Saturday, August 22, 2020

Coronavirus on the rise in Spain, Elliot turns 11 months old, grandparent duty again, a trip down memory lane to Nazaré Portugal to celebrate our 37th wedding anniversary, Batalha, Alcobaça - meet Joâo Paulo Ferreira -and Obidos, Sitio, time on the beach, Obidos revisted and other stories.

 Nazaré, Portugal, Sunday 23rd August, 2020.

Together on 21st August, our 37th anniversary, at the top of Nazaré, in Sitio.

Top of the morning to you all from Nazaré in Portugal, our last day here. It's been a great 5 days away from home and a wonderful break from domestic duties. We thought we had got away from it all but we have not got away from corona virus. This week the WHO predicted the pandemic would be with us for another 2 years. Others are more skeptical and think it will stay forever. In Spain the number of new cases - mostly young people - has risen dramatically. Worldwide there are over 23 million case and a death toll of over 800 thousand. It's not looking good. While we have been here in Nazaré and surroundings, we have not kept up much with the news and sometimes we totally forgot the virus, except of course when wearing our masks. In Portugal they are only obligatory indoors and it felt strange not to wear one in the street. Perhaps we should have as this place is much more crowded than we had expected. Today is our last day, well, rather the day we are leaving; time to go home. 

Last Sunday feels like ages ago but it has only been a week. We have done so much here I can hardly remember last Sunday, a quiet day at home. The highlight of the day was a family barbecue, just the three of us, my Father, Eladio and I. The girls didn't come until the evening. We went for a walk in the morning and then before lunch made a dash to Decathlon to buy a camping table for picnics in Portugal. When we first met and fell in love in the summer of 1980,  we went camping in Portugal and I suggested to Eladio that we take equipment for picnics for trip here. He heartily agreed. Just as we left I realised I had forgotten my face mask, obligatory everywhere in Spain. Thus I had to wait in the car while Eladio went to buy the camping table. We now had everything we needed, two beach chairs, the table, a parasol and a freezer bag. In the end we only used the table twice though and ate out a lot more than we had planned. 

We were home well on time for Eladio to prepare the barbecue. Here he is tending to the gourmet hamburgers and sausages which were delicious. 

Last Sunday's barbecue. 

By then the French family's grandmother and daughter, Eva, had arrived as well as the mother's brother who she hadn't warned us about. We were a bit put out as they have had far more guests than originally agreed. I didn't read by the pool that afternoon as it wasn't hot enough to swim - just 28ºc (hot for some, but not me) and sat on one of our green beach chairs under the trees in the garden. 

Meanwhile my latest set of guests had left the apartment in Santa Pola and had written a glowing review - I now have 4 x 5 star reviews which places my listing at the top of all listings in the area. I am still amazed that despite Covid, I got 8 reservations this summer, so far, since  I first listed our apartment on Airbnb. I am wishing I had done that 3 years ago. What a waste. 

It was under the trees in the garden that I finished Mary Trump's book about her infamous uncle. It's not all it's made out to be be, is actually very short and the only really revealing details are about his and his sibling's childhood which was governed by their cold and cruel father Fred Trump. They all yearned for his love and favour and never got it which Mary tries to explain is the reason behind her uncle's behaviour. She claims he is still the three year old who needed parental love he never got. I then started on another Kristin Harmel book, set in Nazi occupied Paris and called "The sweetness of forgetting". It tells the somewhat unknown story of how the Muslim community in the French capital tried to help the Jews. 

It was a very quiet day for Eladio and I until Oli and Elliot arrived at around 8 pm. We hadn't seen them since the Tuesday before and were delighted to be reunited with them, especially with Elliot. He was delighted to be back too and immediately rushed to his grandfather's arms, bypassing me, hahahhahahha. I had him on my lap though when we were having dinner. I offered him some of his father's home made gazpacho from my glass and he lapped it up. When I put some of it  in one of his baby bowls, he rejected it, far preferring the glass!  Like all babies, he was needing his bath by then and we took him up to our bathroom. Oli and I then went off for a nice mother and daughter tete a tete and when we returned we found Elliot sitting in my basin (with the tap off hahahhaaha) and playing with my toothbrush. Eladio was combing his hair and I suppose teaching him how to brush his teeth. 

Grandson and grandfather together in our bathroom last Sunday

Even though he only has 2 bottom teeth, Elliot is very interested in the tooth brushing ritual. He was so funny I had to capture him on camera. Here he is in double as he is facing our bathroom mirror. He nearly always poses for the camera.

Elliot in my basin last Sunday 

He was very wide awake and not at all interested in going to bed. He doesn't like sleeping. This was in sharp contrast to the two small children, Eva and David, our guests from Paris who, aged 7 and 4, go to bed at about 8 pm. Their parents had gone out that night to see friends and their grandmother was babysitting but Eva told me that sadly her "abuelita" had told her they mustn't leave their room. They were wide awake when their parents had gone and came out of their room when they heard Oli and I. We invited them to visit Oli's room and they had a grand time exploring her things. They are very strictly brought up but are charming kids in general. 

Eladio and I had just started watching a film on Netflix (The Angel) when Suzy came back from a lovely weekend with her bosom school friend, Copi. She was rather put out the grandmother had come back - she hadn't planned to - which meant Suzy didn't have a room of her own and would have to sleep on the inflatable mattress in the annex to our room. I was sorry for her.

I was awake at 6.15 on Monday morning, ready to start a new week. We were on grandparent duty for Elliot that day as we would be too on Tuesday. On Monday he turned 11 months old and seems so so big. He had slept badly that night - he is a dreadful sleeper - and was not his usual cheerful self that day so being on hand most of the time with him was a big challenge. I kept thinking, roll on Wednesday. Eladio is his key person and the one who fed him and took him to the swings. Here they are together at lunch on Monday.

Eladio and Elliot at lunchtime on Monday

If it was uphill day for me, it was a difficult day for my father or at least the morning. Lucy couldn't lift him out of bed onto his wheel chair and asked for my help. I was useless as I have no strength. Eladio came to the rescue of course but we were worried about this as we were going away and wondered how Lucy would cope. The nurse came to change his dressing as she does almost daily. He keeps taking his bandage off for some reason so she had to change the type of dressing so that he cannot remove it. He worried me and I wondered if he was feeling weak after his fall.

We only left the house to take Elliot and the dogs for their walk. Since the heatwave has gone we have resumed our walks. Otherwise we did not leave the house and in a way I was beginning to feel trapped. I commented on this to my dear friend Amanda when we skyped that afternoon. She commiserated with me but she has had it worse as she has hardly left the house since lockdown. Oh, lockdown and corona virus, what a bane in our life. Suzy was feeling miserable that day when she heard that she may not be able to return to Bali until December. She would like to go somewhere like our apartment in Santa Pola but of course it is being rented. As if the day hadn't brought enough problems, my new guest - my hairdresser Elena - who was delighted with the apartment told me the fridge was not working properly. Lucy, my neighbour would have to deal with it and I was worried how the guests would cope until it was fixed or until, somehow, I got a new fridge. Thankfully in the end I didn't need to.

Much more worrying are the number of cases in Spain of corona virus - more than 9000 in the last week. My father's nurse, María, told me that at the local medical centre where they are doing massive testing, that were so many young people and children infected, nearly all of them without symptoms. I really think that if all countries were doing the same amount of tests their numbers would be on the up too. 

In Spain that day, the main news apart from the virus, was about the shamed former King of Spain whose whereabouts were a mystery since he announced he was leaving the country on 3rd August. A short note from the palace that day informed he is in the United Arab Emirates. That's all we know about our disgraced ex King. 

We couldn't wait for Oli to be on TV, not just to watch her but for her to come home. If she is on at about 8 pm, that means she is home by 8.30 and by 8.30 we needed her to take over responsibility for little Elliot who played up a lot that day. I dread to think what will happen if the creche at TVE doesn't open or if it closes because of cases of virus. As I told Amanda, I just don't think we are cut out for long term grandparent duty. I also think Elliot desperately needs the company of other children. 

The day ended with diner together, just the 4 of us and Elliot. I got Lucy to make us some tortillas to which I added a salad. Later I helped Oli bathe him and then I spent some time with Suzy listening to her playing her ukelele and singing. It had been a long day.

Tuesday came, our second day of grandparent duty which would start when Oli left for work. That gave us some time to go and do food shopping to take provisions with us to Portugal and to leave enough food in the pantry and fridge for the family. I was bushed that day. I was up at 5.30 and my continual lack of sleep was taking its toll on me. Plus I had to deal with the fridge issue at our apartment in Santa Pola at a distance. Then things multiplied and there was a blockage in the kitchen sink and the washing was not working because water wasn't getting through. Of course our guests were not happy and it had to be sorted. Thankfully Lucy was on hand to do everything she should. I spent the whole day groveling to my guest and in touch with Lucy about the repairs. She got some handymen to come who didn't arrive until 4 pm. Thankfully they fixed the blockage which was also affecting the washing machine. As to the fridge, they said it was working fine, the problem being it had only been switched on the morning before and the guests had stuffed so much in that it was taking ages to refrigerate. I had to deal with this which made me anxious and unable to sleep a siesta. Then I had to deal with Elliot who didn't want to sleep his siesta and Suzy was getting desperate. So I sent her upstairs and spent time playing with my grandson. He hadn't eaten well, so I made him a smoothie from a yoghurt and fresh pineapple. I had to make the smoothie with the baby in my arms who refused to let me put him down which made my task difficult.  I was later told I shouldn't have given him a yoghurt that comes from cow's milk. He seems only to be fed on breast milk, fruit and veg and very little protein so I wasn't surprised he devoured the smoothie. It was obvious he wanted to sleep but kept refusing. It was Eladio who managed to get him to fall asleep later and we got a 20 minute respite. Here we are with him, on grandparent duty. A friend commented, "how lovely" and yes it is lovely to be with our grandson but it's tiring. I feel sorry for all those grandparents out there who look after their grandchildren full time. I couldn't do that.

Eladio with  Elliot on Tuesday

Me with Elliot on Tuesday

I kept thinking roll on Wednesday for our trip to Portugal. When Elliot was asleep I went to find the album with photos of our trip to Portugal in 1983. We had taken my parents that spring before our wedding in the summer, 37 years ago. I remember we took them to meet Eladio's parents in León and from there drove via Salamanca to Portugal for a road trip. The road trip included Braga, Coimbra (that beautiful University town where I spent a summer learning Portuguese in 1979), Nazaré with a visit to Obidos and then Lisbon. From Lisbon we drove to Seville where my parents were robbed and then back to Madrid. It was a trip I shall always remember and I was sad that when I showed my father some of the pictures that he didn't remember. How could he not? The answer is his age (101). We especially remember the picturesque fishing town of Nazaré now a hot tourist destination for the surfers where the biggest wave was recorded once, or so I read; not that I am interested in surfing or any other water sports. I found the photos I was looking for and although a little unfocused, there I was aged just 26, wearing clothes of the time - flared skirt, red tights (!) and court shoes and a red jumper my mother in law had made for me. One of them is of me on the beach by a typical Nazarene fishing boat. I look so sultry and carefree and of course so young. Someone said age has been kind to us. I'm not so sure.

Me in Nazaré in 1983, 37 years ago. 

We stayed there for a night and then on our drive to Lisbon stopped for a picnic. It was during the picnic we realised we had left our passports at the hotel in Nazaré, so my Father and Eladio drove back for them while my Mother and I waited. 

Picnic with my parents outside Obidos

It was there too that we discovered we had stopped unknowingly outside the prettiest village in Portugal - Obidos, a medieval walled village. When Eladio and my father were back we visited it walking all the way around the wall and visiting the castle which is a "pousada", like the Paradors in Spain. We toyed with staying the night there and I have always regretted that we didn't. Here is a photo of Eladio who has aged well, in Obidos that day so long ago. 

Eladio in Obidos 37 years ago, just before we got married. 

Eladio and I have always remembered that trip and especially wanted to go back to Nazaré and Obidos. I don't know why we have waited so long. On Tuesday, I couldn't wait for it to be Wednesday when we set off on our trip down memory lane to celebrate our 37th wedding anniversary in beautiful Portugal. 

The whole afternoon was spent with Elliot. Eladio gave me nearly an hour's respite from Elliot as he had had his during the siesta so I had some quiet time under the trees in the garden until it was time to watch Oli on the TV. She was home by 8.30 and we had another family dinner. 

Wednesday finally came. I was awake early as usual and had plenty of time to pack and get ready for our journey. At around 10 am we said goodbye to everyone and set off for 4 days away, just the two of us. We hesitated about taking Pippa knowing she would be locked in an apartment while we would be on the beach so decided she was much better off at home. I also had to say goodbye to little Eva and David as I wouldn't see them again. I asked Eva to look after the dogs and she said we must Skype when she gets back to France. 4 year old David, repeated her words which had us laughing.

We had a 575km journey which we would break for a picnic on the way. We took the N5, the road to Portugal and of course used Google Maps. I was looking forward to crossing the border to say, "here we are in Portugal" but it was actually my mobile phone provider, Yoigo, that let me know we were in Portugal after they sent a roaming message. Google maps took us a very strange way through tiny country lanes and we were sure there was a better way but just had to carry on driving and following the instructions. Once in Portugal and on a very warm, dusty eucalyptus tree lined country road we found a place to stop for lunch. Everywhere we signs of litter louts. I hate it when people strew litter everywhere. We found a spot in the shade under a tree and set up our picnic. We had brought along the  new camping table and our two beach chairs. I got out our lunch; tortilla, salmon pies, gazpacho followed by melon and raspberries. It was delicious. Here is Eladio sitting at our new 15 euro Decathlon table which I thought was a great investment.

Our picnic on the way to Portugal

The drive seemed endless and it was ages until we hit a motorway. We had been told that on some motorways in Portugal payment is automatic but you have to have a toll card of some type associated to your registration plate. If you don't the fine can be 10 times more than the price of the toll. I looked up what to do and read we could buy a card at a petrol station. So we stopped at one and using my hesitant Portuguese tried to buy one. The chap turned out to be half Spanish which put an end to my endeavour. He was very honest and told us we could buy a cheaper one at the next petrol station 30 km away. We took his advice. At the next petrol station I did have to use my Portuguese and bought a card for 5 days. I couldn't read the instructions on the back which were in such small print I couldn't see a word even with my reading glasses on. The young chap (rapaz in Portuguese) was  a great help and set it up for me and we were on our way again.

It was a very warm day and we went past signs for interesting places such as Fatima, Alcobaça, Coimbra, Batallha and Caldas de Rainha. Finally at around 4 pm we arrived in Nazaré. It took a while to find our Airbnb house. 

The house we are staying at

Outside and everywhere in Nazaré, we saw women, some in local dress, sitting on plastic chairs with signs offering rooms or apartments. It's very typical in Portugal to hire a room in someone's house. We had our Airbnb which we found quickly. It turned out to be a big old house - lovely on the outside - turned into two flats. The owners, Bela and Antonio live on the ground flat and rent out the upper flat. Soon Antonio was showing us around. The listing had great reviews and the host was a superhost. I did not fall in love with it because of its awful cheesy decor with fake flowers and plastic tablecloths but had to admit it was clean and spacious and near the beach. We soon settled in. Eladio tried to sleep a siesta on the very hard bed while I unpacked. I then went to sit on the terrace which was two floors down. In the listing it looked like it was on the same floor as the apartment but it wasn't. In any case I enjoyed quiet time there even if I was completely shrouded by Bela's washing. I decided to venture out and walk down to Nazaré beach which I hardly remembered. I couldn't believe how crowded it was but also very beautiful.

The beach on Wednesday

I also couldn't believe just how hot it was. The forecast was for about 24ºc but it was much warmer. Eladio soon joined me and we strolled up and down the promenade passing ladies selling dried fish. Some were dressed in typical Nazarene clothing which we remembered well.

Local ladies selling sun dried salty fish

Eladio asked them how the fish was eaten and they said; "just like it is". We could see where the fish had been dried in the sun and baked in salt. Not our cup of tea but interesting to see.

We walked to the end of the town beach, Praia de Nazaré and were happy to see just how well organised the Covid rules were for using it. 

Happy to be back in Nazaré even though it has changed a lot. 

Many people used or hired colourful little tents which I thought was quite novel. 

Colourful beach tents in Nazaré

Once back at our starting point, we walked the other way, towards the famous funicular which takes you up a steep hill to a neighbourhood called "Sitio" and towards the famous North Beach. This is where the highest waves in the world have been surfed on by surf mad tourists. In fact Nazaré is the world's centre for surfing big waves. It's not my thing - I am not into water sports- but it has put this old fishing village on the world map and it has thrived ever since and all year round. We could see the village was now big business but I was happy to see it has retained some of its charm. 

I was also happy to see that there were some of the old fishing boats on the beach, similar to those we saw back in 1983 although they are now musuem pieces. We did not see any fishermen though and I wondered where they were; perhaps out fishing for our dinner.

I remembered the old fishing boats very well. 

From the end of the beach where the funicular is we walked back, this time, masks on and looking at the enticing little shops. I spied some pretty dresses going for a song and there and then bought 3 for the girls and me. Here is the greenish dress I bought and which I would wear for dinner that night.

Buying dresses on the sea front in Nazaré

We came home to freshen up, me to change, wash my hands and feet and soon we were out again, ins search of a restaurant for dinner. Our host, Antonio, had recommended "O Veleiro" as the best restaurant in Nazaré and I had my doubts. I had rung to book but they don't take bookings. They don't need to as the place seemed very popular. We were lucky to get a table for two without having to wait and there began a wonderful meal. I had been looking forward to the Portuguese bread and the sparkling "vinho verde" wine and they didn't disappoint. Eladio went for sardines - he loves them and they are very typical in this country. I went for the clams, not expecting anything special. They turned out to be the best I have ever tasted. 

The best clams I have ever eaten were here in Nazaré at O Veleiro restaurant.

The bill came to a paltry 37 euros, probably half of what we would have paid in Spain. Before heading home we took a stroll by the beach again enjoying the atmosphere. Portugal, like the UK, is one hour behind Spain so we were home by 9.30 which seemed very early. I was worried the bed would be too hard for me but I actually slept quite well. In fact I slept until 7 in the morning which was a little miracle. I woke up to rain believe it or not.

We were in for a very wet day and at times it poured it down and I got drenched. But there was a little respite in the morning before breakfast which I went out to the local indoor market. I was told by our host, Antonio, I could get fresh bread there so off I went before Eladio was up. 

The local market

I brought back some lovely local bread, a chocolate croissant (naughty) and a rye bread roll for Eladio. As we are on holiday we are changing our breakfast habits. I have to say I am a bit fed up of oat bran porridge.  The rain continued and we had to decide what to do or where to go. The beach was out of the question so we chose to visit places of interest in the area; Batalha, Alcobaça and of course Obidos, one of the prettiest villages in Portugal. I remembered the enormous Gothic monastery in Batalha which means battle and refers  to the battle in the war of succession here in Portugal; the battle of Aljubarrota in 1385. The gigantic monastery was built in commemoration. I well remember visiting it in 1978 when I was doing a 3 week course in Portuguese at the University of Coimbra when the course directors arranged weekend trips to local parts. I took Eladio there too when we first me as well as my parents. It was a pity it was raining as there is so much to see in Batalha. 

The 14th century Gothic monastery in Batalha

We were wearing raincoats and donned umbrellas but I had flip flops on as I had forgotten to bring walking shoes or trainers. Thus I had to buy a pair and found some grey Nikes which are comfortable but I don't really like. I am not into sports' brands I'm afraid. 

We visited the monastery inside which is so gigantic I can't imagine how it was built. From Batalha we drove to another monastery town, Alcobaça. I am not sure I had been there before but certainly knew the name. The church and monastery there were the first Gothic buildings in Portugal. It was built by King Alfonso I  as a gift to Bernard Clairvaus after the conquest of Santarem from the Moors  in 1147. But I think it is more famous in Portugal from the nations' love story, that of Don Pedro, King Alfonso's son, and Doña Ines (de Castro a Galician nobelwoman - 13.20 - 1355)  Don Pedro as heir to the throne was to be married in an arranged marriage to Constança of Castela (Spain) but he fell in love with one of her maids, Inés. He had to marry Constança who later died in childbirth. Don Pedro thought he could then marry Doña Inés but his father the King wasn't having any of it and forbade the marriage. So they lived together and had children and supposedly later married in secret. But the marriage wasn't to last as the furious  King ordered her death and she was killed by his knights at Paços de Santa Clara near Coimbra. Pedro was desperate and wanted to start a war with his father which his mother stopped. He also wanted to kill the men who killed his love which he did once his father died and he became King Pedro of Portugal. Pedro and Ines were reunited in love as both their tombs are at the church and monastery in Alcobaça. Amazingly, King Pedro, crowned his love, Inés, Queen posthumously. I would love to have seen their ornate tombs full of symbols of their love and death but that was not to be as the church was closed that day. Isn't that a beautiful story? 

Alcobaça monastery and church

Something very beautiful happened in Alcobaça that day. As we walked around the pretty town we heard singing and always attracted to classical music I made my way to where it was coming from. Under a large old doorway there was a young man singing with a beautiful countertenor voice. He had chosen a place with perfect acoustics. There he was busking it when he was obviously a professional singer. His name is Joâo Paulo Ferreira and he is well known. I was mesmerised. He is such a young man  - just 30 years old and very handsome too.

Meet Joâo Paulo Ferreira

We hadn't yet seen the monastery but for me the main attraction of the day was to meet and listen to this amazing young Portuguese singer. I took many videos too, including this one of him singing Ave María which you can listen to and see on my You tube channel. Of course I bought his CD too and we had a little chat in between songs. He told me is from Alcobaça and that because of the pandemic cannot sing publicly so he sings in the streets of his home town. I was bowled over. 

By then it was nearly 1 pm and we decided to drive straight to Obidos and skip seeing the spa town of Caldas da Rainha. We arrived to torrential rain, not a good day to see beautiful medieval Obidos which we were visiting for the first time in 37 years. We decided to have lunch and possibly visit it again on our way home today.

In Obidos on Thursday

We had lunch at Restaurante Comendador Silva which was recommended on various sites such as The Fork. It was quite a good lunch but more expensive than in Nazaré and with full stomachs and torrential rain we left for our apartment to go home for a rest, a change of clothes and also a siesta. I slept for an hour and later we strolled outside to walk along the beach. It was no longer raining hard but as it was not cold we didn't really mind the drizzle, plus we needed some exercise to work off lunch. The beach was so empty, very different to the day before. I was wearing flip flops on purpose so as to go down to the water and enjoy wetting my feet in the sea. Oh but it was too rough for that. The waves were high - nothing like the surfing waves on the North beach of course - but the sea was far too rough even to approach with just my feet. So I contented myself with the view and the sound of the roaring waves. 

On the beach in Nazaré in the drizzle

Eladio joined me and later we walked to the end of the beach but on the seafront as the sand was difficult to walk on. We got to the end near the lighthouse and contemplated the wonderful views, so different from the day before.

Eladio on Thusday by the Nazaré beach

We ambled home feeling refreshed from our walk and the sea breeze. I got caught having to chat on Airbnb for more than an hour with a woman from Mexico whose daughter is coming to study at the University near us and she would like to rent a room from me. There is no rest for the devil I thought, even when I am on holiday. Eventually we had a makeshift dinner and then both quite tired went to bed to read. I spoke to both girls. Suzy was on her way to Santa Pola for 3 nights - nights I had blocked on my Airbnb calendar - and Oli was at her flat in Mirasierra trying to make Elliot fall asleep. We eventually fell asleep while reading.  Later we heard from Suzy that their car had broken down on their way and that they got to the apartment really late. The car belonged to one of her friends and the next day it was towed to her home far away. Thus the girls were "carless" during their stay. I suggested they hire one but Suzy didn't seem bothered. Later she sent me a photo of the 3 of them which I think was taken on the cliffs overlooking the island of Tabarca, my favourite spot in the area.

Suzy with her friends in Santa Pola

Friday came, Friday 21st August, not just any date, but the date of our 37th anniversary. Of course that was the reason we were here in Portugal; to celebrate so many years together, and where better than Nazaré where he had a romantic holiday with my parents the year of our wedding. What can I say? As I wrote on social media; ours has been and is a marriage, as good as they get. It's amazing how after so many years with my life partner our love is still going strong, stronger than ever. I am a lucky woman to have such a person by my side. I love Eladio to the moon and back as the saying goes and in our twilight years all I can hope for is that we may be able to celebrate our anniversary for many years to come. 

That morning we decided to take the famous funicular up to the top of a cliff to a place called "Sitio" (meaning place) which is really a neighbourhood of Nazaré. It commands amazing views of the beach here but also of the much more famous Praia Norte (North beach), a surfers' paradise. Here at the viewing point we had our photo taken which I have chosen as this week's feature photo. If the views of Nazaré are wonderful, equally wonderful are those of the North Beach. 

It's the biggest waves there, the highest recorded was 30 metres - the highest in the world -  that have transformed Nazaré into what it is today. The high waves only come out of season so the ones we saw that day, although impressive, are nothing like the ones in the winter. When the surfers discovered the North Beach, they came in their droves and are all over town now, many living here. The locals know and knew just how treacherous the sea is here and that's why you still see many wives of fishermen dressed in black. 

One of the many black widows to be seen in Nazaré, women who lost their fishermen husbands to the sea. 

They were worried the surfers would die, as so many fishermen have over the years. The locals could never have predicted just how their waves would put the town on the map and transform it so much. 

The entrance to view the giant waves

Eladio on the cliff overlooking the North Beach

It was fascinating to watch the waves and we were lucky enough too to see surfers, launched off jet skis to ride the giant waves. We watched and watched and couldn't keep our eyes off the scene unfolding before our eyes.

The waves on the North Beach
By the North Beach

We got even better views when we went into the Sao Miguel Arcanjo fortress where the lighthouse is.

By the lighthouse at the fortress in Sitio

We spent hours up by the fortress and on the cliffs overlooking the North Beach and watching the waves. Eventually, we walked back to the small village of Sitio, pleased with the lovely morning we were enjoying. In the main square we had a cup of coffee and feeling hot I went in search of a hair band and some hair pins. I had to look up the words for both as I didn't remember the word for band and never knew the word for hair pins. Hair band is "laço de cabelo" and hair pins"grampos de cabelo". I eventually found both so could put my hair into a pony tail. I am loving practicing my Portuguese here and am always annoyed at Eladio speaking to everyone in Spanish and interrupting me. Things in that respect have changed too. When I used to come to Portugal in the 70's and 80's, very few spoke Spanish and didn't like to do so - neighbours never like neighbours. But Portugal and England, being the oldest allies in the world or so they way, have always had good relations and everyone speaks good English here. Now, though they also speak Spanish. French used to be strong here but I think it is dying out. I, however, kept insisting on speaking Portuguese, even if I was often spoken to in Spanish. 

With my hair up in a pony tail,  we went to take the funicular down to Nazaré and had to join a big queue. While waiting I read the notices around me and found out that the funicular was built 131 years ago. I think it must be as old as the one in Hong Kong which takes you to The Peak. 

The 131 year old funicular in Nazaré

Once back down in Nazaré and on the beach front we looked for somewhere to have lunch and spied a lovely hotel I had had my eye on for a while. In fact I had booked rooms at the Ribamar which I later cancelled preferring an Airbnb apartment. I suspected it was the hotel we stayed at with my parents and now I am pretty sure it was. 

The Ribamar hotel

We decided to have lunch there. I loved its oldie worldie look as I did back in the 80s and still do today. We had a magnificent lunch, both of us going for the cod fish (bacalhau) which Portugal is so famous for. 

Cod fish for lunch on Friday (bacalhau) at the Ribamar hotel

Being an ice cream fan all my life, something I have inherited from my father, we had one at bar next door after our lunch. We then ambled back to our apartment for our siesta. Later in the afternoon, we took all our beach stuff and headed down to the sun on Praia de Nazaré. Here we set our chairs down to enjoy the late afternoon sun. 

Eladio on the beach on Friday afternoon

However, no way could be bathe as the waves were really really strong. It was a red flag day and the life guards were out in force to make sure no one went anywhere near. They were a sight to see and we watched them together with other people, quite fascinated. I have never seen anything like it and I have been to beaches in other towns famous for waves such as Biarritz or San Sebastian, but this is on another scale. 

The waves on the beach on Friday

Even though we couldn't bathe we enjoyed the show and the sun. We even watched Oli on TV, her last appearance as a presenter on España Directo. She will now be on holiday for a week. My youngest daughter sent us a photo of her and the main presenter in the studio together as a keepsake.

Oli's last appearance as a presenter on her programme España Directo.

It was past 8 pm by then and we picked up our things to head back to the apartment. I have to show you though just how organised they are here vs a vs Covid. To enter and leave the beach you have to go a different route. Flip flops are obligatory or similar, there is hand sanitiser everywhere and of course people have to keep their distance.

Covid precautions on the beach at Nazaré

On our walk home, we saw many of the local ladies offering private rooms in their houses, something so very typical here as I mentioned above.  I had to have some photos of a tradition which is rooted in Portuguese culture. It's a sort of sui generis Airbnb.

A black widow offering rooms to rent

You see women everywhere in Nazaré offering rooms for rent. 

I came home to have a shower, wash my hair and get dressed up to go for anniversary dinner. I wanted to go to Taberna D'adelia  which I found in the Michelin guide but it was fully booked. I thought a reservation wasn't necessary but it was. In any case I booked a table for last night. Instead we went to an Indian restaurant which had fab reviews and as both of us love Indian food and couldn't stomach more "bacalhau", Maharaja was our choice. It didn't disappoint.

We chose to have an Indian meal for our wedding anniversary dinner

We then walked along the sea front until it was time to head home.

Saturday came, our last day here. We decided to go back to Obidos to visit it properly after our short and rainy visit on Thursday. I expected it to be very crowded but thankfully it wasn't. After parking our car we had a photo taken at a sort of photo call at the entrance to the walled village. Here we are like a King and Queen hahahaa. Actually Obidos is the town or village of Queens as before Portugal became a republic, the town was offered to the Queen of Portugal. 

Eladio and I at the entrance to inside the walls of Obidos

Everywhere you look in Obidos you see beauty. It's beauty in overload but I love and loved every corner. As soon as you enter the village inside the walls there are 3 streets to choose from. Eventually we walked all three. Here is Eladio at the entrance.

Elado in Obidos

There are shops everywhere but mostly in very good taste and the village is spotless. There are flowers in every corner too, especially bougainvillea which we love. Eladio took one of the best photos of me during our trip,  next to this plant  in a pretty street in Obidos that day. It's such a colourful photo.

Me in Obidos yesterday next to a spectacular bougainvillea plant. 

We explored the shops and even tried the local cherry liqueur, Ginja, and then got to the end of the village from where you can climb the steps to walk around the village on the path of the walls. That is not as easy as it seems as the path is not railed. I only managed a bit as I am not good with heights. I was relieved when we came down.

Obidos yesterday

We walked and walked and walked but did stop for a break and a cup of coffee in the main square. Both of us were feeling relaxed and happy with life. We continued our walk and also bought some beautiful local ceramics and then we went in search of lunch. We found it at a place called The Lounge which I chose as it offered one of my favourite Portuguese dishes; "bacalhau à brás". It's basically cod fried with egg and potatoes. This was my meal which I couldn't finish as the portion was far too big. We got a doggy bag and plan on eating the rest today as part of our picnic lunch on our journey home.

Bacalhau à brás yesterday in Obidos

We then made it a day and drove home for a short siesta. Later we  ambled out again and headed to the beach for the last time.

Eladio on the beach yesterday

Again the sea was too rough to swim which disappointed me as we will leave Nazaré without having being able to swim in the sea. It was another red flag day. Instead of swimming we walked to the end of the beach, towards the cliffs where we thought we might be able to see surfers but we didn't. Then suddenly in the area we found ourselves in, the life guards changed the flag from yellow to red, but just in that area. Suddenly there were lots of children in the water and I decided to join them. In the end I didn't dare go in the water because of the strong currents.

The sea was rough again yesterday

We left the beach at around 8 pm as we had a table booked for dinner at Taberna d'Adelia at 9 pm. I found the restaurant in the Michelin Guide, the only Nazaré restaurant included. It was very full and seems popular. The waiters, strangely for Portugal, were a bit surly and we did not get good waiter service. Neither of us was hungry so both of just had a starter - sea food soup for Eladio and prawns for me. The service was too slow to bother to wait for a dessert so we had some fruit at home before hitting the sack. It was not the best meal we have had here but I'm not complaining as our trip to Portugal has been fanstastic.

It is now Sunday morning and soon I will be packing to leave. As usual, all good things come to an end. 

I hope you have enjoyed reading the tales of this week. Cheers till next time or as they say in Portuguese "até logo". 

Masha


Saturday, August 15, 2020

The rain came, family dinner at Elliot's, picking blackberries from the garden, my father fell and went to hospital, home again, Friday night out, the girls reunited with Copito, Corona virus spikes and other stories.

 Sunday, 16th August, 2020

Picking blackberries from our garden. 

Dear all.

Another week has gone by in August and I can't wait for next Wednesday when we are off to Portugal for 4 nights to celebrate our 37th wedding anniversary and I'm also wishing 15th September would hurry up too as I am impatient to take possession of our new house in Asturias. The week would have been a very normal one if it hadn't been for my father's fall. Read on to hear all about it. 

Meanwhile, we are here at home and slightly invaded by our guests from Paris. But of course if we have made our bed we have to lie on it. The income was worth it and that's why we do Airbnb at home but this family, unlike nearly all of our past guests, just don't leave the house. We try to keep our space and I think they do too. I also thought we would make the perfect match but living together can be a strain. If I think back to other families we have had who have been a delight to host, this is not the same and I believe it's because our values are different. 

The pool was where we spent most of the time last Sunday as it was so so hot. It was Oli and Elliot's last day with us and we wanted to make the most of it. I think we managed. Our guests had brought another guest - thankfully only one but they hadn't told us which was not in the agreement. It turned out the man who came was the mother's brother who she told me had come to pick her mother up to take her home. He may have come to pick his mother up but while here, he had  a bathe and also lunch. The girls and I decided we would grab our spot by the pool and the four of us went and sat there before lunch and decided to bathe despite our guests and their guest being in the pool. 

The pool was full last Sunday

We grabbed the sun loungers too and here are the girls and Elliot together on our spot - the grass in the shady area where we also spent a lot of the afternoon.

Our spot by the pool

I left them every now and again to check on the chicken in the oven. At around midday our guests at the apartment in Santa Pola were leaving. I was relieved to see they had left me another 5 star review. The next set would come on Monday. It was such a good idea to list the apartment on Airbnb and I only wish I had thought about it before. 

Oh, yes, back to the chicken - That day I made a new dish that I had invented recently; roast chicken with pumpkin and red peppers. It was delicious. For dinner I asked Lucy to make us 4 small Spanish (potato and onion) tortillas. They were delicious too and the best thing was that I didn't have to cook again. 

By and large it was a lazy and hot day. Eladio decided it was too hot to leave our air conditioned room and watched a nature documentary while we spent time with Elliot in and out of the pool. Dinner was again the highlight of the day and our last dinner as a family together at home until tonight. Miguel was back from Valencia that night and the family went to their flat in Mirasierra until Oli comes back with Elliot today. 

I went to bed early and soon fell asleep watching some silly Cuban soap opera. I then woke up again feeling hot, despite the air con, so decided to go down to skinny dip only to find the French couple there. I went to join Suzy who was still awake and later I managed to get my dip just after midnight when the guests left the pool area. It was glorious skinny dipping at midnight with the sheen of the moon on the pool. It took me ages to get to sleep later and I was awake at around 6.30 am on Monday.

I had just laid my breakfast on the table of the kitchen terrace when the skies suddenly opened and rain poured down. I had to remove my breakfast and get the table and chairs to a dry spot so as not to spoil the wood. I have to say the rain was rather welcome. Of course the rain brought a much welcome cooler temperature that day which was a huge relief. I think, for the moment, the heat wave has gone. For the rest of the week it was in the high 20ºs. 

I had a very busy morning on Monday. First I did some quick extra shopping at Mercadona, then at 10.20 I had an appointment with my GP to get a prescription for my sleeping tablets. I had an interesting conversation with him about corona virus. I was happy to hear that there were very few cases in our area - he had only come across one in the whole of July. His opinion of the pandemic was rather different to what we have learned from the media. He told me that far more people died from normal flu which in his opinion was the mutation of the terrible Spanish flu a hundred years ago. He also told me we shouldn't fear Covid as much as we are being told as the mortality rate is very very low. When I questioned this pointing out the awful stories of people dying during the worst part of the pandemic, he said that was because we were not prepared then and hospital staff had to perform triage and that since then the medical world had learned  a lot more and that as people are being much more careful, the numbers of those badly infected or dying were also very very low. His overall opinion is that this virus will not mutate and that it is most probably fabricated by mankind although he has no proof. The worst thing I heard from him is that because of the fear, our lives will never be the same again. His story came when that day we heard Spain has the highest number of cases per 100 people. I am worried about another national lockdown but it seems the government prefers to confine the most affected areas and not the whole country. I am still wondering whether we will be able to go to Portugal this week. I sincerely hope so. 

After the visit to the clinic, I went to get the pills from the chemist and then was on my way again, this time to meet my friend and neighbour Elena. M. for a coffee. I hadn't seen her since before lockdown and we had a lot to catch up on. I had to leave at 12.15 as I had another hairdresser appointment at 12.30. It was to trim my hair as it hadn't been cut very well when I went last week. Thankfully my favourite hairdresser, Elena, was there and she soon had my hair looking perfect. It was chance that brought me another reservation for our apartment by the sea and near Santa Pola while at the hairdresser.  Out of politeness I asked Elena where she was going on holiday and she told me she wanted to go to Santa Pola but hadn't found accommodation yet. I immediately offered her our apartment which still had a few empty slots towards the end of August. After I sent her the information, she discussed it with her husband and both of them thought the apartment was perfect and there and then booked and paid upfront. How great to get a direct booking. Reservations via word of mouth are the best and hopefully there will be more of them.

I was very pleased to see this week that the listing for our apartment in Santa Pola is now a 5 star listing after some great reviews from our first guests there. I still have some free days after 27th  August if any of you are interested. Here is the listing

I was home from the hairdresser on time to help with the final touches for lunch which we had with my father as usual. Suzy joined us at the end as her lessons finish a bit late. It was funny not to have Elliot with us or Oli. So we were very appreciative of the photos our daughter sent of him. Here he is crawling in their communal garden. Soon he will be walking and then the fun will begin (hahahahaa)

Elliot crawling on grass - Monday

And here he is playing with some toys. His choice here last week was very limited but he has loads at their flat. 

Elliot playing with his toys on Monday

We also missed Oli. I asked for a photo of the look of the day for her appearance on TV that evening and got this one. She is wearing a green top and jeans. The top was very flattering.

Oli ready to go live on TV on Monday evening

While she was working, rehearsing, getting prepared, etec, we spent time in the garden by the pool but we didn't go in. When I say "we", I mean Suzy and I. Eladio was in our study pouring over the internet looking up how to convert an attic into a studio room of some sort. I refer to the attic in our new house in Asturias. I am more interested in breaking the wall in the pantry next to the kitchen and adding a door to lead to a small terrace which right now can only be reached when going outside the front door. We are both keen to do the same in the lounge to reach the garage and make one big lounge, far preferring that space for living than for parking. These are all dreams I hope one day we will be able to fulfill. We are both so excited about our new house and the plans we have for it.

We then joined Suzy again in the garden and read our kindles while she played her ukelele and sang which was nice background music. For the record I was reading a wonderful book called "The winemaker's wife" by Kristin Harmel, set in France in the Champagne area in WW2. 

Soon it was time to watch Oli live on TV. We now mostly watch her on the RTVE app. This is the link to her  appearance that day. She was reporting on a new Covid app that will be available soon. 

After watching Oli it is usually time to start making dinner. It was just the the three of us on Monday but we had a very pleasant meal after which Suzy gave us our own private concert. Sitting with us always are the dogs and I had to get little Pippa on camera as she looked so sweet. Here she is.

Pippa - simply Pippa - always with us. 

We made the wrong choice on Netflix once again that night. We started watching an Italian series called Baby but soon realised it wasn't our sort of thing.

I was up again to more rain on Tuesday morning. It rained nearly all day and the temperatures plummeted. 

It poured it down on Tuesday

There was a thunderstorm in the morning and I recorded it in this video as the weather was such an unusual occurrence at this time of year. 

Of course the rain changed our day and we had to spend it inside the house or in the sheltered parts of our terraces. That morning we did a much needed task in washing the dogs, or rather I persuaded Eladio to bathe Elsa and Norah - his job as mine is to bathe Pippa hahaha. Here is a photo to remember the moment. 

Eladio bathing Elsa on Tuesday

We were joined by my little shadow, Eva, our 7 year old guest from Paris who adores our dogs; especially Pippa. She was with me all morning like most mornings and helped me make more pies together with Lucy. This time we made my Mother's Russian version of "perushki" filled with minced meat, onion and rice to which I added sultanas and pine nuts. 

Making pies on Tuesday

Eva had picked some blackberries from our garden and made a couple of pies with them for herself and her brother. I heard later her 4 year old brother had misbehaved and wasn't given his:-(

I found an old Russian doll for her which must have belonged to the girls and she played with it while I tried to read my book - The Winemaker's Daughter.

It continued raining all day even when we left the house to go to Oli's for dinner that night. We were to be reunited with little Elliot who was delighted to see us. The poor chap never knows when we are going to appear or when he is going to come here but he is always pleased to see us. We had another great family dinner. Miguel cooked this time and made a great rice dish. Later we spent time with Elliot on his play mat where he has some lovely hand-me-down toys which seem very sophisticated to me. He loves being the centre of attention and was soon clapping his hands with glee. He makes us laugh so much.

Elliot clapping hands on his play mat surrounded by us all at Oli's on Tuesday evening

All good things come to an end and at around 10.30 we set about leaving. But Elliot wasn't having it and clung on to his grandfather. It was obvious he didn't want us to go as, of course, he wouldn't know when he would next see us. Poor little lamb, he is so innocent. Later Oli told us he cried after he left wanting his grandfather and that he didn't want his shower. I only wish he could have understood that we would see him again today. 

But we had to leave and say goodbye. It was a dark and wet journey home and we arrived to darkness in the house too. We were in bed late but I was wide awake and started watching Vanity Fair on Netflix. It had been a set book at school but I only really remembered the name of the heroine, Becky Sharp. I enjoyed what I saw that night.

Wednesday dawned and the rain had gone for the moment although it was very cloudy. The temperature at 6.30 in the morning was 15ºc and I found it rather refreshing.

The day started off quietly and had me picking blackberries with the help of Eva. There were more than last week and although there will be more to come I was eager to get a first batch and Eva wanted to make another pie. 

Blackberries from our garden

I have chosen the photo of me picking the blackberries, which is one of the most positive stories of the week and I like positive stories.

All was going well that morning or so I thought. Oli sent us a lovely photo of Elliot and his father who was teaching him how to brush his teeth. He only has two so far, but you have to start early (hahaha).

Miguel teaching Elliot to brush his teeth

Just before lunch I was finishing laying the table and called Lucy and Eladio who didn't appear. So I went downstairs and I found disaster. They were tending to my father who had just had a very nasty fall and there was blood everywhere as well as a huge gash on his forehead. He had been in his wheelchair taking the newspaper, El País, back to Eladio when it fell off his lap. He bent down to pick it up and then fell himself, head first on the wooden floor. It was Eladio who found him spreadeagled a short while later and lying in a pool of blood. I was horrified when I saw the gash. My father had not lost consciousness though and seemed to be ok, saying his head did not hurt. But the wound was quite deep. While Eladio and Lucy bandaged it, I rang the local health centre. Getting no reply I rang the emergency number 112. They wanted to send an ambulance to take him to a hospital but we were reluctant because of Covid and  preferred a doctor and nurse to come and see him. They did about an hour or so later but both agreed the gash was far too deep and would need proper surgery. The wound had no tissue and would be difficult to sew. They were more worried, however, of internal injuries and so we had no option but to take him to the hospital. The ambulance arrived at around 4 pm and I went in it with him. He was on a stretcher and was wearing a face mask for the first time. Of course as he hasn't left the house since lock down, that was a first for him. I wanted a photo for the girls and asked him to smile as much as he could and he told me he could laugh if I wanted. He was in good spirits and I guess he was quite enjoying the adventure. It's not often he gets out so I actually think he didn't mind at all. 

My father in the ambulance on Wednesday afternoon

The ambulance team who were marvelous, reassured me that there were very few Covid cases at the hospital we were going to, the brand new Rey Juan Carlos in Móstoles. I know it well. Sadly it is where my dear friend Fátima died. The team told me that in any case A+E was divided into two sections, non Covid (clean) and Covid (dirty!). We, of course,went to the former. I was worried we would be sitting in a waiting room with lots of people but no, my father was wheeled straight inside. I was allowed to accompany him to explain what had happened but was then told I couldn't stay with him as during the pandemic no one is allowed to accompany patients. Later though a nurse rang me to say I could be with him (hurray). That was because the doctor in charge of my father factored in his age (101) and communication problems. Although my father knows lots of languages, including Spanish, he hears very badly and needs me for communication. After explaining to her what had happened, she wanted to make sure he was lucid. So I had to ask my father two questions: where we were and what his age was. He passed the test very well of course. She then looked at the wound and confirmed the earlier opinion, that he would need proper surgeons to stitch it. But first she wanted him to have a scan and a blood test. That took a while and waiting for the results did too. My father was in a private box as it seemed all patients were and I was not allowed out and both of us had to wear our masks throughout. I was relieved to see the precautionary measures in place. Besides, I later heard there were hardly any cases at this hospital, there being more of them at an older hospital in Móstoles nearby. Thank goodness for that. The results brought good news. There was no internal injury to be seen. The doctor pointed out that there could be later so he would have to stay the night and we would also have to look out for any strange symptoms over the next few days. The surgeons came later. The two men looked very experienced and knew exactly what to do. I thought they would take him to an operating theater but no they stitched him up in the box, another precautionary measure I suppose. I don't quite know how they managed to sew the wound which was very wide, deep,  devoid of tissue with his scull completely exposed. But they performed their magic and thanks to the anesthesia, my father didn't feel a thing. He was stoic throughout, never complaining and I think we were all amazed at how he took it. Most old people would have grumbled and complained but not my father who was brought up to "be a good beast and suffer in silence". If he suffered it wasn't because of pain but because he wanted to go home. I did too, but there was nothing we could do to avoid one night in hospital. I have to say that he was very well looked after and I saw nothing but efficiency. We were lucky too that there were few patients.  We were also lucky that there was no internal damage. Equally comforting was the support I got from his GP, Doctora Martín. I had written to her on whatsapp when he fell. She was on holiday but even so wrote back and in fact was writing to me all day and until late at night. I was very touched. She didn't have to do that and it was much appreciated. 

Later nurses came to apply a special dressing and they added a bandage all around his head to put pressure on it. What with the turban like bandage and the mask, he looked so funny, sort of Turkish except that he has blue eyes. Here he is again, smiling for the camera.

My father after surgery

They then gave him antibiotics and he was on a glucose drip but not allowed to eat or drink anything until the next morning. I did manage to get a sleeping tablet for him though. He found it hard to sleep. In Spain, there is a custom of family members staying overnight with patients. I don't get why as the person accompanying hardly ever gets any sleep although a comfortable chair is provided. It should be the nurses who look after the patients, not family members. So, when my father, was dozing off, it was getting late and I was extremely tired so decided to leave him to sleep, go home, get some sleep myself in my own bed and come back the next day. I left by taxi and was home by around 11 pm. I didn't sleep well reeling from the shock of the day. 

I was up at 6.30 on Thursday morning and keen to get to the hospital as soon as possible as the earlier we arrived the earlier my father would be discharged. I found him in good spirits and with no repercussions from his fall which was rather a miracle. His own father had fallen in his late 60's and a week later died of thrombosis and I had that on my mind the whole time. Thankfully my father must be made of stronger stuff. He has fallen countless times and although this has been one of the worst falls, he got away with it again, apart from the stay in hospital. I have told him repeatedly not to do anything to provoke a fall and to call us always. But he can be stubborn and I do not rule out him falling again. The protocol for discharging him took its time when finally a doctor gave me his report which entitled his injury as "craniofacial trauma" with a long list of conditions to look out for, etc. In the report it said a nurse from his local health centre would be coming daily to change the dressing. We were out by about 9.30 and home again very soon. My father was delighted to be back and said "home sweet home". He also added he had quite enjoyed the adventure. I suppose it was the interruption to his routine that he enjoyed most. I did not enjoy the adventure which had me both worried and exhausted. 

It was great to be home. We had lots to do that morning, mostly food shopping and I was accompanied by my dear husband. Lucy made lentils for lunch which we had with one of my pies "perushki". I then got a well needed siesta and when I was up at around 5 pm, Suzy had left to spend the night with friends; Mónica and Chati. That meant Eladio and I were on our own. Our French guests were on their own too, or rather the parents were on their own with David, their 4 year old boy who kept running round the house naked! (hahahahah). The woman's mother was supposed to be coming to stay but when she heard my father had been to a hospital she got worried about catching Covid, This is because  she is in a very vulnerable group. She is in her 70's, had a heart attack last year and is diabetic. I am absolutely convinced that with all the precautions, we did not bring the virus into our home but she is still worried. Instead, Eva, went to stay with her.  However, she must have changed her mind as she is coming back today. Thus the house was very quiet until yesterday. I enjoyed reading in the garden until it was time to watch Oli on the TV and then have dinner with Eladio. 

Oli looked spectacular that day. I told her to congratulate her hairdresser who had done a great job. 

Oli ready to go live on Thursday

She was actually on twice but we only saw her the first time. Later she sent us the links so I can share the second appearance with you. It was about the banning of smoking in Galicia because of Covid.  This is it.  Meanwhile Miguel was in sole charge of Elliot as he has been all week. He sent me a great photo of our soon to be 11 month old grandson, one I love and want to share with you. He looks far older than his age don't you think?

Elliot posing in between playing with a ball on Thursday - such a happy little chap

He is a very happy little chap but he is also a very determined toddler. He can now crawl up steps as you can see in a funny video his father sent me and which I added to my You Tube channel here. I love it and hope you find it funny too. Shortly after he was reunited with his mother, the highlight of both their days in this lovely photo she sent us later.

Oli and Elliot reunited on Thursday

It was just Eladio and I that night for dinner and we enjoyed the peace and silence. Our meal was accompanied by a bottle of natural Asturian cider, Suzy's friend, Elenita, had brought us back from Asturias where she had been on holiday. We love the cider from that area. It has to be poured from high so as to preserve the sparkle and it was Eladio's job to do that. There is a special name for pouring cider in Asturias which is "escanciar" (the verb) which is nearly an art although these days you can buy special machines that do it automatically. We shall be investing in one when we move into our new house in September.

Eladio pouring cider the Asturian way on Thursday night

We managed to watch the news that night. For once there was some good and non Covid related news. The Israeli Prime Minister, Netanyahu, announced an historic peace deal with the United Arab Emirates. The deal normalises their relations with Israel announcing in exchange that it will stop its controversial plans to annex more of the West Bank. I really hope that is true. The only Arab states that had diplomatic ties with Israel until yesterday were Jordan and Egypt. Hopefully now with the UAE added, more countries in the area will lengthen the list. That would be great.

As to the news of coronavirus, it just gets direr and direr. France and Spain announced surges in numbers of new cases and the UK has now added France to the countries where quarantine is obligatory upon return to the UK. I was thinking of our friends Kath and Phil who are currently in France who will now face quarantine when they get back. They decided to stay and enjoy another week or so of the holiday and aren't too bothered about self isolating as they are both retired. I thought they had taken the right decision. 

The day ended with us watching a new film on Netflix, "Captain Philips" about a ship being hijacked in Somalia and based on a true story. I don't know whether it was good or bad as I fell asleep half way through.

I woke up at 5.40 on Friday morning to complete darkness but couldn't sleep anymore so up I got. I think I even surprised the dogs. It was another quiet day. Eladio and I went out on errands, first to our bank and then to El Corte Inglés, a big department store. While there we had a relaxing cup of coffee at Starbucks and were home at midday. Lunch was in the making and I spent time reading again. I had finished "The Winemaker's wife" and was reading another book by the same author, Kristin Harmel, also set in Nazi occupied France in WW2. "The book of lost names" is the story of a young Jewish woman who becomes a forger of documents that saved thousands of lives. I found it fascinating. I read it in two days and an now hooked on Harmel's WW2 stories and began "The Sweetness of Forgetting" on Saturday. But I put it down for a while when I came across Mary Trump's biography of her uncle Donald Trump and that makes for fascinating reading, I can tell you. 

I devoured "The book of lost names" in the afternoon but was interrupted occasionally by my 4 year old guest, David. I had to take him to the swings and talk and play with him. I think he was missing his sister and was bored, even of the swimming pool. He has been her since the middle of July and has hardly been out so the novelty is probably wearing off. I think he found the house very quiet too as did I. Suzy wasn't there either as she had gone out to see her friend Juli and we wouldn't see her again until the next morning. 

Soon it was time to watch Oli on TV.  You can see her presenting here. I knew what she would be talking about as that day the Spanish Minister of Health announced new measures to combat new outbreaks of the damned virus. They were measures that would affect the whole of Spain  and included no smoking outdoor (unless a safety distance of 2 metres can be maintained), all night life banned and the recommendation that people stick to their bubbles. Well, we certainly stick to ours as much as we can. At restaurants we feel safe though as the tables are very distanced. Thankfully there was no ban on movement or closing of frontiers. That afternoon I got a booking for a room in this house from a French couple coming at the beginning of September. But who knows whether they will be able to come. I am crossing my fingers and I imagine they are too as they are coming to settle their daughter into the local UEM University. Who knows too whether schools and Universities will be able to function normally again from September.

Being Friday night, we went out to dinner and chose El Tinglado where we went with the girls and Elliot the week before. We had a lovely dinner together al fresco. I chose salmorejo made of beetroot. Salmorejo is a dish from Córdoba, similar to gazpacho but thicker. For my second course I chose clams but had to give them back as they were full of bits of grit. Thus Eladio shared his second course with me, batter fried cod. 

Eladio at El Tinglado yesterday

I love the menu at El Tinglado except for the desserts. I always want ice cream which they don't have so once home had a couple of scoops of some delicious chocolate and mint ice cream I had in the deep freeze.

Saturday was not a quiet day. Our guests from France announced they were having friends round for a barbecue which mean plans for our own barbecue went out of the window. As I told you last week we never let guests bring other guests but have had to make an exception with this family. I also told you it won't happen again. I felt invaded. Eladio was less bothered and thankfully the girls were out. They had gone to Avila to Copi's mother, Celeste's birthday party. I was worried about Covid but Oli assured me they were less than 10 and would take great care. Copi is their friend from school and was in Suzy's class. They met on the first day of school at St. Michael's which our girls didn't join until November as we had just moved house. They were 3 and 4 at the time. I remember in the hallway Suzy spying a small girl and saying "Who is that little black girl over there? I want to be her friend". Well, they have been friends ever since and Copi, short for Copito, is part of our family. Her real name is Ana María but for a reason unknown to me was called "Copito", after the albino gorilla at the zoo in Barcelona who was famous at the time. Miguel sent me a photo of the three of them with Elliot which I treasure and am happy to share here.

From left to right: Suzy, Elliot, Oli and Copi yesterday

I don't think Suzy had seen Copi since my father's 100th birthday and yesterday was a very special day for them. Copi is makeup artist as well as hair stylist and works in a beauty salon. Yesterday she applied her art to Suzy. As children she used to put make up on them and when I saw the photo below it took me back years in time. 

Copi the make up artist applying make up on Suzy yesterday

She also did Suzy's hair in lots of wonderful plaits as you can see in the photo below.

Copi worked her magic on Suzy's hair too.

As you can see Suzy took her ukelele along and no doubt entertained everyone yesterday at the birthday party. Ah and here are the two of them together, still the greatest of friends after more than 33 years. And long may that friendship prosper.

Copi and Suzy reunited

I wished I had gone with them as our day was invasive but on the other hand relaxing. Lunch was leftovers and I spent most of the day reading. Ah, but I also attended remotely to guest bookings and requests and was happy to get a new booking for Santa Pola at the end of the month. Now nearly all of August is full. I am not sure September will be the same. No doubt my guests will all be nationals as there is little hope for tourists from the UK and now Germany which has also imposed restrictions on travel to Spain due to Covid. 

The numbers keep going up, in Spain and everywhere. The total number of cases worldwide stood last night at nearly 21.5 million with an overall death toll of 766.194. The US, Brazil, India, Russia and South Africa top the table with Spain coming 10th and the UK 12th. There is no sign of abatement and there is an increase in spikes in countries where the curve had been flattened. The curve is going up again. One of the reasons is that so many more tests are being done, with half of the infected not having any symptoms. The average age of those infected in Spain is now under 40 and the mortality rate is very low which is perhaps why the country is not going into lockdown. It seems the onus is on the behaviour of young people, generally unafraid of the virus and fed up of restrictions. With no night life and street parties banned I wonder how they are  going to entertain themselves. Meanwhile on the border of France and the UK, British and French tourists were rushing to their respective countries last night to avoid 14 days quarantine. Why on earth didn't the British government give their subjects more warning instead of causing chaos at the border and thousands of people having to drive for hours and hours to try and make it on time? The German government issued a similar warning yesterday with Spain (with the exception of the Canary islands) and saw its over 300.000 nationals frantically trying to return home, mostly from the Balearic islands. Apparently, in Majorca, they make up 90% of tourists. That of course has put the final nail in the coffin for international tourism this summer in Spain and what that means for the economy of the country. I consider myself lucky to have had so many Airbnb and direct bookings this summer, thanks to national tourists. No doubt though I would have had more if it hadn't been for Covid. As my GP said this week, our lives have changed forever. I do hope he is wrong.

Today is Sunday and will be quiet until this afternoon and evening. The French family's grandmother and their daughter Eva will be returning. So will Suzy at some time today and in the evening Oli will be coming with Elliot as Miguel has to go back to Valencia where he will working this week. It will be full house again tonight but not for long. We shall be on grandparent duty tomorrow and Tuesday. On Wednesday of course, Covid permitting, we shall be off to Portugal. Ah, and like our friends Kathy and Phil in France, if restrictions are imposed and we have to self quarantine we shall do that. The worst would be if we have to self quarantine in Portugal. If that is so, then we won't go. 

Now my friends, I have come to the end of the tales of this week and it is time to sign off, publish this post and give a hard copy to my father. You will be pleased to hear he is very well, after the great shock he gave us this week. 

Next week, "inshala", I will be writing from Nazaré, that lovely old fishing town in Portugal. Cheers till then,

Masha.