Montrondo, Sunday 30th August, 2026
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| Parents, aunts and uncles with the bride and groom yesterday at the wedding. |
Good morning from Montrondo again.
We left on 20th August after over a month here with the family and came back this week a few days before our goddaughter Alicia's wedding which was yesterday in León.
Before I get to that, let me rewind to last Sunday and tell you about this week which has been quite a lazy one. The heatwave in Madrid was finally over and we resumed our morning walks that day. The two of us and Pippa thoroughly enjoyed it. Later I spent time lazing by the pool and reading. It was sheer luxury to have it to myself. Eladio took a picture. This is it.
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| Lazing by the pool last Sunday |
I lazed in the afternoon during which I slept a 2 hour long siesta I desperately needed.
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Monday two French girl guests left after a great wedding in Madrid. That day I finally met our current guest, José who is from Colombia. He has quite a story if you look up the name of his company; a string of bakeries called "
José Pan". He was a policeman in his home country and came to Spain in the 90's to escape the violence there. With very humble beginnings he is now a rather rich businessman.
Monday too was Independence Day in the Ukraine. Many European leaders visited Kyiv, including the new Labour PM, Andy Burnham. It seems unbelievable that the war with Russia has lasted so long; since 22nd February 2022 and that neither side has won. I am on firmly on the side of Ukraine and just wish Putin would end this senseless war.
I went to the hairdresser in the morning for a much needed dye and cut. Tana was off for a well deserved couple of days rest so I made our lunch. Amanda was travelling this week so there was no Monday afternoon FaceTime call that day which I missed a lot.
I slept badly that night and couldn't fall asleep until past 2 pm. I missed Oli on the TV on Tuesday morning but she later sent me photos. She looked spectacular this week dressed up for her news desk reporting job.
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| Olivia looking good in the outfits she was given to wear for her job this week |
While she was working, I was having a lazy week but I am happy to say she is now on holiday and this morning after the wedding they are driving to the house in Asturias. It is only the second time they have been there and it will be all very new for the kids. I rather wish we were with them but don't want to invade their space.
Wednesday saw Suzy and I doing the weekly shop which I hadn't done since before our long stay in Montrondo. It was good to have my daughter's help. It was good too, to have a coffee together at Alverán. I also went to the bank to withdraw money for the wedding. These days the bride and groom only want money and even include their bank account number on the invitation. The cost is to cover the food and help towards the honeymoon. In Spain the minimum you are expected to pay is 200 euros per person. Some people don't accept invitations because they can't afford it. It is not a practice I adhere to but you can't get out of it in this country.
We came home to unpack the food and put it away. Suzy made a wonderful gazpacho with water melon and I made the filling for perushkis (little Russian pies) Tana batch baked in the afternoon.
I packed in the afternoon for Montrondo as we were leaving on Thursday and I made sure I took lots of warm clothes. It just wasn't going to be the same lovely weather as before. As I packed, I reflected on how many "necessities" we have when we travel, even if it is for only one night. That includes my pillow, pills, potions, lotions, decaf tea, God knows what else, food of course and then most importantly all our technology: 2 PCs with their chargers, headphones, our charging stations, my kindle and my iPad. Just that fills a suitcase I bought specially for this purpose. Suzy took lots too so she must have her own necessities, one of which is "mate", the famous Argentinian tea like drink. She and Tana both drink it religiously every day. I tasted it once and far prefer proper tea. Well, I am originally British aren't I?
Oli and family arrived for dinner which was a splendid affair. The table was groaning with home made gazpacho, perushki, roast chicken and fresh fruit. We had dinner outside which is unthinkable of here in Montrondo although the weather should get better today and I still have hopes of some sunny walks to Murias.
We watched the news after they left. In Nepal and Tibet there were terrible flash floods caused by a glacier that had melted in the Himalayas. Over 500 have died and many more are missing. 596 foreigners from 33 countries are included in those missing. What a dreadful holiday for them. The images are pretty frightening. The stupidest piece of news I heard this week was that Trump wants to change the name of Lake Ontario to Lake America. He really is on a mission to obliterate his neighbour Canada.
The main news here is the ongoing invasion of Ceuta where at least 10.000 illegal immigrants, mainly from Morocco but from Sub-Saharan Africa too, remain. A month ago some 80.000 crossed over into Ceuta, a Spanish enclave in North Africa which has a population of a similar number. Most of them returned but those remaining have to be processed, including about 1000 minors which the Spanish government is happy to welcome free into the country. They are living on the beaches and are being fed by the Red Cross. God knows where they go to the bathroom. They are not all peaceful souls hoping for a better life. Many are convicts and known criminals and the local population is terrified. There have been 13 accounts of rape and quite a lot of violence. I ask myself why this Government has not dealt with the issue swiftly. The press say the PM, Sánchez is to blame as he flew to Ceuta, promised help which never came and then quickly went on holiday to the Canary Islands where he was guarded by nearly 100 armed police officers. The press also blame the Moroccan government who they accuse of causing the avalanche of their countrymen as political leverage against the Spanish government. The story gets uglier. Apparently the Moroccan Government has tapes of Sanchez' mobile phone the latter would prefer not to be published. Who knows? What I do know is that this cannot go on for much longer.
Thursday came and I was up early. Before leaving I was able to watch Olivia on TV. She was reporting on the Meta (owner of FB, Instagram and Whatsapp) settlement with US states of 18 billion dollars. Meta was rightly accused of adding and including features that cause social media addiction to children and young people and mental health issues. Meta pays this money to the government but also faces hundreds of private lawsuits. That probably won't hurt Mark Zuckerberg too much. What will hurt more probably are the changes his company will have to make to his platforms to make them less addictive. I would love to see the end of infinite scrolling but I don't know how they will implement that. They have also promised to limit the use of their platforms to 2 hours a day and include a night time black out for under 18's. Best of all they have to hide the "Like" counts which are so addictive. It sounds good. Will it happen? I hope so. One article I read likened this lawsuit to the tobacco companies years ago. Hopefully, things will get stricter and stricter. It is hoped too that the other major social media platforms such as YouTube and Tik Tok will follow suit.
When we were ready, we left for Montrondo in our lovely new car. It was sad to leave Pippa behind but she couldn't go to the wedding and we didn't want to leave here here for a whole day. Tana remained to hold the fort and look after both the house and the guests.
Suzy and Eladio drove and we only stopped once for a coffee. It was pouring with rain when we arrived and freezing cold and the village seemed deserted. But it wasn't entirely. Pili, Eladio's sister was still here although she left later. We had coffee here with her and Toño and Dolores who are leaving today after two and a half months here. Later Pili and I went to get eggs from Manolo and then were joined by Dolores to buy Christmas lottery tickets at the bar. By evening we were alone in our house warmed by central heating. How different to the weather in Madrid. It was too wet for a walk so we stayed in. Eladio had Manolo's eggs for dinner of course. I had my usual: some fruit, a coconut yoghurt and a medjoul date.
We watched the news again about Ceuta mostly and went to bed early. I slept 5.5h and was up at 6,30 am on Friday morning. At 7.50 I was watching Oli's programme; all about Ceuta too. She came on later and for me gave the most important news of the day. King Harald V of Norway, aged 89, died at 6.35 am that morning, 5 minutes after I woke up. He died peacefully of a rare blood infection surrounded by his family. I will always be grateful to him for sending my father a birthday card when he turned 100. This is it.
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| The birthday card to my father from the King of Norway who died this week |
If you follow this blog or have read my
father's book, you will know that he was involved in the Liberation of Norway at the end of WW2. For this he was awarded the Freedom Medal from King Harald's grandfather, King Haakon VII for his outstanding contribution to the Liberation of Norway. King Harald was the most popular member of the current Norwegian Royal Family but I wonder how popular his heir, King Haakon VIII will be. His wife, now the Queen Consort, Mette-Marit is known for her links with Epstein and her son, Marius from her previous marriage is a convicted sex criminal. Hardly a good start. I imagine both his great grandfather and my own father would have been appalled.
It was cold and raining here and at mid morning I went to have coffee with Toño and Dolores our wonderful companions here who have now sadly left. Eladio joined us but didn't drink any coffee as he doesn't like it. He put on his wooden clogs, called "madreñas" because of the rain. They are worn in Asturias, León and Cantabria and were largely used by country folk and farmers not to get their shoes or boots dirty and to keep their feet warm and dry. You wear them over slippers and they have three "legs" so that you walk above mud, water or snow. But my they are difficult to wear if you haven't been brought up on them. Here is a photo of my husband wearing traditional "madreñas".
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| Eladio wearing his wooden clogs over his slippers so as to keep his feet warm and dry in the rain. |
I made soup for lunch thanks to Dolores who gave me some locally sourced courgettes and potatoes to which I added one of her onions and some carrots. It was delicious. The second course was chicken Waldorf Salad which we all love.
I had a bit of a siesta and then invited my brother and sister-in-law for tea and coffee (and some delicious biscuits). Later the rain stopped and we were able to go on our walk to Murias. It was glorious and I was happy to see my donkey, pony and horses but again forgot to take them apples, blast.
I came home to a task I wasn't looking forward to. I had to iron Eladio's suit and shirt for the wedding. He hadn't worn it since he left it in France about 3 years ago. That was a very difficult job I somehow managed to do.
Saturday came, the day of the wedding and Suzy, Eladio and I dressed up in our finest. We took some photos which I am happy to share here.
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| All ready for the wedding |
The wedding to be held at El Caserío in León, was starting at 12.45 so we set off well in time as it takes about an hour and a quarter to reach León. Once there we picked up Toño and Dolores from their daughter, Sara's flat and drove to the venue on the outskirts of the city. Many other members of the family were arriving too. You may know Eladio is the oldest of 6 siblings and it was his youngest brother, Isidro who is 17 years younger, whose youngest daughter, Alicia, aged 34, who was getting married that day. The sun shone for Alicia and Luisme, now her husband. She is a nurse and he is a doctor and we later heard they fell in love in the hospital theatre where they work. Oli and Miguel and the kids had driven from Madrid and got there well on time.
The first part was a ceremony of the marriage of the bride and groom, although they had been wed the day before in a Registry Office. Here we are watching the ceremony.
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| Watching the ceremony |
The kids got bored as it lasted over an hour and soon escaped to run around and get a better look. And here are the bride and groom when it was over.
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| The bride and groom |
As they walked out, they were feted by the Tuna group. That is a traditional University group of minstrels who play and sing popular music. They wear traditional clothing and are well known in Spain. Luisme is the Director of this group which featured rather heavily throughout the wedding.
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| The bride and groom being feted by the Tuna minstrel group |
From there we were all ushered through to a patio where we were to partake of the cocktail part of the wedding which went on for at least 2 hours. Here are some pics taken during that part.
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| Some of my pics taken during the cocktail party. Here with Toño and Dolores |
We were then called to have our pictures taken with the bride and groom. I have chosen the one of the older generation with the bride and groom as this week's feature photo. And here is one of the younger generation, mostly the cousins and their offspring.
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| The bride and groom with all the cousins |
The cocktail party went on for hours and we were well fed. But we still had to have a formal sit down lunch which didn't start until 4.30 pm and it went on till nearly 8 pm. By then I was not hungry.
We sat on Table 2 with all of Eladio's brothers and sisters and their spouses as well as Alicia's maternal grandparents. The cousins were all together on one big table and happily for their parents, the kids sat on a table just for them. Later they were entertained by two monitors and had a grand time. Everyone had a grand time and it was a very happy wedding. My last photos have to be of Juliet and Elliot with the big bag of sweets and sundry they were given. The size was a bit over the top but they were delighted, hahaha.
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| The kids had a grand time at the wedding |
We left before the dancing began as well as the drinking as we had a long way to go home and we were tired. It was sad to say goodbye to Oli and the kids.Juliet commented: "you always go away" with a sad look on her face. But it had been a happy wedding and a lovely celebration on a beautiful sunny day at a marvellous venue. I wish the bride and groom every happiness and thank them from these pages for a splendid wedding and for bringing all the family together.
Suzy drove us home and we were here at about 9.30. All we wanted to do was take all our finery off. I especially wanted to remove my heels, makeup and take off my jewelry. Thank God I don't have to dress up everyday. But for Alicia's wedding it was a pleasure.
I slept marvellously last night and woke up this morning at 7.45 after 7 hours of sleep. The wedding obviously did me good.
Today is Sunday and the sun is shining. Our only plans this morning are to enjoy Montrondo, go and have a coffee to Senra, make lunch, have a siesta and go on a walk. Montrondo is a very resting place and good for the soul.
Now I shall leave you to get on with the day. Cheers till next week and I hope you have a wonderful day,
Masha