breakfast after which we got in touch with the Ikea after sales people run, not surprisingly, run by Electrolux which is, of course, Swedish. It seems we had managed to get  a man to come on  Thursday either to repair the induction hub or replace it. We didn't want to  leave here until it was sorted. In the end he came on Friday. He took it away to be repaired and has promised to bring it this morning around midday. We cannot leave until he comes. 

That morning I got my first pension pay of the year. The government had announced a rise of 8.5% for pensioners, supposedly in line with inflation and I was interested to know how much more I would be earning.  However, part of that would be offset by rising income tax - in my case by 3.5% which meant the net increase was only 5%.  For people who earn an average or low pension the increase is very little. I was interested to know how many pensioners there are in Spain and it is over 11 million. However, only 463,000 earn the maximum pension. Eladio and I are one of the lucky ones. In Spain too the retirement age is now 66 and will be soon 67. Anyway, enough of that, apart from to say that life as a retiree (hate the word pensioner) is great although I dread old age. 

Before our morning walk and my long leisurely shower, I put a shoulder of lamb on in the oven with potatoes. I couldn't believe it was ready in under an hour. So, after a quick morning coffee - yes we maintained the practice here - off we went for our morning walk to work up an appetite for the  roast lamb - my faourite meat!

It seemed colder than the previous days as there was a bit of cloud and a slight wind. Everything looked beautiful as it does in the winter with snow. We went past one of the two wells in the village. Each has its own name and this one is "El Pilo del Barrio". Every nook and cranny has a name in this village where only 10 people live!
"El Pillo del barrio" - one of the two wells/fountains in the village - frozen
 
As we left the village, I was greeted with the sight of horses in a snowy field. They belong to Manolo, the only villager who has cattle and horses; another man who lives alone which can't be easy. When we come he is often  in my thoughts as he was the person to rescue me when I broke my leg on ice in the mountains 8 years ago. 

Horses in a field as we left Montrondo
I just had to take a video to record the beautiful scene that met my eyes, to share with you here. 

I got Eladio to pose too. For the record he is wearing the Nokia woolen hat I purchased from the Nokia store when I  went to Lapland probably in 2004 or 2005 - there was a lot of snow there. I still have my skiing trousers too from another Nokia trip - this time to Baqueira in Spain around 2003. They are now kept in Montrondo for when it is cold and come very much in handy. Nokia had great merchandising. And here is Eladio in the slightly too small Nokia woolen hat posing with the horses in the field in the background. 


Eladio with by the old path to Murias with the horses in the field in the background

To accompany the photos I took a video which I want you to see so that you can appreciate the beauty of this area in the winter. This is it. 

We were home at lunch time which for us is generally at 2 pm. I heated up the lamb and we devoured a delicious meal. Afterwards, as always, here, we watched the news. Here is the scene for you to get the idea. 
Watching the news after lunch

After she had finished her bone, Pippa joined us. She always chooses the nearest part of the sofa  to the wood burner
And then, as always, we fell asleep watching the news and had a siesta. I couldn't believe I slept for nearly 2 hours!

I could't believe I was hungry again either when it was dinner time but the mountain air and snow in Montrondo only increase my appetite. The news was good that day. The NATO allies agreed finally to send tanks to Ukraine. On the other hand, I think their hesistancy is how Russia will react. Well, it can't get much worse can it? Eladio thinks we are in the middle of World War 3. I hope not.

I was cheered up by two more bookings I got that night. Roger, our Canadian guest who was born in Panama was returning that evening and today a professional padel player from Sweden is coming for 13 nights. We also had the Chinese family staying and this weekend a group of 8 students. So the house was chock a block. When we go home it will be less so. 

That night we devoured the last two episodes of Fauda's Season 4 and I hated the ending - no spoilers if you haven't reached the end. We both agree it is one of the best spy thriller series out there, as good or better than Homeland. And then we started watching it from the beginning again. My memory is so sketchy these days that there is no problem watching series more than once as I can hardly remember anything. The exceptions are my favourite films of all times: The Sound of Music, Dr. Zhivago, Gandhi, Gone with the Wind and The  Inn of Sixth Happiness. 

Wednesday came and again we woke up to -9ºc. Seriously? Back home in Madrid Oli sent us a charming video of our grandchildren, Juliet and Elliot,  going to school. We haven't seen them for at least 2 weeks but will be seeing a lot of them this week. Miguel has been sent to a dreadful music festival today in that dreadful seaside town, Benidorm, for a week so Oli will be alone with them and will need a hand. . This week will be very different to our quiet time in Montrondo. 

That day was the first day we left the village since we arrived the Wednesday before. We went to do the shopping in Villablino, the nearest town to Montrondo. I think our supplies could have lasted longer but I, at least, needed a change in our routine. 

We didn't leave until I had had my leisurely shower. I love the slow living in Montrondo and the house we built to spec from the original family house. I especially love  our bedroom  which we designed ourselves - lots of black and white. I was a bit inspired by a hotel I love in Barcelona, the 1898 where all the rooms are decorated in  stripes. So I took some photos for you to see. 



The huge modern shower is great but I particularly love our claw foot bath tub. I remember the builders saying it wouldn't fit in the en suite so I told them damn it, just put it in the room outside the bathroom which is what they did. I don't use it much but it's very decorative. Pippa uses it more than me hahaha. She lives like a queen when she is with us in Montrondo.
Our black and white themed bedroom and bathroom with its claw foot bathtub. 

Leaving the village was a challenge as the car was literally frozen. Not having anything better to remove the frost with , my husband used his bare hands as you can see in the photo below. 

Eladio removing the frost from the car with his bare hands
I was worried out +20 year old Volvo wouldn't start but it did. I suppose as it was made in Sweden it was designed to withstand sub zero temperatures. It used to be my Nokia company car and has stood us in good stead for some years now. Soon the engine purred and we hit the road. The drive to Villablino is over a mountain pass and the scenery was even more spectacular that day because of the snow. 
A scene from the spectacular drive from Montrondo to Villablino -  22km away
It takes just under half an hour but we went slowly as at some points as there was ice on the road and there we were with our summer tyres. 

Our main shopping was done at Gadis - a supermarket chain from Galicia in the north of Spain - which I only wish had a branch near us as I love the produce and variety there. We stocked up for the remainder of our time in Montrondo and to take provisions home where I suspected the fridge would be rather bare.

Finally this week we got to have coffee out at "elevenses" (12 midday for us in Spain). That was quite a luxury. Our last stop was to buy delicious "cecina" (cured beef, similar to braseola) and some ibérico ham from a shop I discovered through my sister-in-law Dolores. Called El As de Jamón, it is run by a young South American woman, Patricia, and her husband and sells the best quality cecina I have ever bought, even better than at "Aramburu" in Asturias and far cheaper. I noticed they sell online so when I run out I might make an order from Madrid. 

The drive home was just as beautiful and we were nearly alone on the road. What I appreciate most about this area - Omaña (a sub region of the province of León) is that it hasn't been discovered by tourists. That is its salient feature and may it remain tourist free for a long time. As we drove through Murias, I spotted a white horse in a snowy white field. It's not often that happens so I asked Eladio to stop the car so I could take a photo for you. 
A camouflaged white horse in a white field as seen in Murias on Wednesday morning

It's beautiful isn't it?  Although I felt a little sorry for the horse which must feel very lonely. If it was mine it would have company and be covered in a blanket which I have seen in fields in Sweden and in the UK.

We were home just before 2 pm, unloaded the shopping and Eladio lit the cooking range as I needed it to make our lunch. Lunch was soup, fried fish and salad followed by delicious fruit. That's something we eat a lot of and I always have a huge variety that must include mangoes, pineapple, strawberries, raspberries, blueberries and blackberries. We are fruit and veg freaks but I'm afraid we are old fashioned and still enjoy meat. No way will I ever become a vegetarian. 

The news was all about tanks for Ukraine which Russia said they will destroy. It was also about the Brazilian ex Barça football player, Dani Alves, who allegedly raped a girl at a discotheque in Barcelona in December - shame on him. There seem to be so many stories of sexual assault  these days it makes me sick. I wonder if it is happening more now than in the past or is just that more stories are being reported on? I guess the answer is the latter. There was also a horrible story which could have come straight from Fauda. A lone Moroccan man wielding a machete went on the rampage, going into 2 churches in Algeciras in Southern Spain. He killed a verger and tried to kill a clergyman and all this while a service was going on. Is he a terrorist or just a madman? Killing in the name of religion is loathsome but has happened throughout the centuries. Empty Spain might be empty but it is far safer than the cities in these mad times. We always say that if war comes we are moving here. 

On Thursday morning we woke up to new snow. It snowed most of the morning, new snow on top of old snow and soon most surfaces were covered in the white stuff. Here is a photo of the back garden while it was snowing. I just love the peace that snow brings. My neighbour Salo says there is a theory that people sleep best when it snows. She may have a point

More snow on Thursday
Eladio went out to get more wood from the shed to stoke the cooking range which I needed. That day I made the most delicious "fabada" - bean stew - from ingredients I had bought at Gadis including local butter beans from the El Bierzo region. He wore his "madreñas" - wooden clogs to walk over the snow. 
Eladio's "madreñas" - wooden clogs
Madreñas are typically worn and made in Leon and Asturias. They are worn with slippers and are designed mostly for cattle farmers to avoid the muck. They are not easy to walk in if you haven't had the practice. Eladio has of course as he was once a "shepherd boy". 

Even though it was snowing, we dared to go out for a walk. I was dressed in my skiing trousers, thick boots, thick knitted socks (yours Anne from Finland) and my winter skiing coat. I felt and moved like an astronaut. I love the snow but skiing was never for me although I did try twice in my life. My husband, in contrast, is a natural. When he was a child, he wore home made wooden skis to ski to school with in the winter.  It was common in Montrondo. What weren't common in the "old days" in Montrondo were snow ploughs. Just as we opened the gates onto the road we were met by one and I had to have a photo. I was glad it had come as the road would be clearer for our walk. 
The snow plough as seen on Thursday when it snowed again
It was a very wintery sight which I had to take a photo of. I also took a selfie to remember the moment. 
A selfie in the snow on Thursday morning
Most people would be making snowmen or throwing snow balls. I realised we weren't and that's probably because we are now too old for such childish things. I wouldn't have minded having a sledge though. 

I was just content to enjoy the scenery and breathe in the fresh snowy air. The same horses we had seen the previous day were still in the same field and I hoped they had not spent the night there. I was worried they would be cold but even so enjoyed looking at them. I love horses and think the horse is one of the most beautiful animals in the world. When I was a child I wanted riding lessons but my parents thought that was for rich kids. My mother told me the nearest I would get to them was with my pony tail. I would have loved to learn to ride. Eladio did as it was the natural thing when he was a child. They had a horse called "Moro" (the Moor) which they all rode. He remembers his father taking him on their horse after the Christmas holidays all the way to Murias to catch the coach that would take him all the way back to the Seminary in León. He doesn't like that memory. I can hardly imagine a scene like that today. Life was hard in the village but people have fond memories. So it can't have been that bad. 
Horses in the snow
And here he is in modern day dress; very different to what he would have worn as a young boy riding "Moro" after the Christmas holidays. How times have changed. 
Eladio in the new snow on Thursday on our walk
I wanted a photo with the horses and I got one, thanks to my husband. I am carrying little Pippa so she can be in the photo. I felt sorry for her without her coat which we had left in Madrid. But no worries, she had a hot bath when we got home  - yes in our claw foot bath tub  - and then dried off by the fire. 
Me, Pippa and the horses - I felt like an astronaut in my skiing outfit. 
We came home to have my delicious "fabada" which I reckon tasted better than ever as it had been cooked on the range. It was divine, as good as any served at the best restaurants in Asturias I have to say with not much modesty. 
The fabada I made on Thursday, the day of the new snowfall. 
On Friday morning we woke up to a new snowfall. This was the view from our kitchen window, the back garden and terrace where we make barbecues in the summer!
The view from our kitchen window on Friday morning
That day I wanted to go to Villablino again as Friday is market day. I had also booked a table for lunch at the best restaurant in the area, "El Campillo" in Sosas de Laciana. I was worried we may not make it because of the snow. We weren't leaving until the induction hob technician came so I hoped by then the snow plough would have made an appearance. I was wrong. Even so I badgered my reluctant husband to remove the snow from the car and drive to Villablino. I knew it was a challenge and he wasn't happy about it. He went along with me to keep the peace I suppose but you know what? Soon the snow was removed, the car unfroze and we could make a move with care, of course. 
Eladio reluctantly removing the snow from the car on Friday so that we could drive to Villablino
Just as we were setting off, there coming towards us were Manolo's cows following him in his tractor as if they were cattle. What a sight. Later I realised he must have left them in the field the night before, poor animals. Only on Friday would he take them to be sheltered.  I had to have photos of course, like the one below and a video which Eladio and I both enjoyed looking at when we were having our coffee in Villablino a while later. 

Manolo's horses being led to shelter
We drove carefully, especially on the road to Murias and to Senra which joins the main road to Villablino. That was clearer but the snow plough hadn't gone past either. This was the view from our car. Beautiful!
The snowy road to Villablino
We arrived safe and sound in Villablino and felt as though we had had another adventure. Again I said to Eladio that my motto in life is "who dares wins". His is quite the opposite but opposites attract don't they?

I had hoped to visit the market but couldn't find it. Not that I needed anything did I? So off we went to Sosas de Laciana to El Campillo. We have been quite a few times and it never disappoints. They offer a menu of the day for just 15 euros. It includes wine, bread, dessert and coffee and has at least 8 choices for both the first and second courses. If our house was nearer we would go more often. Being January it was very quiet and we were the only diners. We were ushered to a corner table which we loved. The waiter took our orders and then I went to spend a penny and when I came back this was the sight that greeted me - a table full of wonderful food and drink and my husband with a big smile on his face. He was glad to have come after all, despite the challenge of the snow hahahaha. 
Lunch at El Campillo was well worth the challenge of leaving Montrondo in thick snow on Friday morning 
We enjoyed every morsel. It was also great to be out and about again and  to be served a meal after all the cooking I had done.

On our way home, the roads were clearer, except from Senra to Montrondo. Once in Murias, we went past the white field with the white horse again and I had to stop to take another picture. I am very fond of that horse and only wish it was kept warmer and had company. That is not how to look after an animal I thought. 
I saw the lonely white horse in Murias again on Friday
We had not taken Pippa as she would have had to stay in the car while we were at the restaurant. She was ecstatic to see us, as usual. But I didn't feel bad about leaving her alone in our warm and cosy house. Friday was the only day we skipped our siesta. Instead we watched a bit more of Fauda and then Eladio went on a cleaning spree of the bathrooms, bless him. 

Meanwhile, in Auckland, New Zealand, where my cousin Katty and family live,  the city was experiencing the worst floods ever recorded. People died, the airport closed and my Kiwi family battled with draining the water that had flooded their whole first floor. They also tried to battle with the insurance company. I was flabbergasted and felt for them. Freak weather is becoming more and more frequent. Another cousin, Andrei, in Canada, reported "it snowed enough here yesterday that we beat the 100 year record for accumulation for the 25th January! Our adventure in the snow here is nothing compared to what he faces so often in the winter and where they use snow ploughs even to clear the "sidewalks". We only met once and it was in 1977 - when I was just 20. I traveled with my mother who was to meet her brother, Andrei's father, Sasha, for the first time since WW2. What a meeting. I shall never forget the snow in Montreal - snow here is kid's play compared - and how we actually managed to fly out of the city in the biggest snow storm I have ever witnessed. 

Saturday dawned and it had snowed again. I love the snow but don't like walking on the slippery road to Murias as I dread a fall  - I have a tendency to fall as you probably know. Yesterday though it was quite covered with snow and not slippery at all. 

We woke up to a quiet house unlike our house in Madrid where, unbelievably, 13 people had slept - the group of 8, the Chinese family of 3 as well as Suzy and Lucy. Our Chinese family have finally found a flat and may be gone by the time we are home.  I am going to stay in touch with the mother, Amanda - a teacher of English  - as we really hit it off. The big group will have left this morning and in their place, Roger - the Canadian from Panama - and a Swedish padel player will be coming. 

Yesterday Eladio went into cleaning mode again and hoovered the whole house. I did a few shelves (I hate cleaning) and surfaces but mostly concentrated on making soup for lunch on the cooking range. It was snowing again and we were determined to get in another walk, our last here before going home. But first for my long and leisurely shower after my long and leisurely breakfast - I love slow mornings! While I was showering, Pippa was waiting for me right outside on the bathroom mat. She literally follows me everywhere and I had to have a photo to record that moment too. So many moments to record..... No worries, you can't see any of my ugly ageing body haha. 

Me in the shower and Pippa on the mat waiting for me! She literally follows me everywhere. 
By then it was time for our mid morning coffee - quite a ritual - and then for our walk, once again in the snow. Just as we were leaving some of Eladio's siblings and their families were arriving from León - they are about 1h away from here - we would see them later.

And off we went into our private winter wonderland once again. I had had my fill of snow but it still awed me. Eladio took a couple of photos of me ready to go and I quite like them so chose one for this week's feature photo. My friend Sandra commented "you are such a fashion icon! Pink boots pink gloves, lovely blue coat".  If only she knew none of it was worn consciously, it just worked out that way. The pink wellington boots are hand me downs from Oli, the fuchsia gloves came from Yoigo merchandising and as to the coat, it's a very old H&M one I bought in Stockholm once. It's very warm but rather heavy. What Sandra couldn't see were that the trousers I'm wearing are Eladio's  old Adidas bottoms.  So no I'm not a fashion icon but I do like the result hahahha. 
In the snow yesterday - colour coordinated but not a fashion icon hahaha
We came home to a ready made meal - my leftover bean stew (fabada) and then another siesta. It was the perfect winter day, like all the others; days to remember. 

And today is Sunday, the end of our stay here. But we will be back. It has been a real adventure and a tonic to our systems.

Cheers now friends until next Sunday. Have a great day and a great week. Till next time,
Masha. 





Sunday, January 22, 2023

St. Nicholas church in Sofia, an adventure in the snow, winter wonderland in Montrondo, a cozy and relaxing time in the village and other tales of this week.

Montrondo, Sunday, 22nd January, 2022

Happy in the snow in Montrondo

Good morning from cold and frosty Montrondo high up in the mountains of León, in north west Spain. 

January, my least favourite month, is now nearing its end. It is generally the coldest month of the year and that has certainly been true this week when rain, strong wind and snow hit the peninsula. This was thanks to two new storms called Gerard and Fein. I have no idea why storms are now given names but they have. So, silly us, or rather silly me, eager to enjoy snow again, I urged my husband to go to Montrondo, to his village in the mountains of León. I was inspired by a villager (Jenaro) who had posted photos of the snow but I didn't anticipate the enormous difficulty of getting here. Anyway, more about that later. 

Las Sunday, as predicted, was an extremely quiet day with not much to report. I was still reeling emotionally from research into my family's roots in Bulgaria. If you read last week's post, you will know that my mother's family fled there from the Russian Revolution. While I was doing the research last week, my school friend, Geraldine (that lovely "girl" who puts flowers on my parents' grave at Charlestown Cemetery in Baildon) just happened to be in Bulgaria on a skiing holiday. When I published my blog last Sunday she was visiting Sofia, the capital. She even visited my grandfather's Russian Orthodox church, St Nicholas the Miracle-Maker and told me she wished she had read my blog before going as she would have been able to search for his grave. What an amazing coincidence. I wish too that I had told her of my findings. 

She told me it was beautiful inside and out and it looks it. It's very Russian with its typical onion domes.

My grandfather's church in Sofia. St Nicholas the Miracle-Maker

This week I visited the church website and there in writing were mentions of my grandfather. Here they are: 

Over time, the composition of the parish council has changed. As rector of the temple, Vladyka (Bishop) Seraphim himself appointed priests and his assistants. So, in 1925, His Serene Highness Prince Andrey Lieven, who took the rank by vow, became his assistant, according to his contemporaries, the most prominent personality of the Russian nobility in Bulgaria. He was the leader of the nobility of the Kolomna district of the Moscow province, a candidate of legal sciences, a participant in the civil war in the ranks of the Volunteer Army in southern Russia. The history of his vow was well known to the parishioners of the Russian church. During the evacuation from Russia, A.A. Liven tried for a long time and unsuccessfully to find his family in Constantinople, many thousands of people. Then he made a vow to devote his life to the service of God, if the family is found. Soon he miraculously found his wife and children. Having got through Gallipoli to Bulgaria, became the spiritual child of Bishop Seraphim, his desire to take the rank was strengthened. In 1925, Father Andrei was ordained Vladyka and became a priest of the Russian Church, and since 1926. until 1944 he was the secretary of the episcopal council, the right hand of Vladyka Seraphim.

After the decree of November 17, 1944, liquidated all organizations of Russian emigrants and prohibited any of their public activities, the Russian church remained the only place where they could freely practice their faith, communicate and help each other. Great merit in the rallying of the parishioners belonged to Archpriest Andrei Lieven, who, after the death of Archpriest Georgy Golubtsov, became the rector of the church. He was distinguished by true Russian hospitality, kindness, he did a lot to attract young people to the church, organizing conversations on spiritual topics, poetry evenings, at which he often read his spiritual poems and magnificent translations.

Wow, there it was in writing, the confirmation of my grandfather's time at the church as parish priest and right hand man to Bishop Seraphim. My mother talked often and fondly of this bishop. She remembered a party for his name's day when as the priest's daughter she and a friend (Elena) had to lend a hand.  They were young and underage and drank all the dregs left in people's glasses. Apparently the bishop wanted to thank them and her father whispered their misdemeanors  in his ear and they were swiftly sent home. 

She would describe too the long and many hours spent at the church and not just on Sundays. The family were always short of money so all clothes and shoes were hand-me-downs.   She had big feet (a size 8) and inherited her older brother Sasha's shoes which were men's shoes and far too big for her. Her father laughed and said they looked like boats on her feet. She thought they looked like child's coffins or little tanks. These are snippets of their lives I know from her stories. What she didn't tell me is something I read in the first text above that I learned this week, that he was the most prominent personality of the Russian nobility in Bulgaria. Many Russians fled to Paris - all Russian aristocracy spoke French - but many too went to Bulgaria because the religion is Orthodox. My dear Aunty Valya once explained to me that Russian nobility felt guilty about the Revolution and how their riches played a part in dethroning the Tsar, so they turned to religion to purge their souls. I can understand that. My mother's family seemed to carry that to the extreme. 

I know that if and when I visit "their" church I will find it very emotional. No doubt, just as I did when I stepped into my first and last church in Russia on my only visit there, to St. Petersburg in 2006, I will break down and cry for them all. I shall also light a candle for each and every one of them and kiss all the icons, imagining them there so many years ago. A Russian Orthodox service is long, very ritualistic, very spiritual but also very tiring as you have to stand up throughout and the services go on forever in Church Slavonic.  My mother used to tell me they had to go on empty stomachs to receive Holy Communion and that many fainted on occasion, herself included. What a difficult life they had. 

When the Red Army marched into Bulgaria in September 1944, 4 of the siblings had left. The plan was for their parents to leave too and meet up in Austria. When the war ended, my mother kept going to the train station in Vienna but they never came. Bulgarians she knew, escaping the Communist yolk would give her news of her parents and her sisters Olga and Masha. One of them (Madame Moscova) told her she had said goodbye to her father before leaving and that "he looked as if Christ had risen again and her mother looked as if they had hauled her down the cross". The Bishop did not want to leave and her father had decided to stay.  He did not want to leave his parishioners and would suffer the consequences. Then when he may have finally decided to leave, it was no longer an option. In 1949 he fell ill, I think with pneumonia. Aunty Masha always swore he was killed by the communists once under anesthetic but we shall never know.

Any way, enough of this as I must be boring you. The good news though is that I have written to the church and their reply was very warm. They are happy to host us there. Wonderful they still remember him. I now have to get in touch with the convent and that I shall do, for sure. 

As I say, last Sunday was quiet as was most of the week. Monday came and brought the cold weather. The morning was not pleasant to say the least. I had an appointment with my urologist for a second treatment of 4. When I got home all I wanted to do was rest and relax and that's what I did. The highlight of Monday was my Skype call with dear Amanda to whom I can share even the most intimate details of my life.

On Tuesday morning we did something exciting and necessary for our trip - the trip of our lives through Europe to Turkey and the Caucasus in the spring. For some non EU countries an international driving licence is needed. A while back I applied for ours online and that day we went to pick them up in person - you can only go in person. So off we went to the very large DGT (Dirección General de Tráfico) where I think I only went once years ago to get my first driving licence. It's far from where we live and difficult to park. Luckily we didn't need a prior appointment - lots of people were being turned away - but we had failed to take along a photo so had to go outside and use one of those old fashioned photo booths at 5 euros a photo. That slowed up the process a bit but soon we were back and attended, for once, by a very kind official. I was so pleased with the new documents I had to have a photo to remember the moment. As a friend, Catherine, said on social media - "it's becoming real". Indeed it is. The official wasn't allowed to take a photo (so stupid) but we found one willing person who would - a policeman! As we posed I sort of told everyone this was the trip of our life, that we will have been married 40 years this summer and I think I kissed my husband. People looked and someone said "how sweet". I felt ecstatic. And here we are with the treasured documents.

With our new international driving licences. 
We were home a bit late for lunch which was ready on the table - bless you Lucy - and were joined by Suzy. It was then that I saw a video showing the snow in Montrondo, posted by one of the villagers. Oh snow I thought, I want to be there! So there and then, we decided we would go the next day. I just love the snow in Montrondo, even if I broke my leg on ice there 8 years ago.

The afternoon was spent quietly watching episode 2 of Season 12 of Call the Midwife and then less quietly watching episode 3 of Season 3 of Happy Valley which is not happy at all. Over dinner we discussed our plans for the next day. We also spoke to our Chinese guests who still haven't found an apartment and keep extending their stay with us. I have the sinking feeling they are being turned away by flat owners because they are not Spanish or from the EU. There are few flats for rent and too many applicants. Owners here, so frightened of squatters, impose very stringent rules for potential tenants. Eladio made a few calls and one estate agency told him there were 30 prospective tenants and just to visit the flat they had to pay a month's fee - to be returned if they were not lucky. I feel sorry for them and sincerely hope they find somewhere soon. No doubt this weekend they will have cheered up by celebrating the Chinese Lunar New Year of the Rabbit. It is supposed to bring prosperity, hope and calm. They need all three. Don't we all? I certainly got a lot of calm here in Montrondo this week. 

On Wednesday, after quite a bit of shopping as there are no shops anywhere near Montrondo, we set off with Pippa at around 12 o'clock, full of energy and looking forward to the trip and staying at our lovely house. Lunch was to be in Rueda but unfortunately Bodega de Palacio was closed for maintenance. Thus we drove on to the Parador in Tordesillas where we had not too good a lunch for a Parador. But it was good enough to fill our stomachs.

The snow started on the road to León but it wasn't heavy. When we came off the motorway at La Magdalena, that's when we began to see some serious snow. 

However the snow ploughs were working well and the roads were quite clear. We got as far as Senra where you go off the road to Murias and then on to Montrondo where the road ends and the mountains start. Well, that road was absolutely covered in the white stuff and there was no way we could drive in it. Eladio suggested driving further up to a ramp where another road leads directly to Murias. We were alone on the road. That intersection was even worse and we were stuck as you can see in this video. This was the situation we were in and by then it was getting dark. Oh dear, what an adventure. Eladio had brought a shovel and starting making a path but the car just skidded. He also put on some tyre covers - not chains -  ones we had never used and his fingers got frozen. I felt pretty useless so took pictures to document our adventure. 
Stuck in the snow trying to get to Montrondo

Eladio shoveling snow on the road 

The  tyre covers were no good at all in such thick snow.  Oh, how naive we were to have come so unprepared. After a lot of shovelling, we were able to turn round and go back to Senra and there tried to park under cover by the bar, Cumbres de Omaña which was closed. I had to ask for help so rang a dear neighbour. She wasn't at home but arranged for friends to put us up in Senra  -God bless her. Apparently the snow plough had not shifted the snow from Senra to Montrondo so only a 4WD with winter tires could drive there.

And lo and behold, a miracle happened and one appeared. It was the bar owner's car, returning home. He was cross we had tried to park in his enormous car park (he is known for being grumpy) but to cut a long story short, he offered to drive us to Montrondo. So we took all our belongings in his car and left ours outside in the snow - note not in his spacious garage. 

Things weren't easy when we arrived either and the barman helped us shovel away the snow and make a path, telling us off all the time for being so intrepid - as if we didn't know. Here is Eladio with some of our  bags outside the main gate. Without this man's help, we would not have made it to Montrondo that night. So many thanks are due to him. But we have learned our lesson and won't come here again on a whim if it is snowing like this. It was serious snow, the type you see in Canada and Finland. The locals here are prepared but we are not. 

Arriving in the snow at our house in Montrondo
Finally we  were inside what we thought would be a warm home. Eladio had switched on the central heating the night before with his phone but something must have gone wrong as it was off when we arrived. The temperature outside was 1ºc and inside, not much more; 3.5ºc. He soon put it on but it would take all night to heat the house. I had hoped we could light the fire but there was no kindling inside the house and impossible to fetch some from outside. 

We just had to get on with it in the cold. I unloaded and packed away all the food and began to make our dinner. It was going to be fried eggs except that the induction hob just wouldn't respond to my fingers. It suddenly stopped working and I have no idea what has happened. In the end we had a cold dinner in a cold house with the snow outside. But we knew the next day would be a better day and it was.

The night was freezing but I had Pippa to keep me warm under the duvet. I wore 4 layers of clothing including gloves and a scarf. I woke up in the morning to a warm house thankfully. I could not believe I had woken up at past 8 am when I usually wake up in Madrid at 6 ish. I had slept like a baby. Wonderful. 

On Thursday it  was still snowing outside but oh my goodness, what a sight. The photos I took do not do it justice. Here is just one of them, so you can see how deep it was. 

The snow that had accumulated the morning after we arrived
I also took this good morning from Montrondo video which you can see here. 

Finally the house was warm but we needed wood and kindling for both the fire and the cooker - a sort of Aga / range - very typical in this area - which I would have to cook on because the induction hob wouldn't work.  Eladio, dressed in his more than 50 year old dressing gown and snow boots, managed to get wood and kindling from one of the sheds and also shoveled a path from the house to the shed.
Wood and kindling for the fire and the Aga

Eladio shoveling the snow in his 40 or 50 year old dressing gown
Soon he had both the wood fire and kitchen range lit and the house became cozy and inviting. We were to enjoy a quiet and relaxing time in the village now that we had everything under control. 
The fire on in the lounge

My versatile husband lighting the range
I had to cook on the range for possibly the second time ever as we don't usually use it. Everyone does here as they do in the villages in Asturias. So, here I am frying steak. I had to have a photo for the occasion. 
Using the range to make our lunch
In the afternoon I suggested we try and go out for a walk and to enjoy the snow as  by then the snow plough had been and the "main road" was clear. I dressed up in the warmest clothing I had. I dug out some old ski trousers which I wore with thick boots and a very thick puffer jacket that I always leave here. First I had to have a photo of the house with snow - this is it and we love it. 
Our house in the snow - we love it
It was Eladio's original family house which we "inherited". We gutted it about 7 years ago and turned it into a 3 floor cozy cottage. What we also did was to uncover the original stone. It is the only house we do not rent out so it is pretty pristine inside. We are sandwiched in between 2 of Eladio's siblings' houses which used to be part of the farm. Eladio's parents had mainly cattle and sheep. To think my husband was once a  little "shepherd boy" and how different his life is today!

Eladio knows how to deal with snow from his youth, so shovel in hand, he made a path to the road. Here he is. 
Eladio making a path to the road with his shovel
Everything just looked like winter wonderland and I had to have photos and lots of them. It was difficult to choose the feature photo but it had to be of me smiling and stretching out my arms. This is another one. 
Loving being in the snow in our own private winter wonderland
A friend, Joanna, asked if we had made a snowman. I suggested to Eladio that we make one and he laughed saying that was only for children. No doubt, if Elliot and Juliet had been here he would have built one. So, no, sadly, we didn't.

It gets dark here at 6.30 and at around that time it started to rain thus we went back in. I was worried all the snow would go but it didn't as there was far too much of it. It's still here today with no sign of melting. 

Dinner that night was fried eggs - what we love most here - fried on the range and I was quite proud of myself for being able to manage it. 

That night I slept even better as the house was nice and cozy and I couldn't believe I woke up only once and then got up at 8.30. 8.30 a.m. is unknown for me and I felt so refreshed and relaxed. The snow was still there on Friday. It had stopped raining and the sun was out making for some stunning scenery. 

Again Eladio lit both fires and soon I had a cocido cooking which would take hours but was done to perfection. I also sorted out the food cupboards and chucked away  so much food out which had expired. Sorry about that. But I now know where everything is. 

At 12 we set off for a walk to Senra - about 4km - to fetch our car. It was about 9º so not too cold and I didn't have to wear my sub zero puffer jacket. Wherever we looked it was beautiful and we both took so many photos that it is difficult to choose which to share with you. Here are some of them, including a herd of cows I felt sorry for. Eladio assured me they would have a roof over their heads at night. Even so. 




Photos of our walk from Montrondo to Senra on Friday morning in our own winter wonderland
We were amazed to find our car not covered in snow and I suspect the grumpy barman who wouldn't let us park it in his covered garage, removed it. Here is Eladio about to shovel the snow from around the car. The verb to shovel snow in Spanish is "palear" but everyone in this area says "espalar". I thought that was a Castilian Spanish word but it is seems it's local. Everyone here is an expert at it and every house has a shovel. Thank goodness Eladio brought ours. 
Rescuing our car in Senra
And out he came, the grumpy bar man. We wanted to pay him for his services but he refused. We had a long chat about our adventure which I think is the talk of the valley and then Eladio switched on the ignition. I was worried our over 20 year old ex Nokia old Volvo - an S60 - might not start but it did. Soon we were on the clear road and back to Montrondo where Eladio had to shovel more snow out of the way so as to park it on the kerb.

I rushed inside to rescue my cocido but thankfully the range had gone out. But all was good and soon we were sitting down to a scrumptious lunch. Then it was time for the news - all about sending or not sending tanks to Ukraine  - and then a lovely siesta. I do wish the Germans would decide to send their Leopard tanks or otherwise Russia may win this awful war. 

We did not go out again but had a quiet time indoors. We are loving our time here. For dinner I wanted to make a prawn, mango and avocado salad. To do so without the induction hub was an issue and the range needs time to heat up.  Eladio suggested we use the grill that comes with the wood burner. We had never used it so what better time than this week and it worked a treat. It reminded me of my girl guide days (Joanna!). 

Grilling the prawns in the wood burner

And voilà, I was able to make this delicious salad.
Prawn salad thanks to the wood burner
Our entertainment from that night onward was watching Season 4 of Fauda, the popular Israeli series. Fauda means chaotic in Arabic and that it is but also very  thrilling. It's a very authentic story of the Israeli Palestinian conflict. Doran, the main character, played by Lior Raz, who is also the producer, is the main attraction for me. What a wonderful actor he is. 

Again I woke up around 8 am yesterday, Saturday. We spent a good part of the morning trying to find someone to mend the induction hob to no avail. We did get to talk to an electrician we had used before but he had no idea. So that will be our mission tomorrow Monday when businesses open. 

I also spent a good part of the morning leisurely making a delicious lunch of roast chicken leg with potatoes and peppers. Dessert was baked apples which were divine. Everything in Montrondo tastes better than elsewhere. I think it has something to do with the mountain air.

We couldn't go up the mountains because we don't have the right footwear for the snow up there so our walk yesterday afternoon was down to Murias and back up to Montrondo. But it was still beautiful. I would have loved to go on the old path but the snow was too deep and I suspected there would be ice underneath. This is it.
The old path to Murias which we didn't take because of the snow. 
We met people on the way, people, who, like us, had probably come to enjoy the snow at the weekend. Just as you enter Murias one of the main buildings is the old prison which Eladio remembers well as a child. 20 odd years ago it was turned into holiday accommodation and very recently was reopened as a hotel, Casa Rural La Cárcel, by a young couple, Nuria and Fernando. We decided to visit it as we had heard it also operates as a restaurant. Outside the hotel with just 5 bedrooms, someone had built a snowman which was melting. I had to have a photo of that didn't I? I got Eladio to pose.
Eladio next to a melting snowman outside the old prison now a hotel called just that, The Prison, or "La Cárcel" in Spanish
The owners invited us in and also let Pippa in which is quite a concession in Spain. They were  very welcoming and I rather liked the place. They had guests this weekend and seem to be doing very well even though it is low season. We wish them well. I also look forward to having dinner or lunch there one day. 

And off we walked back home to our now very warm house, our nest as we call it, to enjoy another pleasant dinner together and more episodes of Fauda. I couldn't wish for anything more.

Today is Sunday and I woke up again past 8 am. I woke up to a sub zero temperature of -8 degrees  which is even cold for here. Meanwhile, my friend Geraldine, is basking in 19ºc in the south of Spain near Málaga. That is Spain for you; very diverse. Each region is so different as is the weather. 

The sun is shining though and we are warm inside "our nest" and intend to enjoy another relaxing day in this beautiful and remote little village in the north west of Spain. 

Meanwhile, I wish you all a great Sunday, wherever you are.

Cheers till next week, Masha. 




Sunday, January 15, 2023

Life is back to normal, Bolsonaro rioters storm Brazilian congress, my frozen phone, Harry's book Spare goes on sale, planning our road trip, my Bulgarian roots and other stories of the week.

Sunday 15th January, 2023

The Lieven family in Sofia, Bulgaria.
Apparently taken in 1938 before the German and Russian invasions. The only photo I have of my mother and her family together. From left to right - front row; my mother Elena, her great grandmother Olga Stachovich (her mother's mother), her father Andrei Lieven, her mother Sophie Stachovich holding her youngest brother, Nicky (Zuka's father).
 From left to right top row: oldest brother Alexander (Sasha)  then Olga who became a nun and Mother superior, then an unknown man and the two girls on the right from left to right are Dara the other  nun (and nurse) and my darling Aunty Masha, the youngest sibling. The Second World War and communist take over of Bulgaria would separate them forever. 

Good morning friends and readers. Christmas seems like a memory and life is back to normal again. We are now into the middle of January. In Spain, January is often referred to as "la cuesta de enero" which roughly translates into "uphill January" or "post holiday budget crunch" according to Google.  It usually refers to finances, after spending a lot in December but also to people's moods. It's difficult to adjust to back to normal after so much revelry and overeating.

Last Sunday 7th January was a grey, cold and rainy day. On that same day in 2021, 2 years ago, our new guest, Felipe Turover, arrived. We had no idea the trouble he would cause. He was Russian and it was Russian Christmas which is quite a coincidence .Thankfully that chapter in our lives is over. I do wonder, sometimes, though, what has become of him. 

The same day he arrived, snow began to fall big time. We had no idea we would experience the biggest snowfall in Madrid since 1971 - 52 years ago now. It was 2 days later that we woke up to a winter wonderland, the sort you see in countries like Finland or Canada but not Spain.  I had never seen anything like it in my adopted country.  Facebook reminded me of it this week. Later I looked at my photo file of Filomena and was wowed at the photos, like the one below. Just look at me,  knee deep in the snow in our garden.

2 years ago this month Madrid saw its biggest snowfall in 50 years.
On our walk we remembered it but also spoke about our upcoming road trip through Europe to Asia in the spring. We are still deciding when to go; either April or May. May is my favourite month of the year. It is a month of long days of sunlight with the summer to come when it's still not too hot. January, on the other hand, is my least favourite month. I hate the cold and grey skies and am happy I made the decision to move to Spain so many years ago where we get more sunshine than any other country in Europe, usually.  It was in  1981, nearly 42 years ago, that I made the decision and here I am still happily married to the man who was behind that decision, the man I married in 1983, my dear husband Eladio.

So January always gets me down a bit but I had good news that day, more guests coming which always gives me a lift as January is not normally a good month. I already had a German guest coming who would be accompanied by a friend the next day. Then I got a sudden reservation from a family of three from China who are moving to Spain. They came on Tuesday and are using our house as a base to find more permanent accommodation. Then, Miguel, our mounted policeman, made a sudden reservation and arrived late that night. That made for 6 guests this week which is quite a record for this time of year. Pilar came on Friday and Miguel will be back on Monday. The sudden influx of new guests has had us all busy, especially Lucy. But it also means I have met new people, from Germany and China which has been interesting for us. I do love receiving our guests from all over the world and for so many different reasons. That, I suppose, has something to do with my own very multi cultural background which has marked me all my life. 

The afternoon was quiet and I spent part of it watching Season 2 of Happy Vallley set in Calderdale, West Yorkshire. I once told you it's called that ironically because of the amount of drug dealing and drug taking in the area; mostly Hebden Bridge. The story line is great as is the script and Catherine, the main character, a Police Sergeant, played by Sarah Lancashire, who, by the way, is from Lancashire is a fabulous main character. I am loving it. I love the fact that it is set in Yorkshire as everything is so familiar, especially the dialect and architecture. In one of the episodes a dead body is found in Baiting's reservoir near Sowerby Bridge which I visited with Simon, Gill and Amanda last November. 

It was interrupted by a scheduled Skype call with my dear friends Sandra (Brussels) and Adele (in between Orleans and Vannes in France). We spoke for over an hour and tried to fix a reunion this year which we didn't manage as Adele has so much on her hands these days.

My last non diet supper was a bit of left over Spanish omelet followed by the last of the Christmas sweets - "turrón". The next day, Monday, would be the start of "life back to normal" and my diet.

I woke up late on Monday morning. The main news was the assault by pro Jair Bolsonaro followers on  Brazil's most institutional buildings in Brazilia while both he and the newly elected Lula were not there. It reminded the world of a similar assault on the Capitol in Washington also in January and also 2 years ago. 
Pro Bolsonaro rioters assaulting Congress in Brazilia last Sunday

By the time I woke up on Monday morning, the assault was over, the rioters detained and their camps set up months ago, dismantled. I think the Bolsonaro fans who, like Trump's fans, refuse to accept the electoral result of 30th October,  were not just looking for a fight but were hoping for support from the military for a political coup. But who organised them is the big question? 

The rain had gone that morning and the sky was blue, so a perfect day for our walk. It wasn't until we got back that I realised my phone was missing, my lovely Samsung Galaxy S20. I tried to retrace my steps before leaving the house and searched for it everywhere to no avail. Thus Lucy and I retraced our steps on the walk for a while hoping to find it when I remembered the last thing I did before leaving the house was to rummage in our big deep freezer on the ground floor in search of salmon for lunch which I didn't find. We rushed back and walked into the pantry but I couldn't see the phone anywhere. I even lifted the lid of the freezer and I couldn't see it. Eladio then decided to take our walk again there and back, again to no avail. Poor chap. I can't remember who said it but I decided to look in the freezer again and there is was tucked under some peas and covered by a packet of prawns. It had been there for more than 3 hours and I was sure it was a "gonna". I took it out and put it on my stomach. Suzy wanted to put it in the sun and Eladio, wisely, said to leave it on his desk. By then I had read to get it to room temperature and only then try to switch it on. I had also read that most smartphones these days are designed to withstand between -20 and -35ºc, so there was hope. Suzy who knows these things said the freezer would not be below 20ºc as otherwise food gets destroyed. An hour or so later Eladio switched it on and slowly and surely it woke up and was no worse for wear.
My frozen phone that came back to life


I had read that extreme temperatures below zero could discharge the battery but it hadn't. I was overjoyed at having it back as it saved me about 1000 euros which is what a new phone would have cost, plus all the hassle of restoring everything. I was so happy I hugged Lucy, Suzy and Eladio. We are nothing these days without our phones. 

Lunch was a bit of salmon with leek, etc and then it was quiet time, except that I was interrupted by the arrival of my Chinese guests. They, like many Chinese, have adopted western names. I thought it funny the father is called George like my brother and the mother Amanda like my best friend. Their 10 year old daughter is called Nancy. They had brought about 10 suitcases for their new life. But they had no car and only a Chinese phone without things like Whatsapp or more importantly, for them, Uber, to get around.  I thus got George to send me an email as his only way of communicating with me if he needed something like a taxi. It took me a while to settle them in. 

I then went back to watching Happy Valley until it was time for my Skype call with Amanda. I told her all about my frozen phone (hahaha) and my Chinese guests named George and Amanda. 

Everyone was in the kitchen when I went down for dinner; our 2 German ladies asking for tourist information which I gave them and George and family making the proverbial Chinese tea. We had a quiet - 'diety' - dinner in the dining room.

Tuesday dawned, the day of the official release of Prince Harry's book Spare. He had been interviewed by ITV and other, mostly, US, media the night before but for it was the same old story. Even so I had ordered it  and on Tuesday morning it was available on my kindle. I later read that in one day 400.000 copies had been sold. That's an awful lot but paltry compared to the other Harry (Potter) books which sold in their millions. What do I think so far? The best part is reading his own words which are of course ghost written so they may not be his own words but they are his own ideas. When he talks about killing the Taliban like chess pieces or about his 'willy' (his member, not his brother), I just wonder if he had any advice whatsoever. Some of it I can relate to and understand - the devastating death of his mother. Other bits I can't, like the size of his bedroom at Balmoral. Frankly he is not the only subject to sibling rivalry; we all are. So I just wish he would realise how privileged he is, still. But my biggest take away is that you don't wash your dirty linen in public. At least, that is how I was brought up. And, that, is what he has done. He was also on lots of TV programmes being interviewed but my VPN wouldn't let me see the ITV interview. I get the feeling those who interviewed him did not grill him enough but then again he chose them. For someone who hates the media, especially the tabloids, all he is doing is further feeding the beast. Funnily enough, even he recognises this. So why did he do it? I still don't know - money, a way of getting things off his chest - cathartis. Only he knows and Megan of course. His mother would have been appalled and his father, the King, must too, but then both of them went down that same route on the BBC in the 80's. So, he is only following in their footsteps. 
Finally "Spare" is out 

Spare and the interviews with Harry dominated the UK papers this week which is a bit sad if you think there are far more important topics; mostly the damaging strikes in the UK and the state of the NHS. Of course Harry is not affected by any of this nor would he be if he had stayed in Blighty. Why? Because he is from the very top of society, where his ever need is cared for, at least physically. However, he may have suffered in his new hometown, Montecito, 2h from Los Angeles, where there was a huge storm this week and inhabitants were evacuated. But I bet his sprawling 5 million dollar mansion can cope with that. Does he not realise just what a privileged and rich kid he is compared to the rest of the world? His problems are nothing in comparison and that is my other take away. Stop whingeing Harry and get on with life by doing something a bit more useful than filling the tabloids with stories of your "willy" or fights with "Willy".  Having said that, I am feeding the beast too by reading his explosive biography.  That's because I love the minutiae of what goes on behind the scenes at Buckingham Palace; precisely because of the mystique created by the Royal family of what really goes on out of public sight. 

No doubt on Tuesday, Harry, was being given feedback on the reaction to his book. I just read a few lines and got on with my morning which consisted of our lovely crisp and sunny walk. I also did some fruit shopping. You should just see the huge juicy oranges and mandarins I bought at less than 2 euros per kilo. I filled the kitchen and dining room with them and would go back for more later in the week. Lunch was just Eladio and I and then our treasured siesta where I fell asleep reading Spare - oh gosh. We were interrupted by the arrival of the "kids" (grandchildren) who came for a while with their mother. At about 6 pm when they left, you had me texting with my mounted policeman guest who is returning next week for 5 nights. It will be his 4th or 5th visit but I only met him the first time he came. 

That had me updating my accounts for our bookings. Eladio was poring over maps of Europe for our road trip. I have a file called "The trip of our life". If last week my husband said he thought 3 countries would be enough and I persuaded him otherwise, this week he said it would be too much to drive from Istanbul to Tibilsi (Georgia). I am in the process of persuading him otherwise again. I also pored over maps. Just in case then I went and bought the only  road map of Europe I could find on Amazon . 

Just bought this on Amazon for our road trip

We will use sat nav of course but I think we will need it. It is A3 so will be huge but I prefer it that way. Our biggest problem in planning our route is that we know very little about the Balkan countries. I couldn't even find one on Amazon, just on google. This is what I found and it is helping enormously. 

Map of the Balkans
We printed out a landscape copy each and bingo it all came alive. When I did geography in the 70's with Miss Fair at St. Joseph's College, Bradford, most of it was former Yugoslavia and the capital was Belgrade. Today it is divided into 6 or 7 countries if you include Kosovo. These are: Slovenia, Croatia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Serbia, Montenegro and Macedonia. I knew all the capitals except for Montenegro. Ever heard of Podgorica? Also belonging to the Balkans are  Romania, Albania and Bulgaria. I don't suppose we can see everything in a month or month and a half but we shall see a lot. 

I also downloaded a map of Turkey where I could see exactly where the borders to Armenia, Georgia and Azerbaijan are. And I googled the distance from Istanbul to Tibilisi and it's 1600km. ChatGP then told me we cannot pass the border from Turkey into Georgia with a private car and the only way to get to the latter is through the border with Armenia. I dream of visiting this area,  the foothills of the Silk Route. Eladio pointed out that Turkey is 1.6 times larger than Spain so there will be a lot of driving. Well, I know that and it doesn't put me off. 
I want to get as far as Georgia
For the moment we are dreaming and planning. Once on the road there maybe other plans and lots of detours. We shall see. Meanwhile,  it's fun planning.

Our day ended with a quiet dinner in the kitchen with no signs of our German or Chinese guests. My night ended watching episode 1 of Season 3 of Happy Valley. I was gutted the rest is not available yet. 

It rained again on Wednesday which was unexpected but I suppose good for the reservoirs. Thus we skipped on our walk. Instead I worked on our road trip, concentrating on a stop in Sofia. 

One of the main points of interest for me on our road trip is a stop in Sofia, Bulgaria. Why you may ask? Well, because that is where my mother's family exiled to when they fled the Russian revolution. That is where they set up home. My mother lived there - apart from 4 years at school in France - from about 1921 to 1944 when she fled the Red Army which marched into Bulgaria in September 1944. She fled to Germany as a refugee with two of her brothers, Sasha (the oldest) and Nicky (the youngest). She left behind her adored father, Prince Andre Lieven, a Russian Orthodox priest, her mother, Sophie (Sonia) and sister Olga (the oldest of the three sisters) who had became a nun.  That day I dug out lots of photos like this one of my grandfather who I never met. 
My grandfather: Lieven Andrei Alexandrovich 1884-1949
I also found the only one I have of the whole family including the 6 siblings, 3 boys and 3 girls; Sasha (Alexander), Olga, Dara, Elena (my mother), Nicky and (Aunty) Masha. That had to be this week's photo of the week. They had already fled Russia in 1920 but WW2 and the subsequent communist take over of Bulgaria would separate them forever. My mother was only able to return 46 years later! Imagine. I have inherited that family tragedy. It is something that lives with me and is a reason I have to include visiting Sofia on our trip. But back to the family when they lived in Bulgaria. 

It was  a strictly religious Russian Orthodox family. Olga wanted to become a nun from a very early age and later became a mother superior and was known as Matushka Serafima. My mother loved her and called her a saint. Mummy was rather a difficult girl and Olga took her into hand and even made her take her vows to become a nun. Later when she met my father she had to ask her sister permission to revoke her vows. This is Olga as a very young nun. She was, apparently, very beautiful.

Princess Olga Lieven - my mother's older sister who became a nun and Mother Superior known as "Matushka Serafima"

With help from other nuns, masons and architects she built her own convent, "Convent of the Protection of the Mother of God" outside Sofia near Kniazhevo. 
The convent

All this was during Stalin's repression. My mother also left behind her beloved youngest sister "Aunty Masha" who was just 17 at the time. Masha later was able to defect from  Bulgaria in 1959 and the two closest sisters were reunited. Her beloved father died in 1949 so she never saw him again. Her mother was allowed out in the 60's and she was reunited with her too. But, she had not seen Olga or been "home" since 1944.   In 1990 and in 1992 after the Iron Curtain fell, 46 years later, my mother was able to go back to Bulgaria. I knew that and knew about the amazing reunion of the 4 sisters - Olga, Masha, my mother and Dara. Dara had left for Sofia for England before the war to become a nurse at St. Thomas' hospital  London  and after the war went to Canada and from there to New York where she too became a nun. In 1990 the 4 sisters were to meet for the first time since the war. As my mother told the local paper (Telegraph and Argus - Bradford) "we parted as young girls and only met again as old women".  These words haunt me. I met all my mother's siblings except for Olga and this trip will somehow make up for that.
The four sisters reunited in Bulgaria. From left to right: Masha, Olga, my mother Elena and Dara

So, keen to visit Sofia I had to know where to go. I want to visit my mother's house, my Aunt Olga's convent as well as my grandfather's church and see his grave. My father had type written two diaries he wrote of their journeys in 1990 and 1992. So on Wednesday morning I dug them out from my now relatively well organised family archive and sat down and read them. 
Extract from my father's fascinating diaries - the page where I learned where my Aunt Olga's convent is located. 

I had read them years back but not with an eye to visiting Sofia or searching for my mother's roots. Oh how I loved reading every word. I love my father's script and his descriptions - he comes alive to me.  He concentrates mostly on observations of scenery, a huge focus on languages, food, prices, the dreadful state of Bulgaria after the fall of the Iron Curtain and the lingering Soviet influence. He can be quite funny at times. I love the story he tells of their journey back and an exchange of conversation with my colourful Aunty Masha: "When the Yugoslav officials were examining our passports Aunty M. asked for help in replacing our suitcases, saying she had fought with Tito's partisans. The request caused him to smile slightly, but no help was forthcoming". My Aunt really did really become a Tito partisan in WW2, leaving home with her friend Nina. I think it was more an adventure but a very scary one for a teenager. She did though, learn Serbian which helped that day. In their subsequent trip in 1992 which this time was by air and not by train, I loved reading my father write this from Terminal 2 at Heathrow on their way out: "The departure lounge is an extremely cosmopolitan area, a great place for language identification". Most people would probably talk about the shops and restaurants but what interested my father most was the languages being spoken.  At the end of their second trip he writes: "I enjoyed the trip to Bulgaria and would like to go there again. I sat through hours and hours listening to conversations in Bulgarian with Mummy translating from time to time. I understood the gist quite often because it is in some ways similar to Russian with quite a mixture of Turkish and Greek words". 

At one point he says sorry for his lack of emotion. I had always hoped for a long description of the meeting of the 4 sisters but it simply isn't there. There is not one word about my mother's feelings going back "home" after more than 40 years, what it was like to be reunited with her sisters, to see her best friend Violette Tomova (later became a top Olympian fencer) from the French Lycée in Sofia - he does say though that at their first reunion they sat together talking non stop for 7 hours.  He adds that instead of speaking Bulgarian which was more natural for them, she and Violette spoke in French for his benefit. What this trip must have meant for my mother I can only imagine. But I did glean important information  - where the "nunnery" as he calls it is and more importantly where the family lived; both on Ulitsa Dante 8 (second floor) and Tolbukhin Street. I looked up the former on Google maps and the place looks very run down. You have to remember my mother's family left all their riches and worldly goods in Russia when they fled and arrived penniless in Sofia.  They went from riches to rags. My mother and brother Nicky once asked my grandmother, "Babushka Sonia", what it was like to be rich and then become poor. Her answer was this: "when I was rich I didn't notice it and when I was poor I was too busy to notice it".  As to where my grandfather's grave is, there is no mention but I know it has to be at his church, the only Russian Orthodox one there is, the Church of St. Nicholas. 
The Russian church in Sofia - St. Nicholas - where my grandfather was the parish priest

I dug out a very unfocused photo of the grave and this is it. It is thanks to my dear Aunt Valya - RIP -  (married to my mother's youngest brother Nicky) that I have the photo. 

My grandfather's grave
I shared all this with my dear friend and genealogist, Andy, who did our family tree. He went as far as to examine the inscription and get the Russian Church Slavonic translated by a contact at the British Library. It is a verse from the Gospel of St. Matthew - "Blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain mercy". That must have meant a lot to my family. But he also pointed out to me that there is another person included in the headstone. It is my maternal great grandmother - my mother's maternal grandmother, Olga Stachovich. Her name is at the base of the gravestone. She travelled from Paris to Sofia in the hope of treatment for cancer but died there in 1938. My mother always told me how she found her dead reading in a chair, together with Olga. It must have been bizarre. 

Researching my mother's roots in Bulgaria and reading my father's dairies was quite an emotional experience. Oh why I didn't I ask them more when they went? Oh why didn't I go with them? If I had I would have met Aunty Olga. But I didn't. I suppose at the time it was difficult. I was a young mother with two daughters and a very busy job. I was happy with my findings and cannot now wait to see these places with my own eyes. I only hope the convent is still open and a going concern as it was during my Aunt's leadership.

The rest of Wednesday pales in comparison. Of note, in the afternoon we went to Oli's house. It was to pick up a lovely white Ikea chest of drawers they no longer need for Juliet's room. It has been replaced with a wigwam which the kids adore. We thought it would be of use and look good in our bedroom and it does. Now I can move more of my stuff that has  invaded Eladio's wardrobes over the years. 

The new chest of drawers - thank you Oli. We love it
Thursday dawned and I was up at 6.15 - a bit too early again. But later the sun came out which brightened my day.  I was still thinking about my father's diaries and all I had gleaned .I think it was quite an emotional experience because over coffee with Eladio at Alverán I broke down in tears. He mentioned that on our trip - like the one in the UK to see my father's roots in 2019 - we would be seeing more graves. I broke down and told him that all I have are graves - no more family. They are ALL gone and I cried for them there in our favourite café for all to watch and not understand. It is difficult to explain. Do you understand? Why am I being so emotional or interested in past relatives? I think it has to do with my own very incredible multi cultural background with so much history. While crying, I tried to explain to my husband that I regretted not asking my parents more. Later we both reflected that our children - Suzy and Oli - are not particularly interested in all this family background but one day, when they are much older, they maybe. I hope I am around to tell them. At least I got some of the emotion off my chest. Do they realise just how multi cultural their own roots? Maybe not now, but maybe later. 

Thursday included an invigorating walk my father would have loved, food shopping which he loved too and a nice lunch in the dining room. There are photos of him on the walls, the ones I used for his memorial events and they remind me everyday of his absence. 

I spent a lot of the afternoon reading more of "Spare" and also watching Happy Valley. It's quite hard stuff. Later I saw my guests, the Chinese family and the two German ladies. Both the Chinese family have upped and left their country as has one of my German guests. George and Amanda told me they had done so - even selling their home - to give their daughter a better (private) education. Amanda said if if costs between 10  and 15 grand a year here, in China it is 4 times more. But they are having difficulty finding an apartment that suits them and their budget. Meanwhile they have prolonged their stay. They are very welcome and they seem to love me. Their 10 year old daughter, Nancy, in her pretty red tartan school uniform touched my hair and said I was blonde and beautiful. Bless her, who cried on her first few days at school because she misses her school, friends, her home.  Of course she does.  She also cried because her English is limited and of course knows no Spanish. But they are resilient people and I'm sure all will be fine. I am happy to help them too. 

Friday came  and was the quietest day of the week, the highlights being our walk, more of Happy Valley and a  long Whatsapp video call with my dear friends, Phil and Kathy who are also from Yorkshire. I think of them a lot while watching the detective series filmed very near where they live.  We had lots to catch up on and probably chatted for more than 1.5h. It was good. 

It was Friday 13th but nothing unlucky happened. In fact we had some luck. As we are both retired we are now entitled to free public transport in Madrid capital and province. I had ordered my card online and that day ordered Eladio's. He is great with his hands but not so great with IT. He thinks I am very good at it but I well remember being told by a colleague once that I should be using a Fisher Price computer. That hurt so I do my best. It was a funny feeling ordering a free travel pass for retired people. It's funny too to think I have reached that stage of life when not so long ago I was a girl. So I had mixed feelings while ordering the free transport pass.  On the whole though we both agree we are in a good place.  My life might seem perfect to you when you read this blog but I assure you it is not, although I have less to complain about than most people and I always try to think on the bright side. That is something my father taught me and he had his fair share of bad luck but he always put one foot forward and got on with life, getting the most out of it. I like that lesson from him. 

Saturday was quiet too and we only left the house for our walk.  I spent part of the morning further researching our trip. I had conflicting information on how to cross the borders from Turkey into both Georgia and Armenia. ChatGPT (wrongly) told me that the border with Georgia was closed. That meant having to drive first to Armenia which didn't make much geographical sense. That's when I decided to ask the only Georgian I know, David, a guest who has been here 3 times. He immediately told me there is no issue with the borders - better from the Sarpi crossing - and no issue with driving from Georgia into Armenia. He also told me it was safe. Those words from him are what I hope have now convinced my husband to include the Caucasus. For me the trip would not be the trip of our lives without venturing there. 

Sadly, that day I finished Happy Valley- having watched season two, part of season 3 that is still being broadcast and then watched season 1 again. Missing Sarah Lancashire, I turned to my DVD box set of Last Tango in Halifax where she plays a teacher in Harrogate. I had last seen it when I broke my leg in 2015 I think it was and she is marvelous. It's not just the character or characters and the script, it is the setting - Yorkshire - that draws me to these two wonderful series.

When I came down to dinner the kitchen was full. It always has been at about 8pm this week. George, Amanda and Nancy were eating their take away at the kitchen table and Anke, my German lady guest, was making her dinner alone now that her friend had left. We invited her to eat it with us in the dining room and that turned into a very interesting evening. Anke has decided to leave Germany and live in Spain for her own personal reasons and wants to go to the north coast. We have given her lots of tips. When asking her about her motives I found out she was born in Leipzig in East Germany years before the wall came down. I think she is the first East German I have ever spoken to about life under communism. She told us she never conformed although her family strongly did. Talking about the wall, she explained how the authorities sold it as protecting the people but she didn't buy that and wanted to see the world. Anke defected against her family's wishes just before the wall came down. Sadly they branded her a traitor. It was only years later that they could admit that the Soviets had told them lies - life was better in the west.  I can completely relate to her life having being brought up on the Russian Revolution, WW2 and the Cold War stories since I was a child. I am in awe of the people I meet thanks to my little hospitality business. I really am. It brings in an income but also gives us the privilege of glimpsing into the lives of so many people from all the corners of the earth. My mother and father would understand that I know. 

I am imagine you do too although some people think we are crazy taking guests into our own home. Ah but how enriching is the experience. Dinner last night was another enriching experience. Thank you Anke. 

Today is Sunday and looks like it will be quiet again. Let's see what next week brings.

That's it from me now, cheers, Masha.